I am a civil servant and met an American. He is about to retire, but he has a living guarantee. We hit it off and loved each other, but he wanted to marry me.

If you think you don't want to leave the country where you have lived for so long, let him come to your country, your city.

Or you can go to America first and then get married. You can have an American household registration after marriage, but you have to wait seven years to get a green card. If you get married, even if you don't have an American ID card for the time being, the US government won't expel you. As for resignation, if you really marry him, it doesn't matter when you resign, even if you call your boss.

But you'd better find out if he is lying to you. Maybe he just wanted to cheat you of your money. You foolishly resigned for him and went to his country, only to find that he was a liar. I hope the landlord will be careful not to cheat and not know it.

Hope to adopt, thank you.