What should I pay attention to when accompanying my mother?

What parents of senior three should pay attention to when accompanying students;

Accompanied by parents, students don't have to worry about trivial things in life, and they can spare more time and energy to study, but at the same time, some students are under invisible pressure.

"Living with me makes me feel that I owe my mother too much." Wang Zheng, a repeat student in a key high school in the provincial capital, said that after failing in the college entrance examination this year, her parents tried their best to send her from Feidong to Hefei in the summer vacation, and her mother quit her job to accompany her full-time. I didn't do well in an exam the other day, and I'm a little insomnia these days, but I'm afraid to tell my mother about it for fear of worrying her.

Xiao Wang told reporters that when she was in junior high school, she went to school with her classmates and left school together every day. Chatting on the way to school is her happiest time every day. After high school, the study pressure is too great, and there is no chance to chat at all. "I'm worried that I won't do well in the college entrance examination next year, so I'm so sorry for my parents!" With such a psychological burden, Xiao Wang continued her re-reading life.

Li Yan, a teacher at the Center for Psychological Quality Education and Consultation of Polytechnic University, believes that the essence of the ancient "Three Movements in Meng Mu" was to change the educational environment. Judging from the law of education, modern renting a house with accompanying students is conducive to children's growth. "Going to school nearby is the best way to ensure that primary and secondary school students get enough sleep. In today's urban traffic jam, living too far away will not only sacrifice sleep time, but also have a negative impact on children's psychology. For example, the bumps on the way to school every day and the anxiety of traffic jams are easy to make children's character restless. "

Teacher Li also pointed out that because accompanying reading consumes a lot of time, energy and money, many parents are prone to have higher expectations psychologically. Once a child's grades are not satisfactory, it is easy to feel lost. "Parents' expectations are too high, which easily induces children to be afraid of failure and can't afford to lose, thus affecting future education. "

Gao Xin of the Academic Affairs Office of Hefei No.46 Middle School believes that whether to accompany students varies from person to person. Some students who are weak really need the care of their parents, while others are totally dependent on their parents. Parents should fully communicate with teachers and children before planning to accompany them, and then decide whether to accompany them after finding out their children's ideological learning.

"Learning is only a part of children's growth and family life, not all." Some education experts have reminded that from the perspective of children, we should not only learn book knowledge, but also learn to stand on our own feet; For parents, they should not only cultivate excellent children, but also have their own normal working life. If parents turn school education into the only task of children and the only focus of family, it will not be conducive to the healthy growth of children.

"It's time to cool down. The key to cooling down is that relevant education authorities should take practical measures to balance educational resources. " In the interview, more than one education expert called for it.