To us who have left home, to our parents who have left home.

We left our hometown and struggled in this city for the people we love; Our parents left their homes for us, just to give us the greatest support. The year is approaching, seeking dreams and roots ...

We may come from a water town in the south of the Yangtze River, a small town in the north, or the yellow land in the west, but we have all left our hometown and gathered in a bigger city.

When I was a child, I yearned for the reverie brought by words such as "pack your bags and set out". Now, as a person who has been away from home for a long time, sometimes a wisp of homesickness will be inadvertently scattered and lingering in my heart.

We are the first generation immigrants in a new city, and we are also trying to get familiar with the characteristics of a city, the characteristics of a city and the culture of a city.

We are struggling in big cities, hoping to leave our footprints in this city and hope to take root in this city.

but because of the traditional family culture, if you don't buy a house, you will always feel a bit adrift. And the reality is that if you don't buy a house, you are drifting; Even if you buy a house, if you don't have an account, you are still drifting.

There are still many twists and turns to really stay in a city. Some friends have left the city one after another, some because there is no hukou, because children always have to go back for the college entrance examination, so they should go back early to get familiar with it.

Although some friends chose to leave, more people chose to stay, whether for better employment opportunities in big cities, broader horizons in big cities, or for their dreams, to continue to take root in this city.

No matter how badly we spit on our parents, when we get married and have children, most people choose their parents to take care of their children at the first time.

We are the first generation immigrants in this city, and our parents became the second generation immigrants in their later years.

They also left their hometown. They chose to leave the city where they lived for 5 or 6 years, choose to reintegrate into another city and choose another way of life.

They can't speak the language. As parents who can't speak Mandarin, they sometimes encounter great communication difficulties.

They left their relatives and friends and their social circles.

They left their familiar environment and went to another strange city.

They left their own customs and began to live according to some rules and characteristics of this new city.

For them, they are uprooted and live in this city with more homesickness. So sometimes they feel trapped in this city, because there is no one to chat with, and they can't walk around without knowing the way and the people outside. Basically, a few people at home are wandering around every day.

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We will spit on our parents, and we will complain about our parents, but it is undeniable that China's parents are also the most sacrificial parents.

a family, grandma's legs and feet are not good. A person showed her daughter a child who was over one year old in Beijing, and then went to Hainan to look after her son, and then his son asked for a second child.

a family, grandma has been looking after the children alone in Beijing for a long time, and grandpa has been looking after the children alone in Qingdao for a long time. The two places have been separated for many years.

A family, with only a grandmother, needs to babysit two sons. One year in Beijing's eldest son's home and one year in Hubei's second son's home. The second son is divorced and has a child. The final result of the discussion is that when the eldest son looks after the children, the eldest son subsidizes the second son's family.

A family, grandparents have been babysitting their daughters all the year round. One child is about to win, and the second child is coming again. It has been almost 2 years in Beijing, and it will be 2 years since I left my hometown.

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Sometimes when I think about my parents, I feel powerless and afraid to vomit.

We are looking for dreams, and we are struggling, but our parents also give us the strongest support and struggle in this city.

for the growth of the next generation, they have become a generation of forbearance and dedication!

When I was chatting with a good friend, she told me, "The work is very hard, I have to work overtime every day, I often go home at 9.1, and I have little time to look after my children and spend with my parents every day."

She said, "My parents seem to be getting older, and they will often pester her for video chat and want to make a phone call every day";

She said, "Sometimes I think about what I make money for. I often work overtime and feel that my health is getting worse. But we must continue to work hard and feel that if we don't make money quickly, our parents will be old. "

She said, "Anyway, I want to continue to make more money, hope to give them a better life, and I am afraid that I will succeed too late."

There was an article before, and a fan left a message backstage, saying:

I think it's really good. Although we are ordinary people, we are very strong. We have been working hard, and no one can stop our enthusiasm and fighting spirit.

why should we struggle? Sometimes for myself, for my own ideals and pursuits, and sometimes for money, but what about after having money? In fact, I hope I can give my parents and family a better life after I have money.

We seek our dreams in big cities, and sometimes we need to go home to find our roots.

We have been away from home for many years, and so have our parents.

So the Chinese New Year is coming, you can go back to your hometown to see, sort out your mood, regain some strength, and let your parents go back to their hometown to see. Or whether you go back to your hometown or not, your parents are there and your home is there. Home is always the warmest word.

Although we are far away from home and our parents are far away from home, the whole family is here. We know that we are fighting for the people we love, and we know that our struggle will give our family a better life, so we are tired and happy!