Is it necessary for ordinary families to let their children study abroad?

The exam-oriented education in China has exposed the disadvantages of many parents with advanced educational ideas, and more and more parents choose to send their children abroad to study. On the one hand, I hope that children can get all-round development and be influenced by comprehensive education abroad. On the other hand, I hope children can learn more about foreign human resources.

Studying abroad has always been controversial. Some people think that studying abroad is only gilded, without substantial improvement, it will also cause great economic pressure on families. Some people think that giving children a quality education is also an investment and worth considering.

According to their own economic strength, if the annual income of ordinary families is not high, we should consider the economic pressure of the whole family. Even the idea of tightening one's belt to send children to study abroad is definitely not recommended.

Giving everything to children to study abroad will not only put great pressure on parents, but also increase psychological pressure on children invisibly, thinking that parents should save money and make themselves rich.

Children are afraid to participate in some off-campus activities abroad. When they go out to socialize with classmates and friends, they should consider whether they have enough money, which will also make them feel inferior and afraid to make friends with others. Over time, children will also feel inferior and vanity, and even complain that their parents don't give enough money.

Considering children's adaptability, even in China, parents still worry about whether their children have enough to eat and wear warm clothes, and whether they have encountered any troubles without telling their families. Some homesick children will be even more reluctant to stay at home and go to strange environments. These are all factors that parents should consider.

For children with strong adaptability, they can quickly integrate into the new environment, communicate effectively with others and solve problems by themselves. These children will benefit a lot from studying abroad and will not worry their parents too much.

Some relatively introverted children can't adapt to unfamiliar environment, even their language ability is not up to standard, so it will be difficult to live abroad. Such children are not suitable for studying abroad, and parents are not advised to force their children to study abroad. Children are likely to encounter things that cannot be solved and are unwilling to tell their parents.

Considering the children's employment after graduation, domestic environmental habits are conventional, and students returning from overseas are only kept at a respectful distance, and there are few industries suitable for international students. This is a big problem. After all, only a few people live and work abroad.

At this time, it is necessary to consider the adaptability of studying abroad and domestic employment to prevent children from coming back to acclimatize. After a long time abroad, foreign students will come into contact with foreign cultures and get used to thinking and solving problems with foreign social etiquette and work experience, but this does not apply to most domestic majors.

For some industries that are more in line with international standards, such as finance, studying abroad is a good way. It is a great challenge and even a waste of time for foreign students to study some courses and majors that are not available in China, or industries with incompatible cultures.

Is studying abroad a shortcut or a detour? Studying abroad not only means the change of educational resources, but also means the great challenge of economic pressure, cultural conflict and personal situation. For ordinary families, studying abroad should be considered more comprehensively. Combine your own subjective factors and various possible objective changes, and then properly arrange whether your child wants to study abroad.

When children are abroad, it is difficult for parents to take care of anything in time. Especially in some countries that are not peaceful, it is also a great hidden danger for international students.

With the world in turmoil, parents should not only consider the education of their children, but also consider the situation comprehensively before making a careful decision.