How to deal with people who just want to play with you?

There was a touching news the other day. I believe many people have seen it? It is said that a girl went on a blind date and ordered 10 shrimp for the first time, each for 298 yuan. Turtle man left without paying.

I thought it was another tragedy of forced blind date, but later I found out that it was not a blind date, it was a robbery! Fortunately, I run fast, otherwise I don't know what to do after dinner, moth.

I don't know what happened. Let's look up at the big screen.

Posted by the introducer, the blind date girl is 3 1 year old, tall and thin, with a monthly salary of six or seven thousand yuan; The 29-year-old man is a classmate of the landlord. His family immigrated to California very early and worked in a bank.

The man recently returned to China, so the introducer arranged for them to have dinner. Unexpectedly, at the first meeting, the woman ordered 10 shrimp sashimi at 298 yuan each, and then ordered more than 1000 mussels, two bird's nests and other vegetarian dishes.

Boys euphemistically say that 10 shrimp is too much, and two is enough. The girl said that this shrimp bite is definitely not enough!

After ordering and chatting, the man got up and left.

The meal cost 4789 yuan, and the blind date woman clamored for an introducer to help her beg for money, and asked the man to give her half, saying that she didn't have much salary and no money.

The introducer had no choice but to give her 2000, but the blind date still felt badly wronged and kept pestering her to give her another 2000.

The introducer found a classmate, which is the blind date. The man said he wanted to spend 2000 yuan on a treat. Who knew that woman was so cruel? Isn't this woman a typical fool? She played me, so I played her.

I just want to say four words about this-well done!

1、

At present, this matter has been raging on the Internet. Many people say that this woman deserves it. It's really disgusting that the lion opens his mouth at the first meeting and doesn't treat himself as an outsider. There are also some friends who think that this person is doing a little too well.

I don't think it's right. First of all, it's the fault of the introducer. The landlord who posted the post is also quite wonderful, don't you think? My left hand is my colleague, and my right hand is my kindergarten, primary school and junior high school classmates. Didn't you even have a basic judgment when you were a matchmaker? What kind of person is a female colleague, what is her personality, and whether she is a good match with her male classmates? It's out of place. Why not be embarrassed?

Some people are born with a passion, and I don't know if marriage is too happy. They want to share with you, and they can't wait to match you when they see people of the right age around them, no matter whether they are men or dogs, they are beautiful or ugly in their hearts.

Secondly, this blind date girl, really, ordered so many dishes on the first meeting. Do you want to show your good appetite or your high taste?

This is a blind date, not a date, and the relationship has not yet been determined. Why did you kill someone? You earn six or seven thousand dollars a month, but you want to eat five thousand dollars a meal. Why don't you go to heaven?

If you are too greedy, don't be heartless.

2、

To put it bluntly, this woman doesn't really want to get along with others.

Excuse me, which girl will wipe this face on the first blind date? It seems that she hasn't eaten delicious food since she was born. She earns less money and tastes delicious. She thinks she doesn't have to pay for it herself anyway, so she will try something she doesn't usually want to eat. The result was tragic.

People who seriously want to know someone and make friends should be shy and polite when they meet for the first time. They have to explore carefully before they know each other's temper and personality, and whether they are suitable for developing into lovers and marriage partners.

You don't even know what kind of creature you are in each other's eyes. Why do you treat yourself like a princess as soon as you come up?

Now many female bloggers are saying that girls should learn to be independent, learn to be confident, and feel safe in one way or another. Such an article was so popular that boys once forgot it. In fact, we men are also very fragile and need a sense of security.

It is said that girls looking for a boyfriend are looking for someone they can entrust for life, but for boys, isn't it just looking for a wife they can entrust for life?

You can eat 5,000 yuan for a meal. Even Wang Sicong can't control you, can he?

3、

Do you know what blind date and love are most afraid of? I was supposed to see the bright moon, but the bright moon saw the ditch.

For most men, going out for a date, eating, watching movies and traveling, we don't care how much it costs. We are willing to spend money on people we like, and I am afraid to be there. I really pay so much time and energy for you, but it's not worth it!

There are many girls who like to be ambiguous, like to keep a spare tire, like to be a little princess, and like to be held in their hands. They are too confident about their own conditions, so they take others' preferences for granted.

She is always lukewarm and indifferent, unwilling to express her position or acknowledge the relationship. Others think that she already has a boyfriend, and there seem to be several. Only she thinks that she and everyone are good friends.

You want to be jealous, but you have no position; You want to be angry, but the other party accuses you of not being a man. You think each other's every move is related to yourself, but you can never prove it.

Many friends around you think you are together, but only you know that you are not. I thought it was two of a kind, but it was just me going my own way, hehe.

4、

Speaking of which, I remembered a tragic story of myself.

Last summer, I met a sister-in-law through a friend's introduction. She looks like seven points, a bit like Chingmy Yau. She is my type. When it comes to finding someone, I am a very superficial person. I only look at her appearance.

Wechat chatted for a while and found that people are good. One day, she saw an advertisement on the official WeChat account and asked me if I could invite her to dinner. She said that there is a western restaurant near the West Lake, which is great! I didn't even think about it, so I promised to say yes, and she said, then I want to eat expensive! Then Barabara said a lot of particularly warm words to me.

I thought, how expensive can a meal be? Xiao Jiang is different now, okay? I'm not a movie boy anymore. I can afford it no matter how expensive it is. So that night I combed my hair like an adult and put on a handsome suit to go to the appointment.

The other party ordered an Australian lobster, two sea cucumbers bigger than my fist, a deep-sea fish I can't name, and some other seven seven eight eight.

But I'm not afraid. I think it's ok, as long as the other person likes it. Anyway, we had a good chat. A few days later, a friend we know asked me if I was with her. I was a little shy at that time, thinking that the bullet should win soon, but I casually said no.

He said, it doesn't matter. Just now he saw another buddy in a circle of friends having a candlelight dinner with her, sending flowers or something. He was relieved that he was not with her.

I was, really, with a black question mark on my face, wondering if I had just woken up from a coma. Did I imagine everything before?

5、

A popular post on Zhihu asked why boys don't chase girls now.

I think it's not that I stopped chasing, but that this era is really cruel to boys. All the pressure is on my shoulders, and many girls are proud of each other because they like themselves. Boys feel tired, just find someone.

"My hands stretched out like this for too long, and you didn't lift them. I felt very tired and my hands were sore, so I retracted. "

It's really not that I can't afford a big meal of 5000 yuan, but that I don't think you deserve to eat with me. With this time and energy, I might as well play more the glory of the king at home.

As they say-if life can't be wasted on people who are worth it, then I'd rather waste it on myself.

The president never pretends.