Preschool children's psychological education books are recommended as "suitable for parent-child parenting and educators"

I'll write a little prequel first. I have taught IELTS and adult English before, and I have been doing research on adult language learning myself. Later, students invited me to do parent-child English, so I reviewed and studied some contents of children's language and education. There are academic and popular science, so I won't say what it is. Wide audience really doesn't mean good, hehe.

This paper sorts out and recommends books that are easy to read but have high scientific credibility in the market. The recommended principle is to develop the brain. Material selection is basically:

1, introduced many times and reprinted many times.

2. For books that focus on empirical research, it is best to have large sample data to support the research conclusions.

3, not superstitious about any e-commerce ranking.

4. My personal verification is more objective, scientific and reasonable.

In order to save reading time, I divide them into compulsory and elective categories. Finally, add some children's financial education and books recommended to boys and girls.

Compulsory course:

1, American Academy of Pediatrics Parenting Encyclopedia

This book has not been opened from beginning to end, because there is a lot of medical significance, but it is not suitable for life guidance.

The meaning of this book is to look at keywords, search and browse.

Although I am an educator, I still want to talk about some basic knowledge. The two most important things in a child's life are health and good sleep. This is the most fundamental. If these two points can't be done, I will recommend all the books to you later today for nothing, because the theme I recommend today is brain development, which is based on the premise that the first two are satisfied.

2. Spock parenting classics

The author of this book is called the father of parenting. The advantages of this book are all-encompassing. If you don't have much time to read, this book covers the common parenting phenomena of 0- 18 years old, from physiology to psychology. It is not only convenient to consult, but also can solve most problems.

The golden five years of brain development for 3.0-5 years old.

As the name implies, it was written by a neurobiologist.

4. "Lifelong Brain Development Course for Children"

Written by Tsinghua University undergraduate Dr. Angelababy. She put the preface of her book on the Weibo. I won't post it because it's too long. The author's self-report is more meaningful than my recommendation.

5. Special recommendation for children's language acquisition: to be a child's English learning planner.

Teacher Gai Zhaoquan's book from FLTRP. She has been deeply involved in China children's English acquisition for 20 years, and this set of books has supported countless children's language learning from the media.

Selected reading classes:

1, minimalist parental rules

Mainly because parents have principles and flexibility.

2. Parenting guide for economists

Economists' parenting strategies, I think everyone needs to study economics.

3. Japanese parenting: parenting series for sophomores in Qiao Ming.

The author has been doing children's education in Japan all his life, cultivating children's mental health and parenting ideas and books, and helping millions of children in Japan grow up happily.

4. Montessori fans: "Montessori Family Education Solution, American Official Edition"

Perfect home school textbooks are also used by parents of Montessori schools in the United States.

5. The mystery of children's growth: 50 misunderstandings that affect parents' views on parenting.

The authors are two very famous professors of child psychology at Southern Illinois University.

This book can be said to be the root of the half-baked child development theory in the market.

It reveals 50 mysteries about children's growth and what the scientific method should be.

6. "I hope my parents have read this book", and the English name is "The book you hope your parents have read".

If you are a parent, you must read this book, and your baby will be glad that you read it.

This world bestseller is very unique. From the perspective of children's future, let parents examine their current behavior!

This is not a parenting guide. Instead, we use the theory of child psychology to explain the parent-child relationship and family member relationship thoroughly, so that parents can live more comfortably and freely.

7. Suitable for educators: the miracle of classroom 56

The writer is Rafe, a fifth-grade teacher in a primary school in Los Angeles, USA. Inside the cover, there is such a glamorous introduction:

In the school where Rafe teaches, 90% of the students come from poor families, and most of them come from non-English-speaking countries. Surprisingly, the children in Mr Rafe's class scored in the top 5% in the national standardized test (AST). Now, many of his students have been admitted to Harvard, Princeton, Stanford and other famous American schools, and he has also won the "Presidential National Art Award" in the United States.

what can I say? This teacher is really good and works hard. Just like Suhomlinski. Full of love for students. I'm afraid many parents can't be so meticulous and thoughtful.

8. "Parents' Effectiveness Training"

This book is recommended by many people. This book is a classic of parent-child communication. Author Gordon creatively put forward the principle of problem attribution, that is, whoever's needs are not met, then the problem belongs to him and needs to be solved by him. (Note: The problem here belongs to the party concerned, not to the party who did something wrong)

Active discipline of 9-year-old children aged 0-3

This book clearly tells us: "Mother, we should always be kind and firm."

The so-called positive discipline is to educate children in a loving way, establish a deep and unconditional emotional connection with children, and help children form a healthy sense of security attachment. Its focus is not on severe punishment, but on truly teaching children skills and inducing truly healthy behaviors.

