The most persistent worry of parents after immigration

In the morning, a quick bell rang. The other end of the phone came the anxious voice of my friend I did. "Xiaoling, go and help mom. My father is dying. Go! "

I quickly promised to run all the way to call my husband to the hospital. But when we arrived, my best friend's father had stopped breathing and my mother had been mumbling. Yue Yue's father left, and Yue Yue didn't see her for the last time.

I am an only child. After graduating from college, she and her boyfriend married thousands of miles away. My father was diagnosed with cancer three years ago. After a series of treatments such as surgery and chemotherapy, my father experienced unimaginable pain, especially in the past six months. Death may also be a relief for him.

I called my best friend to tell her that her father had left, and there was a heartbreaking cry from my best friend on the other end of the phone. At this time, my best friend was stuck on the highway, anxious but helpless.

My best friend told me that she felt that she was the most unfilial daughter in the world. When I was young, I insisted on marrying far away despite my parents' opposition, but I couldn't take care of myself when my parents needed me most. After my father was ill, my mother was much older, but I couldn't take good care of my parents because I was pregnant and gave birth.

Far marriage is a pain in the hearts of many only children. When parents need to take care of them, sometimes they don't even have a chance to go back and have a look.

Love will fade with time, but parents' love for you will never change.

Only children, if they can get married not far away, try not to get married far away, and spend more time with their parents while they are still there.

My best friend said that if I could start over, I would never choose to marry far away. Every time my father is in the hospital, he can only live in the self-blame in the video. Married and took the children home, but the two children were shy with their grandmother and only cared about themselves, without taking care of their father's helplessness.

Only oneself can understand the sadness of distant marriage. On one occasion, a well-received answer told the bitterness of a distant daughter's heart. She said, especially during the Chinese New Year, it will definitely make parents feel particularly lonely to think that there are only two people's New Year's Eve dinners, firecrackers are ringing outside, and parents can simply make some New Year's Eve dinners and get together in the Spring Festival Evening.

As the old saying goes, parents don't travel far. Our parents grew up with us, but our long-married daughter can't grow old with her parents. Marrying a distant daughter will always be the concern of parents.

Cousin is the earliest person to get married in our village. My brother-in-law is from Zhejiang. After graduating from high school, he followed his eldest brother to Jiangxi to keep bees. At that time, my cousin had just been lovelorn, and my brother-in-law's sister-in-law confided in my cousin every day and became her sister-in-law.

In the first few years, my uncle refused to forgive my cousin's distant relatives. Finally, in the sixth year after my cousin got married, I couldn't let go of my thoughts and concerns about my cousin. I took my cousin's favorite yuba and fans by train for 8 hours, and then by bus for 2 hours before I arrived at my cousin's small mountain village. My uncle, who is not good at words, sent heavy love all the way.

A daughter who marries far away is always worried about her parents.

Parents are always worried about their long-married daughter.