Sub-politics asks politics. The next day, those who enter are happy, and those who are far away come. -How did this happen?

Please allow me to ask a question. Maybe I'm not very polite, but the landlord didn't mean what Zi Zheng said (in fact, I read Confucius' Explaining Words, Family Language, The Analects of Confucius and Confucius Cong, and it seems that Zi Zheng doesn't exist. )

There is a saying similar to that of the landlord: Ye Gong asks about politics. Confucius said, "Those who are near are happy, and those who are far away come." Excerpted from The Analects of Confucius and Lutz.

Then I'll tell you what this sentence means. In fact, Shen Zhuliang, the doctor of Chu (the fief was called "Ye", so it was called ""), asked how to govern the country. Confucius said that people who are close to your fief will not resent you, but will feel stable and happy, and people from afar will come to take refuge in you.

Therefore, this is a method for post-application. If it is extended to settle down, as the landlord said, it seems too simple for some friends upstairs to answer with Mencius' "nurturing people with kindness" On this issue, my opinion is that if we want to achieve this accomplishment, we must first have a good knowledge. No matter the books at home and abroad, we should have a certain understanding of literature, history and philosophy. Of course, at least one aspect needs to be studied in depth, and that is "cross-talents". On the other hand, the landlord should cultivate a kind method to ease the contradiction between people after he has acquired knowledge and read poetry books. This method can be divided into two aspects. On the one hand, you can listen, that is, you should listen to other people's opinions more. Don't try to take your opinion as one that everyone should obey. On the other hand, you will be patient. If you are alone in the world, you will have to talk about and criticize others. To tell the truth, if it doesn't affect the overall situation, you can bear it and keep your mouth shut. I can't say it to my face, but it's too fake to say good things about others. Especially even the closest colleagues and classmates, don't talk about each other or people you all know without scruple. After all, I think sometimes the speaker is unintentional, the listener is intentional, and finally it can only end in embarrassment.

oh I think this sentence is very simple, but Confucius only solved the final realm. Perhaps thousands of years have passed, and Confucius' specific plan is unknown. But I think if we are one person, as I said above, knowledge, cultivation, listening and patience may make everyone welcome this person.

(original. Copying others' remarks without their consent is an insult to the questioner and other respondents. Please don't do this. In addition, if we think that the word "educating people with kindness" is enough, we don't need to ask this question. We should educate all people with kindness. This is not the way of interpersonal communication, but the national leaders are commanding the people. In interpersonal communication, we should never ask others. Since childhood, we have known that "be strict with ourselves and be lenient with others" requires many friends, just like a monarch who is constantly demanding taxes and levies, which makes people stay at a respectful distance. )

In my humble opinion, please give me some advice.