COCO CoCo Lee refused "Sister Lang 3" and chose "Endless Sound" and cried in the toilet.

Sister Lang 3 was renamed "Riding the Wind and Waves". Although only 1 issue was broadcast, the hot discussion caused by major social media remained high, and 30 girls aged 30+ would have many stories together.

It is said that COCO CoCo Lee refused the invitation of Sister Lang 3 and chose the Guangdong Music Ensemble "Endless Sound" next door. Although this program is a special gift for the 25th anniversary of the return of Hong Kong, the guests are all big coffees. However, due to the formal form of the program, the selection of songs and arrangements was stretched, and the popularity plummeted. I don't know if Coco CoCo Lee cried dizzy in the toilet after seeing elder sister Lang's frequent hot search.

Coco CoCo Lee was born in Hong Kong and immigrated to San Francisco at the age of 9. He won the runner-up in Hong Kong TVB Newcomer Singing Contest in 1993, and moved to Taiwan Province Province in 1994 to release movies and become famous in one fell swoop. He has been in the entertainment circle for nearly 30 years, and his face value and figure are always online. In 20 16, he also won the championship of "I am a singer in the fourth season". For COCO, it doesn't matter much which program she chooses, not to mention that her favorite Li Jian can sing her favorite Cantonese songs in her voice. She shouldn't have too much fun on the show.

COCO faces the invitation of two program groups, no matter how to choose it, it is right, powerful and confident. But we ordinary people, when faced with choices, are different. Choosing means giving up, and the choice at all critical moments in our lives is a dilemma.

I remember the last time I jumped ship, I got two offer, an Internet giant and a Japanese company. At that time, faced with this choice, I wanted to break my head and couldn't sleep all night. I want to go to both. It's too hard to give up. I not only like big factories with their own aura, but also want to go to foreign companies to experience different corporate cultures. Japanese companies are doing my favorite e-commerce industry. But in the end, considering the commuting time, I chose an internet company closer to home.

At first glance, this choice is not wrong, but the result is miserable. After going to work in a big factory, I really can't integrate into the team. Going to work every day is super painful. I feel like a monster, and my work is not my favorite. I struggled for two months and finally came to naked resignation. This time, the wrong choice made my self-confidence fall to the bottom, and now I am facing the risk of unemployment at any time. Age is a sensitive factor in the workplace, especially for girls. There may never be a chance to go to a foreign company in the future. Many times, the opportunity is once, and if you miss it, you miss it.

Many times, the choice of life is greater than the effort. Since choice is so important, how can we make a wise choice?

First of all, be clear about your goals. Just like getting an offer, my goal is to choose a job that can develop steadily, and it is best to realize my personal value to the greatest extent. In retrospect, I only thought about the distance from home at that time, ignoring the actual work content. Obviously, the position in a foreign company is more in line with my work experience, and the work content is what I like.

Clear goals can ensure that the general direction we choose is right. Just as you choose the one to spend the rest of your life with among two suitors, of course, it also depends on who you are more comfortable with and who can tolerate their shortcomings more. After all, the future life belongs to both of you, not who is more handsome and who can make you face more in the evaluation of social system. What outsiders can see is superficial, and marriage is like drinking water.

After defining the goal, we should do what we can in the face of the choice and correctly evaluate the risk after the choice. When I first chose an Internet company, I overestimated myself and misjudged the situation. I thought I could adapt to my new job quickly, but I didn't expect to fail in running-in and was forced to start over. Choose what you can achieve, don't be too greedy, the star is beautiful but it belongs to the sky.

As for risks, every choice is accompanied by certain risks, just like the option of getting married. Choosing to get married means that you are bound to your other half from now on. If there is an accident in the future, you will face the risk of divorce. If you choose not to get married, you will face doubts, advice, accusations and loneliness from the whole society and even relatives and friends. I can only say, try to choose the risks you can bear, so that even if the result is not good, it will not be too bad.

Before making a key choice, it is necessary to properly refer to the opinions of good friends. The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. Friends are people who know us best. I still remember that the university counselor said that before he graduated from graduate school, he discussed with several friends whether to be a civil servant or a university teacher in the future. His friends comprehensively analyzed his personality, lifestyle and family background, and agreed that he was suitable to be a teacher. Later, our counselor's career development was also very good. He went to his favorite university to study for a doctorate and has become the youngest associate professor in the hospital.

Many times in life, no matter how carefully we choose, we will not be perfect and there will always be shortcomings, even those very correct and rational choices. Choice is often just weighing the pros and cons. As long as the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, the choice is right, even if the advantage is 565,438+0% and the disadvantage is 49%. What's more, many times there is no right choice at all. What we can do is to constantly strengthen our own strength and strive to make our choices correct.