Is it true that wayward women "gnaw at the old" at home for one year after graduation?

Perhaps, every young person has a dream of studying abroad, and Xiao Ying, 26, is no exception.

"Now my daughter is going to sell a house to study abroad. The house was written in her name. What should I do! " 10 1 in the morning, Ms. Yang, 50, her mother, looked anxiously at the reporter for help.

It turns out that Ms. Yang and her husband are employees of state-owned enterprises with ordinary wages. But after her daughter graduated from Xiao Ying University, she proposed to study in Australia more than once. "Taking out her old money for her study is barely affordable, but the economic pressure is too great, and we all disagree." Ms. Yang said that she didn't expect her daughter to sell the house for studying abroad that the couple bought for her recently!

Ms. Yang told reporters that she was unemployed at home for a year and the old couple raised her. After graduating from Xiaoying University, I joined an overseas purchasing company to do planning and copywriting work, and then moved to a pharmaceutical company to do publicity. I quit my job and stayed at home because I often stayed up late and got sick.

Unexpectedly, my daughter stayed at home for a year. Ms. Yang and her husband take good care of their daughter's diet and daily life every day and find that they have become much lazy this year. "I didn't get up until half past ten in the morning. When the money is spent, they will ask us for pocket money and go out to eat and watch movies with friends. "

Ms. Yang said that Xiao Ying doesn't have a job or a boyfriend, so she occasionally goes out to play with friends and rarely communicates with the society. She and her husband are very worried about it.

Two months ago, Ms. Yang hoped that her daughter would be ready to find a stable job, but her daughter told them that she planned to study in Australia. It turns out that when Xiao Ying was in high school, she attended an Australian summer camp for half a month. After coming back, she has been obsessed with Australia and now she wants to study abroad.

Ms. Yang was very surprised. She advised Xiao Ying not to say, "You are 26 years old, and you will be almost 30 when you come back from studying abroad. It is really unrealistic to go abroad now. And we are not a particularly superior family. It is really difficult for you to study. " She and her husband repeatedly stressed that there was no money for her daughter to study abroad at home, and her daughter did not mention the problem of studying in China again, and promised her parents to find a job well. Recently, however, Ms. Yang discovered that this was just her daughter's "plan to slow down the troops".

Last week, Ms. Yang tidied up her daughter's room and found a lot of study materials and forms in the bookcase. The date of the form was written recently. There are many IELTS books under the pillow, all of which were recently turned over. "She is not an English major, and she doesn't need English to find a job. Her father and I immediately judged that she was still secretly preparing to study abroad behind our backs! "

That night, after Xiao Ying came back from playing with friends, Ms. Yang directly put the IELTS book in front of Xiao Ying and asked her if she wanted to study abroad. This time, Xiao Ying simply admitted that she had planned to sell her house to study abroad. The house mentioned by Xiao Ying is a 60-square-meter house that Ms. Yang and her husband gave her a down payment in Nanping a few years ago.

"How can she be so headstrong?" Ms. Yang said that she had an argument with her daughter that day and refused to communicate with her parents. She is locked in her room every day and doesn't even talk to her parents when eating.

Yesterday, the reporter called Xiao Ying, and Xiao Ying's tone was very dissatisfied: "Is it necessary to tell others about this kind of thing?" Talking about the reason why he had to study abroad, Xiao Ying said that he liked the culture and beautiful scenery there. Studying in Australia is easier to obtain immigration qualifications, with more job opportunities and cost-effective tuition fees. Even if you can't stay there, you will have academic qualifications and language advantages when you come back from studying abroad. "Now that the house price has gone up, I will sell it, and it is also a rational use of resources and used in places just needed."

Xiao Ying thinks this is reasonable, but she is worried about Ms. Yang. She is worried that there is only her daughter's name on the house, and they can't stop her from selling the house to study abroad: "How can we break her unrealistic dream of going abroad?

Is it really that beautiful to go abroad? According to Xiao Ying, studying abroad may lead to immigration, more job opportunities and advantages in academic qualifications and language. Is that really the case?

"Returnee" used to be synonymous with high-end talents, and it was a "fragrant cake" hired by the talent market with high salary. According to the "20 17 Survey Report on the Employment and Entrepreneurship of Returnees in China" released by a recruitment website in August this year, nearly 50% of the returnees earned less than 6,000 yuan a month after their first employment, and 68.9% of the returnees interviewed thought that their salary was far lower than expected.

According to the report, in the salary distribution of returnees' initial employment, 6000 yuan or less accounts for the most, accounting for 44.8%, followed by 600 1~8000 yuan, accounting for 22.7%.

When asked whether the actual work income is consistent with personal expectations, only 1% people think it is higher than expected, 30. 1% people think it is basically the same, and 68.9% people think it is much lower than expected. Moreover, this salary level is not low compared with domestic fresh college graduates. According to the Investigation Report on Employment Ability of 20 17 Fresh Graduates, 53.7% of the fresh graduates actually signed a monthly salary of 2000~3999 yuan (before tax). Experts said that due to the generally good family environment of returnees, large investment in the early stage, and lack of understanding of the domestic employment environment, they have high expectations for salary levels.

However, with the title of "Returnee", it is relatively easy to find a job in China. The survey shows that 38.6% of the returnees can get their first job within 1 ~ 3 months, while 32. 1% takes less than 1 month, 18.5% takes 3~6 months and 7% takes 6 ~/kloc-.

Is studying abroad really that beautiful? Yesterday, the reporter randomly surveyed 32 office workers who were overseas or had studied abroad. Among them, more than 20 respondents said that studying abroad is boring, and it is difficult to get a diploma just after graduation. If it is not a particularly good school, you will continue to bear the employment pressure when you return to China.

Miss Wang, 25 years old, lives in Chongqing Road and is currently studying in Melbourne, Australia. Two years after graduating from college, she was admitted to Australia as a postgraduate, majoring in finance. "In foreign countries, learning is much more difficult than domestic universities. There are not only language barriers, but also foreign universities have extremely high requirements for papers. It is impossible to travel and enjoy foreign scenery. "

Miss Wang said that the mentioned immigrants are only eligible if they have lived in Australia for several years, so it is difficult to apply. In a foreign country, the most difficult thing is the loneliness of a foreign country. "Foreigners have their own cultural background, and few people want to be good friends with foreigners. The circle of international students is very small. Because of different life backgrounds, few intimate friends can talk to each other. To be honest, in order to escape the pressure of employment, it is still worthwhile to study abroad. "

Miss Tian, who has a background of studying in Britain and teaches in a middle school, also told reporters that one year of studying in Britain is the most difficult and arduous period in her life. "I told others that I had studied in Britain, and others thought it sounded very foreign, but in fact, many foreign universities are in towns and villages, and it takes more than two hours by train to go to big cities. The life of studying abroad is monotonous, and the meals in the school cafeteria are expensive and unpalatable. Usually, you can only make some simple dishes such as tomatoes and scrambled eggs in the rental house. " Miss Tian lost 8 pounds for this.

"I think if you can really learn something by studying abroad, you can choose to study abroad, but in order to escape the employment pressure, it is completely unnecessary. If you want to find a job back home, you still have to find a job. If you can't learn something, it's useless. "