What do you think of those who marry far away?

What do you think of those who marry far away?

Maybe you, like me, have already booked a plane ticket for the Spring Festival, and you can count down one month before the holiday happily. Let's not lament how tragic it is for "immigrant white-collar workers" to reunite with their families only once a year. Most of them are married and become sisters of "distant married women", all of which are worse than you 100 times.

Every woman who marries far away is under greater pressure in marriage than others. The first thing is that she can't be with her parents. When I was in college, I recited Quli, which contained a sentence "Parents are here, don't travel far". Nowadays, far marriage has become an inevitable problem for many "immigrant white-collar workers", and the saying that "parents are not far away" is not realistic.

Because of their confidence in love and fearless courage, these far-married girls made the choice of migrating for love, which is worthy of men's double treasure.

Are you willing to marry far away?

Ask yourself, how much courage does it take to migrate for love?

Netease netizen yeyeforever: I'm from the south and BF is from the north. After his parents contacted him, they felt that his personality was good in all aspects, but he was far from it: first, he was worried that I would be wronged there in the future; second, he was left unattended when he was old; third, he was reluctant to part with it. At the same time, they also think that I am heartless and want to leave my parents for a man. ...

I know they are worried, but we don't want to give up this relationship, and now that the traffic is so developed, the distance is not so terrible, right? So far, his family likes me very much. His parents are reasonable intellectuals and get along well with them. But the future is really uncertain, and I am not 100% sure that there will be no problems in the future.

Distance can cause trouble. Have you ever heard what people say:

User Du Lalbia: 1. Full of confidence in a happy life in the future. If you don't even have confidence, don't say anything else.

People are changing. No one dares to say that happiness is unchangeable, and love that doesn't care if you don't work hard is easier to change.

3. Yes, if there are problems between husband and wife, there will be no contradiction just because you are from the same place.

If your relatives and friends live close to you, at most, it will make you feel more familiar with life.

Netizen xxxx08 10: Before I got married, other people's persuasion was nonsense in my own eyes, and I didn't know what regret was until I got married. People are always like this, but after knowing that they are wrong, time can't go back. If you choose the road, you are not allowed to regret it.

0 1, I can't take care of my family when they are sick.

Netizen zhuomin35: I am from Chongqing and married to Qingdao, Shandong. My husband and I went to school in the same city, fell in love for 6 years, and now we are married 1 year. We are all only children. To tell you the truth, I want a divorce now. This idea has been around for a long time, but I still don't know how to speak. The reason is that parents are in the countryside, in poor health, and no one takes care of them. We can't let them live in Qingdao for a long time, and they are not used to it. After all, people are older and less adaptable than young people. I want to go back to work in Chongqing after the divorce, at least so that I can see them often. My mother often says that I can see her once a year at most since I got married, and I can't help crying when I see other people's children often come back to see her.

02. When I was in conflict with him, I pushed open the door and had nowhere to go.

Netease netizens are as happy as pigs: at first, they thought they loved each other very much, so they married in Guangzhou from the northeast, but to be honest, when they are in a bad mood, especially when they have a little contradiction with their husbands, or when they need help, it is really difficult to be away from home. It's like I'm pregnant now, and I have to go back to the place where I was registered, and I get dizzy when I'm pregnant. My husband has to go to work, and it's also me who buys food, washes clothes and cooks.

03. I can only see my parents once a year, and I can't get together during the New Year.

Netease netizens meet for the first time: the journey is long, the toll is expensive, and the time is precious. Going home has become a luxury. You can go back during the Spring Festival. This is just an engagement. Will you go to your husband's house for the New Year when you get married? I don't care. Now threaten my husband and promise to come to my house during the Spring Festival for at least one year.

Netease netizen 767479088: If my husband hadn't been nice to me, maybe our marriage wouldn't have lasted. If I were a woman in my next life, I would never marry so far. Think about my old father and mother who have worked so hard to raise themselves so big, but they can't be around. Whenever I think about it in the dead of night, I will cry for a long time, especially when my parents are sick and I hear news from others. I feel regret in my heart. Why did I marry so far away? If you get married nearby, you can visit them at any time.

I miss my mother's cooking so much.

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An incomprehensible dialect, culture

[7039 experienced]

Most worried about the health of parents far away.

[14475 experienced]

My husband and mother-in-law occasionally make me feel isolated.

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Your love is her only chip.

Netease netizen yeyeforever: I also know that there is no turning back after this marriage. He is my biggest bargaining chip. If my mother-in-law treats me badly after marriage, I will really hit the wall!

Netizen Yuan Li Strange: I've been there, too. I am in pain now, and I regret it. Because this distant marriage has changed the fate of my life! At that time, I was still young I thought that when two people had feelings, everything could be overcome. The truth is really hard to imagine. Until now, the seven-year itch, the feelings of two people disappeared, and a third party appeared. I'm negotiating a divorce and separation, and my daughter is following him. I feel like I have nothing! Everything has to start from scratch, considering personal problems and housing problems ... I regret it. Once again, I would like to advise you with my personal experience: Be cautious when marrying far away! !

Everyone should sign such a guarantee.

1. Going home for the Spring Festival takes turns: I will stay at your parents' house this year, and I will accompany her back to my parents' house next year.

Make sure that she can go home once a year: go to your home on National Day and return to her home during Spring Festival.

3. When your mother and wife are in conflict, never let her be isolated.

4. endure three seconds before each quarrel: don't forget that there is an elderly father in the distance. When he agreed to his daughter's long marriage, he believed that you could protect her as you did in the past 20 years.