How children feel after illness.

Lead: Mothers who have no parenting experience often make their children suffer a lot because of their ignorance. Below, I will organize articles for you and share your child's feelings after illness. I hope it will help everyone.

After the child got sick, parents realized that it was really enough for some time. Dabao has a fever, and Bao Xiao has diarrhea. Coincidentally, Bao Xiao had a bad diarrhea that night. We're taking him to the hospital. Dabao began to have a fever of 38 degrees, and his friend joked, "twins!" "

This time, Bao Xiao's diarrhea is still quite serious. He went to the hospital for a test. It was bacillary dysentery. After three days of infusion, he often reads some books saying that the resistance that children bring from their mothers after half a year will decrease. It seems really accurate. Bao Xiao began to get sick when he was seven months old.

It is true that children get sick from their mouths. This time, Bao Xiao fell ill for this reason. He loves to eat his fingers and sucks them in his mouth from time to time. I think it is normal for children to eat their fingers. He used to suck his fingers in the womb for ten months. Some people say that children who love to eat fingers are good. These ideas are all wrong. It is very unsanitary to prevent children from getting into the habit of eating fingers. This time, the doctor said that Bao Xiao had loose bowels because of eating. Secondly, I also said the wrong old saying, "It's okay to eat unclean things." I've been thinking about whether I can raise my children too expensive. On the one hand, I have this old saying to guide them. On the other hand, I don't think food is a pure market now. I'm afraid my children are too clean at home, and they will get sick more easily if they come into contact with the outside world or go to kindergarten in the future. Therefore, in addition to washing your face and hands early and washing with bath at night, washing your hands at other times is just soaking. Go out to play thinking that the child is still young and hasn't let him touch the things around him. Just come back and wash it with clean water. These are the causes of diarrhea in children. So I must pay attention to this aspect in the future. I must wash my hands frequently and buy hand sanitizer for my children. Adults should also wash their hands frequently and hold their children, especially when breastfeeding, otherwise it will be passed on to their children.

After the injection, Bao Xiao stopped diarrhea, but two days later he began to have a fever. What a poor thing! Speaking of this fever, I have nothing to do with it. The nanny with the child caught a cold, and Dabao just had a fever because of a little cold. What you said should be completely isolated from them, but I think the child has just had an injection and should be resistant. Secondly, I'm not too embarrassed to say nanny, "You have a cold. Don't touch the child and stay away from the child. " So let the children suffer again, alas! In fact, at this time, the child's resistance is very low and should not be close to these sources. Adults must stay away from children when they are sick in the future. Children's small bodies are not so strong.

I feel lucky that my child is ill. When my daughter was born, a friend who was a pediatrician of traditional Chinese medicine came to visit me and my children. She taught me the Three Character Classics of Parenting, which I recalled and summarized with my personal experience as follows:

First of all, we must guard against "fire"

As a child's mother, we should have a strong sense of "fire" and find that the fire is extinguished in time to avoid future troubles.

The "fire" here refers to the internal fire that children can easily enter. People often say, "children are afraid of fire, and only when there is fire can they get sick." Children are "pure yang", with strong vitality, rapid metabolism, rapid growth and development, and easy imbalance between yin and yang, that is, "getting angry". The phenomenon of "getting angry" is not only easy to occur in dry autumn and winter, but also in changing seasons or hot summer. So children can also toss their parents at these critical points.

If you can ensure that there is no fire in your child's body, basically parents will not be in a hurry to take their children to the hospital!

Generally, the fire will not start at once, and the child's internal fire will not suddenly break out. There are usually signs that can be found.

The old Chinese doctor taught me: Give your child a bath every day or before going to bed, and pay attention to several key points of the child-

1. anus: the anus of a child is pink when it is normal, and it will appear red when there is heat in the intestine. The darker the color, the greater the fire in the body.

Once it is found to be red, it is necessary to give children some vegetables or fruits to dispel the fire, such as tomatoes, cabbage kernels, sugarcane juice, or drink some light bamboo leaf water and light rattan tea.

