Immigration and emotional problems

Tell her you're leaving. You should go together. If she loves you, she will persuade her family to go with you.

If you stay at home for family, then I suggest you. You'd better not get married, because you will hurt a family. Because you are gambling, gambling is your marriage. If this life develops well, it may be nothing. If you don't develop well, you will blame her all your life, and your family is not harmonious.