My husband has not been back home for 18 years abroad. I am a woman raising two children at home. Now they are all grown up and have a family. I also have a man. We both love each other.

This situation generally has the following possibilities:

1. He has a family outside and has no feelings for you, your children, or your family.

1. Too busy at work and unable to earn a living (the reason for not having a chance in 18 years is not valid)

2. The income is too low (the reason for accumulating over 18 years is not valid)

3 , is terminally ill, and if there should be any clues in contacting him, there is no reason.

In response to the above, you should have the courage to tell your children what you really think about what it means to a woman to have a home without a man for 18 years. An 18-year-old child can understand it. A person can abandon his family and his children for 18 years for any reason, and he really does not deserve to have this family.

The above is your own discretion