Generally, honey is dripped with shredded pear, shredded white radish and shredded lotus root, and the juice is poured out for children to eat and drink, which is very useful. In short, it must be something that children like and accept, but not too cold.

At this time, we must remember not to let children eat too much, especially high-calorie food, and try not to eat it. Fast food is absolutely forbidden.

2. canthus: if there is gum in the corner of the eye, it means that the child is angry. At this time, children are often prone to lose their temper and disobey. You can spread raw celery with peanut butter and sugar, or squeeze some celery juice to cook porridge.

3. Tongue: If the child's tongue and tongue edge are red, it means that there is a heart fire.

At this time, children generally love thirst during the day, toss at night and can't sleep well.

There are many foods to dispel the heart fire. For example, in summer, you can buy fresh lotus seeds and peel them directly for children to eat. And water bamboo and eggplant. It is best to stir-fry and steam, and don't use too much oil.

4. Corner of the mouth: After careful observation, some children often have "white stubble" in their mouths, which is caused by dry mouth, indicating that they have a temper.

You can find persimmon cream on persimmons to wash for children, or buy carambola for children to eat.

If the tongue is sour, yellow and greasy, give the child some small Chinese medicine such as Baoding and put out the fire as soon as possible, otherwise, the child will soon give you some color to see see.

5. Defecation: Every time a child defecates, parents should observe whether the child is relaxed and smooth, and how the child looks. If the child is very painful, it takes a lot of effort to get out, and the stool is not soft or yellow, and there is bad breath at the same time, it is stomach fire.

Try to let the children have an empty stomach, eat less, drink millet porridge, lily porridge, boiled water or juice, which can eliminate stomach fire.

6, palm: always hold the child's small hand, just touch the child's palm, if it is cool and humid, then you can rest assured. If it is dry and hot, and you still sweat at night, it is a virtual fire. Such children are physically weak, can't eat cold food, and are not easy to get hurt.

It's a good idea to pinch him and rub his soles. Generally, children under the age of seven or eight do not need medication, and massage can solve the problem.

Second, prevent "withering"

There are signs before a child has a fever, cold or illness. Generally, it is necessary to deal with it in time, drink more hot water, cover the quilt and lie flat to rest, which will turn the corner or alleviate the symptoms.

Like frost flowers, drooping, not talking, or fidgeting and shirking inexplicably are all unwell languages. These children can't express themselves, but adults should see it from their body language.

Also, judging whether a child has a fever because he has played too much or is really sick can also be judged from whether he is "faded". If it's okay and the child doesn't feel bad, he should play and eat. No one is unhappy. This ruler is the most effective for judging children's acute rash.

Third, prevent "drought"

It is said that children are watery and lovely, which is true, because children contain more water than adults, of which about 75% is water! Moreover, the total size of children is small, and if there is a lack of water, it is not a small percentage. Therefore, the general child is sick, and water shortage is an important reason. In other words, the child did not drink water in time when it was time to drink water.

Generally, children should drink warm boiled water and thin water when they get up in the morning, eat fruit in the morning, go out to play during the day, and bring water, and drink water at most half an hour. Dare not drink more water before going to bed at night. Children with small bladders can't sleep well if they drink too much water. But drink water an hour before going to bed, so that most of the "toxins" in the lower coke can be discharged before going to bed.

"Don't wait until you are thirsty to drink water" is the principle that mothers should teach their children to drink water from an early age, which will benefit their children for life! Because the body is full of water, it can function normally and there will be no problems.

I firmly remember the "three-character classic" of this old Chinese doctor. Sharp-eyed, hard-working, children are also taken good care of from now on, and they don't like getting sick.

Here, I would also like to introduce the experience I got from a female doctor in rehabilitation department in Xinjiang when I was a Canadian immigration doctor: I often massage my children, not only growing up, but also I don't like getting sick. The key part she told me was:

The sides, palms and soles of the fingers: frequent friction can dispel fire.

Both sides of knee joint: promote blood circulation, supply articular cartilage nutrition and strengthen spleen.

