What kind of children do you think I will have in six years?

Feeling as a teacher: This parent's mood is very understandable. The biggest feeling after reading this article is that the educational goals of parents and teachers are actually "consistent", but they have "differences" on some specific trivial matters. As the saying goes, it is difficult to grasp the degree of goodness! This point should be "agreed" through "good alumni". The second feeling is that in the eyes of our teachers, every child is a few percent, but in the eyes of parents, it is "100%", and the focus should be from "group" to "individual", which is a huge workload for teachers. Therefore, we look forward to "small classes" and secretly think that teachers' focus can only be truly from "group" to "individual"

What it feels like to be a parent:

By reading this article, I know that the practices of first-grade teachers are basically the same all over the country. I think there is nothing wrong with the unification of dancing shoes and socks proposed by the author in this article. Sometimes, clothes need to be uniform, that is, individuals should obey collective thinking. Regarding the SMS reply, the teacher asked not to reply, so don't reply. The teacher's arrangement has its own reason. As parents, educating children must first stand on their own position. You have to take care of yourself. The teacher is worried about letting the children do what the teacher says. Many times, a profession is a profession. Many times we are unprofessional and often question professionalism. We are also very upset and tired, so communication is very important.

Encountered several educational problems:

1. Schools and teachers transfer their obligations to children and parents.

2. From the contact and understanding around us, it is concluded that a good school is a sea tactic to exercise children's conditioned reflex when doing problems.

3. Tutoring and homework take up children's study time for a long time, with little free time. Children have little time to play, read books, watch cartoons, play games, feel nature and get in touch with other interesting things since primary school 1 grade, which used to be used in middle schools.

4, every question has a standard answer, and everything is exam-oriented, which has a great influence on children's imagination, thinking ability and world outlook. You can't use other voices to brainwash your child.

Some teachers (the legendary kind of good teachers can't be found in the children of dozens of colleagues, classmates and friends around me) don't understand or completely ignore the children's self-esteem, imagination and creativity, and the requirements for children are obedience and high marks. The teacher's lack of respect and patience is what scares me the most.