Why do China men seldom marry American women?

One of the characteristics of our society is that there are more men than women, because? Monks have more meat and less meat? Young men's marrying has also become a topic of social concern. In order to solve the spouse problem, it was suggested that? Transnational marriage? That is, intermarry with neighboring countries such as Vietnam, Ukraine and Russia. However, in transnational marriage, people will find a phenomenon that China men rarely marry American women.

You know, the United States is a superpower in the world and enjoys many hegemonic rights in politics, economy, science and technology, culture and so on. Why do women in China, a superpower, seldom get married? To put it bluntly, it is cultural differences.

Racial differences Although the United States is an immigrant country, many of them are white people from Europe and America. White people are taller than yellow people, so American women are definitely taller than China boys. Marrying a woman taller than herself is unacceptable to many men in China.

Second, male chauvinism. American women can't stand China's feudal thoughts for more than two thousand years. That is, the man is the head of the family and the wife must listen to the man. I can only tolerate my cheating, and my wife can't cheat. Men like to mock their wives in front of friends, but ask them to give themselves face in front of friends.

In some family affairs, men don't listen to their wives' suggestions or opinions at all, so men in China subconsciously have a kind of male chauvinism, which is very strong.

Influenced by western feminism, American women have a heavy concept of equality, which is unbearable.

It is difficult for a couple to get along with each other. Husband and wife life is not the only thing in marriage, but it is an important part of marriage happiness. In order to fulfill their husbands' male chauvinism, women in China are more likely to put on airs in front of outsiders, that is, they will give their husbands enough face outside. American women, influenced by western cultural differences, will not pretend in their husband and wife lives. They will express their psychological feelings more truly, rather than implicitly or euphemistically, which makes it difficult for both sides to communicate and achieve harmony.

What American women say will directly hurt men's self-esteem. Influenced by traditional culture, China people speak tactfully, so the communication between husband and wife is useful. Women in China, in particular, are famous for their gentleness, and they speak tactfully without losing their discretion.

However, American women are influenced by western European culture. They speak directly, are not considerate and don't know what to say. The art of speaking is to say what you have. Nowadays, many of these young men find it difficult for this girl to be more open, speak more wild, and don't care about the secrets between couples, which makes China men often feel that their self-esteem has been stabbed, which also makes China men sometimes stay away from American women out of face considerations.

Five? The influence of the concept of fairness on American women's equality between men and women is a headache for men in China. Presumably, the violent attack on American wife Kim by Li Yang, the founder of Crazy English, caused quite a stir, and his wife finally divorced. Now Li Yang has lost everything and has not turned over.

This incident was hyped up, mainly because this American woman faced unfair treatment in marriage and dared to take out public opinion and legal weapons to fight back against her abusive husband. However, women in China usually suffer humiliation or submit to humiliation after domestic violence, or end up in silent divorce. As a result of this cultural conflict between China and the West, China men encounter many headaches and things that are difficult to communicate in their personal communication with the United States as the representative, so many feelings end before they start.

Six? Differences in Values China's education tends to be traditional and frugal, which is invisible in China's traditional concept. While American women are more open about sex and spend more money, which China boys can't stand. Therefore, even if many China men immigrate to the United States, they are not willing to marry American women, but prefer China women to marry, which is elegant and gentle and meets the aesthetic needs of China men.