From the center of the top of the head to the end of the caudal vertebra: this is where the bladder meridian runs and promotes intellectual development.

Later, I followed her method, which was very effective. I also summed up an experience myself:

Every time the child sleeps, put your hand behind the child's head and touch it all the way from Dazhui. If you find that the temperature is higher than other places, such as Shu Fei, which corresponds to the lungs, then the child has heat in his lungs, so you must find a way to drive away the lung fire; See if the stool is dry. If so, you have to have loose bowels, eat some lily porridge, cold lettuce, or drink some sesame oil and rock sugar water on an empty stomach.

If the bladder temperature is high, you should drink plenty of water. You can cook some houttuynia cordata or dandelion properly to excrete damp heat through urine.

"If you want your children to suffer less, being a mother is much more complicated." Think about it, is this the reason?

However, on the other hand, even the kind of fatigue I mentioned above should be much easier than serving children with fever and illness. At least when you do these things I teach you, your mood is cheerful, which not only prevents diseases, but also promotes the parent-child relationship with your children. Moreover, even if any mother can bear hardships, she doesn't want to suffer from watching her children suffer hardships and torturing her soul!

Who will stop the baby's "fire" mother from learning to be a personal masseur?

Once the child is found to be on fire, parents should "put out the fire" for the child in time. Liu Na recommended a set of massage methods for removing fire. "For children before the age of 8, massage is the best way. I remember a Chinese doctor said that the child is pure yang, and the medicine that can cure his illness is on him,' he has his own panacea'. My daughter has a caesarean section. I'm a doctor. I know that children born by caesarean section are particularly prone to congenital sensory impairment because they are not squeezed by the birth canal. I often give her a touch massage when the child is born. "

1 chiropractic

The specific method is: put your hand on the child's spine and feel the heat everywhere. This place should be rubbed from bottom to top, so that the fire can be removed. Whether you love sick children or not, chiropractic twice a day can increase immunity.

2. Massage Tianzhu Point

Some children are weak. How can parents make their weak children strong? There is a particularly good acupoint, Tianzhu. There are two tendons at the back of the neck, and Tianzhu point is just behind the bulge. Regular massage can stimulate this place. Do it often and the child's fire will go down.

3, scraping Dazhui point

Children often cough, but they have lung heat. You can use a scraping board to scrape near Dazhui point, where there will be red tuberculosis.

Step 4 massage tiantu point

Some children are particularly prone to bronchitis and cough, so they can massage two acupoints. One is where the child's second clavicle meets the shoulder joint. It can be pressed frequently, which is especially beneficial to prevent cough. The other is tiantu point, which is in the middle of clavicle.

5. the midpoint of sandalwood

Children with poor immunity should take a soft dry towel and rub it among sandalwood before going to bed every night. /kloc-before the age of 0/4, the child's thymus is still working. Regular massage can make thymocytes more active and make the immune system stronger.

6. Rub your fingers

Parents are advised to send their children to kindergarten in the morning, or when walking, they can often rub the sides of their fingers. This corresponds to the child's digestive tract, which is very beneficial for removing fire, eliminating food accumulation and increasing immunity. The fingers are connected, and the communication between mother and child can also be transmitted by hand.

7. Rub your feet

You can rub your child's feet at night. There are two pieces of meat on the soles of your feet with a pit in the middle. This place is Yongquan point, which is the reflection area of the kidney, and the energy of the human body is poured out from this place. Always rub Yongquan point for children, the fire poison in the body will be discharged, and the body function will be healthier.

Reminder: Close the doors and windows when massaging. Watch the flow.

Liu Na reminded that when parents massage or scrape their children, they must be careful not to have runny nose or let them catch cold. Because giving a child a massage or scraping is tantamount to promoting blood circulation, and the pores are open. At this time, wind evil will come in and aggravate the condition. The doors and windows of the room must be closed before treatment. For example, if the child has lung fever, press these two places for him more. The vitality of the child is hidden in this place. Parents often give him a rub, and the child will feel very comfortable. For these acupoints on the body, you can often stimulate them to make the meridians more accessible and make the immune system play a better role.