Is it really good to choose a partnership marriage like the CEO of Luo Ji Thinking?

Tuobuhua once said at a regular meeting: "My husband and I, we are not married, he is the only partner in my personal life.

How can I maintain this partner's relationship and form the best combination of resources, which requires me to be kind to this person. As partners in life, we are partners in raising children. You have to be a valuable partner to get rid of the troubles of trivial things in life. "

Hearing this, I think it is really cruel to pick flowers and treat my husband as a partner, because the partner has no interest and value and will leave without a trace of friendship.

Gradually, I read some psychological books and understood that marriage is a more pragmatic way of life.

Even if you don't get married, you can still live, but if you choose to get married, it means that you have changed your lifestyle for the rest of your life.

This is the marriage partner who can't live without flowers.

Marriage is like two people running a company together. In order to survive, they have to invest a lot of energy and money in this company.

All the energy accumulated in the past and the life in the next few decades should be spent on this * * *, because the interests and losses of partners in the company are the same, and losing one person also means losing another person, so their interests in marriage and family are equal, which makes them have to cooperate.

Also, to start a company in partnership, the level between the two partners should be roughly the same. If a Tsinghua elite and an illiterate start a company, they may not reach any consensus. One person wants to find capital to go public, and the other wants to distribute leaflets to open a canteen, so they can't be partners.

The same is true in marriage. The ranks of two people should be roughly the same. If one person is much taller than the other, the quality of this marriage is not high. In the process of starting a company in partnership, it is best for two people to have the same goal. One wants to go public, and the other only does the current market. If the goals are different, the company is likely to break up. The same is true in marriage. If two people have different goals, one wants to have a second child and the other disagrees, they can't be together.

In a partnership, the fields of partners should be the same. It cannot be said that one partner wants to engage in retail and the other partner wants to engage in wholesale. The same is true in marriage. Two people should be on the same track. If they want to have a second child, they should work together and immigrate together. If one person listens to cross talk every day and another person listens to opera every day, they will easily conflict and fail.

But even if it is a partnership, partners can have different division of labor and responsibilities. If two people are engaged in sales, then although the company has orders, it can't operate, so it is very likely that one is engaged in sales and the other is engaged in operation, so that the company can be managed well with orders.

The same is true in the family. One can be outside, one can manage money, and one can do housework. They have different division of labor, and their complementarity is higher than similarity. Therefore, the relationship between partners should be mutual trust, interdependence and loyalty. This is an indispensable factor.

If one partner finds out that another partner has secretly transferred the company order to another place behind his back, then they will definitely break up. So you can't cheat in marriage. Stay loyal. Partners in a good cooperative relationship trust each other very much. If you hand over the family finance or sales business to one partner, the other partner thinks that he can do it well by default. This kind of mutual trust, interdependence and mutual trust partnership is the basic factor that partnerships and families must maintain.

However, two people start a company in partnership, which does not mean that they must love each other deeply. The goal of cooperative rationality is more important. Too many emotional factors may not help the company for a long time.

True love is more passion and blindness, and its real and useful benefits are hard to demonstrate, so I hope everyone can talk about a surging, heart-and-soul and fearless love when they are in love.

However, if you want to get married and enter marriage, I hope everyone will have the same experience, with kindness, warmth, affection and rational love, instead of the so-called "true love" that is surging and desperate. May we all reap passionate love and rational marriage (`) Love you.