What excuse should I make up to comfort the elderly when my family dies?

This is a very sad thing. As a relative, it is also difficult to tell white lies. Even if you cheat for a while, the feeling in your heart is very uncomfortable. But even if you feel sad, lie to the old man. Old people can't stand white-haired people sending black-haired people. You can only play it by ear and hide it as much as possible. There is no way but to find some excuses to prevaricate. When the old man asks, you can find someone who is busy or has a similar voice to cheat occasionally!