What is the saddest thing about a class reunion?

1. You find that people who were far inferior to you when you were students are now much better than you. Either their career is better than yours, their income is higher than yours, or their family is happier than yours. For example, someone has opened a company or a factory with assets of over 100 million; or he or she has prospered as a civil servant in a party or government agency, rising to the rank of director or director; or he or she has managed to get a professor position in a university, and you But he is still an ordinary working-class person with a monthly income of 10,000 to 20,000 yuan, just like a diaosi. For example, someone may have a handsome husband and a beautiful wife, but his or her spouse may be average or simply divorced and become single.

"Miscellaneous Talk" The saddest thing about class reunions

2. You find that you no longer have the same three views with your previous best friends, best friends or brothers/sisters who share the same bed. For some The opinions expressed on social phenomena are very different, to the point where they can't even say more than half a sentence. After graduation, everyone went their separate ways and worked in various industries within or outside the system. As the years go by, everyone's work and life experiences are completely different. Different working and living environments and different social experiences have shaped completely different outlooks on life and values. Do you want to immigrate? Is it better to go abroad or at home? Is public school or private school better for children's education? Do you want to send your children to study abroad? When discussing these issues, you will find that the views of your classmates who you were very good with before are no longer completely consistent with yours. You will even argue with each other to refute each other's views, and you will no longer find the helplessness you had before. No more talking, we feel intimate and have no grudges.

"Miscellaneous Talk" The saddest thing about class reunions

3. You find that you have worked hard for half your life, but you are not as good as others in marrying or marrying well. Some female classmates are married to rich people and live a carefree life. They just do yoga every day, maintain their health, and only need to dress themselves up and look beautiful. A few male classmates can also encounter the blessing of the god of luck and marry a rich girl, completely changing their destiny overnight. . . But you are still struggling for life, burdened with high mortgage loans (or even multiple home loans) and car loans, being cautious in the workplace, going to work steadily and not daring to stop or lose your job. .

"Miscellaneous Talk" The saddest thing about class reunions

4. You find that the girl you had a crush on has now become a middle-aged woman, her figure is completely ruined, and her waist has become a bucket waist. , swimming laps a lot, worrying about cooking rice, oil and salt every day. Or maybe you find that the male idol you liked before is now middle-aged, has long been bald, has gained weight, and has a bulging belly that is bigger than that of a woman giving birth. Time is like a butcher's knife, it takes away the youthful atmosphere from everyone, and wears away the looks and devilish figures of the gods and goddesses.

People can't help but sigh and lament that the years have passed and the years have been wasted