Venus: I married a wife and married someone else. Frankly speaking, I have no regrets in my life.

"I can ask God how many lives I want, as long as I can bear hardships."

Speaking of Venus, many people are impressed by her sharp comments on the program and her attitude of daring to say and do.

Another great feat is that she once crossed the gender.

He was married, so was she. She is a pioneer of modern dance in China.

Venus's life is legendary.

1967, a military family in Shenyang, Liaoning Province welcomed a baby boy.

Mother named it Venus: the only retrograde planet in the solar system.

Unlike the burly and bold men in Northeast China, Venus is born with fine skin and tender flesh.

Before she was three years old, Venus followed her mother to take a bath in the women's bathhouse. As a little boy, he is not embarrassed, but he is natural.

When she was older, Venus was taken to the men's bathhouse by her father, but Venus, who entered the men's bathhouse for the first time, felt very uncomfortable and was very shy during the whole bathing process.

It is this shyness that makes him feel that he should have been a girl.

As a result, he often fantasizes about becoming a girl.

Perhaps it is his inner fantasy of gender that makes him achieve great accomplishments in art.

At the age of 9, Venus had great passion for dancing.

In order to learn dance, Venus wrote a letter to shenyang military area command Art Troupe, recommending herself: If you don't accept me, it will be a great loss for you.

With her mother's consent, Venus successfully entered the art troupe to learn dance.

Since then, he has been inseparable from dance all his life.

In the class, Venus is thin and has not been exposed to professional training.

But through unremitting efforts and practice, he soon became a role model for all dancers.

Venus is often praised by teachers because it is so excellent.

17 years old, Venus went to North Korea to perform on behalf of the country.

This makes many dancers of the same age unconvinced, and Venus has also caused some "bane".

One day, Venus came home from school after dancing, and a group of tall boys came straight to him.

"Are you Venus?" Venus nodded, but didn't expect to face a beating.

Due to the seriousness of the situation, the school conducted a strict investigation on this matter. It turns out that those people are also dancers, because they don't like the Excellence of Venus, so they want to vent their anger.

I didn't expect that I was beaten because I was too good, and those dancers paid the price.

1986, Venus came to the experimental class of modern dance in Guangdong Dance School and was exposed to modern dance for the first time.

With super talent and hard work, Venus got the opportunity to go to the United States for further study.

This is the opportunity that many people dream of.

The United States also takes care of the arrival of Venus, which is different from other people's treatment.

Venus was arranged to live in a luxury apartment.

Venus, in a foreign country, did not relax her requirements for dance and showed her high-level dance.

His incredible graceful dancing makes him known as the "Oriental Monster".

The following year, 23-year-old Venus became the chief choreographer in the dance industry and gave a solo performance in Korea.

At this time, Venus also ushered in her first marriage.

1990, Venus's classmate and his girlfriend came to live with Venus because they thought the house price in new york was too expensive.

In an accidental conversation, Venus jokingly said to her friend's girlfriend Ken Bolin, "Why don't we get married? You can live here for free, and I can get a green card. "

Unexpectedly, the three hit it off and registered to get married two days later.

199 1 year, Venus created a dance "Half Dream", which won him the "Best Choreography Award" and made him famous in the United States, and then moved to Europe.

1993, Venus returned to China and founded a modern dancer training class.

After returning from abroad, Venus has always had a difficult choice in her heart.

Venus, who had gender bias since childhood, finally made up her mind to have sex-change surgery at the age of 28.

But for such a big thing, Venus hasn't figured out how to tell her family.

Because he is the only male in the family.

Unexpectedly, when he told his family, his parents were very calm. At that time, Venus's father smoked a cigarette and said, finally!

It turned out that when Venus was young, he thought Venus seemed to be a girl.

Compared with the gossip outside, my mother only cares about whether the operation is safe.

Venus was a little relieved by the opening of this family.

Before the operation, my friend also suggested that Venus keep sperm and have a chance to have children of her own in the future.

But Venus sternly refused. Venus later recalled this incident and said: I am not a greedy person. God gave me a chance to be a woman, so I won't ask for anything else.

1995, Venus made a documentary about his sex-change operation. Before the operation, he went to the men's bathhouse for the last time and enjoyed the last male treatment.

After 28 years of ups and downs in the world, Venus finally found her soul, but I didn't expect the next operation to be thrilling.

You know, this kind of operation is very dangerous. In order to save her voice, Venus chose not to use anesthetic.

On the day of the operation, he had an emergency.

Due to improper operation by nurses, Venus's calf nerve was necrotic. After the operation, he was judged as a second-degree disability by the doctor.

But as a dancer, is he going to end his dancing career?

In order to stand on the stage again, he worked hard to recover and finally stood on the stage again three months later.

At this point he has become her.

Venus came to this step with a strong sense of faith in her heart, but there are many discussions about her "feat" in society.

After many tests, Venus founded the Beijing Modern Dance Troupe, and she led the troupe to rehearse the dance "Red and Black".

Just the day before the dance was about to be staged in Beijing, a news appeared in the newspaper:

"Amphibians on the Capital Stage"

This news made Venus feel greatly insulted. She found the person in charge of the newspaper and asked him to apologize immediately and appeal immediately.

A week later, the newspaper's apology was also published on the same page.

In 2000, Venus divorced Ken Bolin because she was pregnant with her boyfriend's child.

Two years later, Venus found an abandoned baby while visiting a friend in the hospital, so she adopted it.

At this time, Venus first experienced the joy of being a mother.

During the trip in 2004, Venus met her husband Hans on the plane.

At first, the two chatted very speculatively on the plane and left each other's phone numbers when they left.

Hans, who was obsessed with Venus, began to pursue Venus.

Venus is not indifferent to Hans' kindness, but hesitant.

Hans didn't care until she told him all her experiences.

So they got married the next year.

The two later adopted a son and a daughter.

A family of five lives happily together.

Venus has experienced all the roles that a person can play in this life.

Now she has a happy career and a happy family.

She once said, "There is no regret in this life."