This book talks about many tools and skills of positive discipline, such as diverting attention, counting down, providing choices, doing instead of saying, etc. It is very effective for children.

10, developmental psychology: children and adolescents

Starting from a small fertilized egg, it expounds in detail the physical development, cognitive development, intelligence, language, emotion, self-concept, gender cognition and social development of infants and adolescents.

For example, how heredity affects children's development level, how newborn babies see, hear and perceive the outside world step by step, what is the basic learning process in infancy, how to capture the critical period of children's ability development, when is the accelerated period of brain development, how is the plasticity of the nervous system ... and so on, you can find most puzzles about children's physical, psychological, cognitive and social development in this book.

In particular, the book cited a large number of experimental data and research literature, making the book more scientific and instructive. What's more, the professionalism of the content has not affected its readability at all. You'll know when you read it. The language organization of the book is very popular and fluent. After reading it all, you will get clear dry goods, which are not obscure or boring at all.

1 1. Recommend a more academic book: 20 Studies on Changing Children's Psychology.

This book is of great academic value, really valuable. It is especially important for educators. Written professionally, it introduces in detail 20 classic studies in the field of child psychology. For example, the famous rhesus monkey experiment, cotton candy delayed gratification experiment, Piaget's four stages of cognitive development, Vygotsky's "zone of proximal development" and so on, you can find the detailed experimental process in this book, including samples, materials, experimental content, the performance of the experimental group and the control group, and the final conclusion.

12, game power

Playing with power is also a kind of parenting style, which is different from the previous "serious" parenting style. This book advocates establishing a healthy connection with children through the game mode of "playing for him", so that children can dominate the game, solve problems, seek satisfaction and self-confidence in interaction with others.

In addition, games can also help solve children's daily behavior problems, so that children can learn skills without pressure and fear.

13, parents' language: 30 million words to build a stronger learning brain. I am very familiar with the contents of this book. I wrote this theory about four years ago.

This is a book to help children learn languages.

The concept of "30 million words" comes from a study-the influence of children's early language ability on their final academic performance. The researchers followed 42 families from different economic classes and recorded the growth process of children from 9 months to 3 years old. The conclusion shows that:

"In different families, the number of words used by parents is amazing. In the past three years, the number of words heard by children from families with insufficient corpora is130,000, while the number of words heard by children from families with rich corpora is 45 million, a difference of 32 million. (No repetition, including repeated words) "

Finance and business education:

1, against doting

This book is Ron Lieber's Anti-coquetry (English name: antonym of coquetry).

There are not only a large number of financial and business enlightenment contents, but also emphasis on giving children a correct view of money and values through family education, and telling parents how to cultivate their self-control, choice, optimism and perseverance through these financial and business enlightenment contents.

For example, cultivate patience through children's pocket money, and cultivate the wisdom of choice by teaching children to spend wisely.

The original "Anti-coquetry" and "The Opposite of coquetry" are still very powerful. After publication, it ranked first in Amazon's financial and business education for three consecutive years.

It is a bestseller of The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal and Forbes.

It has also published more than ten language versions in English, German, Korean and Polish.

2. Puppy Qian Qian

The famous dog Qian Qian.

Girls only:

1, raising girls

This book is divided into three parts to tell everything about girls: five stages of girls, five dangerous areas of girls, girls and parents. Suitable for all parents with daughters.

2. Girl's body book

It's like talking to a child face to face. It tells the story of adolescence kindly and easily. More like a whisper between friends. This is a book really suitable for teenagers.

Exclusive to boys:

1, boy's body book

Give parents with boys a good book to deal with boys' growth and adolescent anxiety.

This is the Boy's Body Book written by Carey Dunham, which is a classic encyclopedia of American teenagers' growth. Tell it to the parents of 8- 16-year-old adolescent boys to help them overcome their confusion.

2. Raising Boys Series "Raising Boys"+"Cultivating Boys with High Emotional Intelligence"

This set is written by the author of the best-selling EQ series, which is very deep.

Including the lack of emotional education for boys, the pain and emotional loss caused by tough guy culture, the beast and prince in boys' hearts (pride and destructiveness), the relationship between father and son: the indifference between men, the relationship between mother and son: the independence of mother and son, and the relationship between men's sex and love.

It is very suitable for parents of boys to read, so that you can cultivate an excellent, gentle and independent boy.

The above are the books that I personally think are worth reading after careful selection. As a teacher, I hope all parents can understand that every child is unique, admit the uniqueness of the child, don't label the child, conform to the child's nature, educate the child in a loving way, establish a deep and unconditional emotional connection with the child, and help the child form a healthy and safe attachment.

Love children first, then teach them to grow up.