Why are there so many mistresses in Northeast China? Why do Northeasters love divorce so much?

China loves divorce, but she is from the northeast.

In the 20 18 national separation ratio ranking of the Ministry of Civil Affairs, the Northeasters who are tall, big and long-legged preempted the first echelon, and Heilongjiang beat Shanghai and Beijing with a separation ratio of 63%, winning the first place in the country, lagging behind the national average 15 percentage points.

Note: Divorce rate is mainly two indicators.

The first indicator is the crude divorce rate, which is the total logarithm of divorce in a certain year divided by the average population in that year;

The second indicator is the ratio of the number of divorces to the number of marriages in that year, in which the ratio of the number of divorces to the number of marriages is the ratio of the logarithm of divorce registration to the logarithm of marriage registration.

In the Northeast Civil Affairs Bureau, for every 17 couples who come to apply for a certificate, 7 couples get divorced. The window is often that more people register for divorce than for marriage.

Divorce became a step? Buy mink to go to Hainan to take the civil service exam? After that, another Northeastern? Everyday? . Why do minks leave when it's not warm?

? Can pass, can't go?

Northeasters love divorce, which is a tradition.

There has always been a huge population movement in Northeast China. As a big immigrant province with 95% descendants from Shandong and Hebei, it is difficult to find a clan in it runs in the family. Population mobility has broken the traditional order of rural society, and some traditional ideas have spread to the northeast? Not working? Yes

In the southern provinces with strong clan power, marriage is regarded as? Have a second name, okay? Divorce, right? Bear a grudge against two surnames? . When the relationship between husband and wife is in crisis, both husband and wife will try their best to persuade them to get along well and put harmony first.

Where else do you want to make peace? Who is from the northeast? Persuade? Yes ? Can pass, can't go? This is the seven-word motto of marriage in Northeast China.

Take? Little three? As far as the problem is concerned, 80% of the northeast people choose not to beep and leave directly.

It's not that I don't expect it, I just don't think it's necessary to make do.

In the northeast, the fight between an old man and his wife usually lasts only three days: if he doesn't apologize for three days, his parents will kill him with a knife, shovel and rolling pin.

? Can't leave him? If you can't do it, go home, you can afford it! ?

Northeast women are never afraid of divorce. They never fight alone.

Therefore, the small contradictions between couples in Northeast China are generally afraid to tell their families. Are they all old people in the northeast? Protect the calf? Yes, it is a matter of two people. As soon as the old man got involved, it became a war between the two families. No matter how bad a child is, there is a strong northeast old lady behind him.

It's not hard to understand. Why? Big data on divorce reasons in Northeast China? Nearly half of them are at odds with each other.

? If you have money, you have to go. If you have no money, you have to go.

In 1970s, American scholars investigated and analyzed the causes of divorce in 311counties, and found that urbanization had the greatest impact on the divorce rate, and the divorce rate would increase by 0.4 1 percentage point for every percentage point increase in urban population.

The urbanization rate of 20 14 in Northeast China exceeded 50%, and it rushed into the top ten in China.

The high ratio of cities and towns has brought about population mobility and a large number of industrial families. As a direct result, the employment rate of women is high, there are many families with two employees, and the strength of both parties in marriage is strong.

In marriage, economic status determines the right to speak. It turns out that men often make more money, and who has the final say in big and small matters at home. Now that everyone earns the same amount of money, it is nothing new to disagree.

What is the second result of urbanization? Only child? Increase. In the past 30 years, Northeast China, as the eldest son of the Republic of China, has carried out family planning most thoroughly.

Two only children get married and enjoy the full support of six wallets. Whether working or getting married and buying a house, they are evenly matched and have different personalities, which makes the tolerance of marriage decrease year by year.

Except not wanting to wait? Spouse? The only child is unwilling to have children.

The data shows that in 20 18, the fertility rate in the three eastern provinces was 0.70.70.75, which was lower than the national average 1. 18, and even worse than suffering. Less children? The situation in troubled Japan is nearly twice as bad.

? I can't be responsible for myself, how can I be responsible for my children? ?

It is said that the child is Cupid sent by heaven, which can make the couple become? A grasshopper in the same boat , the same enemy, care for each other. No children? Bound? You can leave if you want to get married.

One of the reasons for not having children is that the economic growth rate in Northeast China has declined in recent years. In response to the economic downturn, some people who have the ability have to leave their homes to seek better employment opportunities, and this kind of population outflow can easily lead to the separation of husband and wife.

After all? Flower world? There are many temptations. It turns out that horses and chariots are very slow, and you can only love one person in your life. Now we have agreed to grow old together, but he secretly bakes oil.

Compared with couples in different places, the economic recession is a test for couples who stay in the northeast.

Poverty magnifies the contradictions in life infinitely. The less money, the more you want it? Bridal gift? If the bride price is defeated, it will be pulled down, forming a vicious circle in many rural areas in Northeast China. It has been reported in the news that it takes 260,000 bride price to get married and one and a half years to get divorced in rural areas in Northeast China.

It can be said that in the northeast, there is money and separation; If you have no money, you have to leave.

? Northeast women are explosive barrels? Didn't men do it?

Economy determines whether we can be together, and personality determines whether we can go on.

In character, some people say that southern women are fire extinguishers and northeastern women are explosive barrels. But this is not all the men in Northeast China!

What northeast women can't stand most is that men drink too much.

Northeast men, as one of the largest groups in China (the classmate from Inner Mongolia invites you to sit down), it is common for them to drink some wine. It is said that every daughter-in-law in Northeast China politely takes her husband away from the wine table? Answer? Come down, grab your ear and shove into the taxi.

The data shows that in every five divorce cases in Harbin, 1 is caused by the husband's drinking. Emil Wakin Chau's song is the last thing that people in Northeast China can't listen to: In recent years, a person, who is married and divorced, will be lonely, will drink too much and will think of his wife?

In this regard, northeast men also have their own dissatisfaction.

? What's wrong with a drink? What money is not recognized by the daughter-in-law? ?

Many northeast men have a special face outside, calling the shots. However, none of the money actually earned is in my own hands, and it is usually handed in before it is warm.

If you don't spend the money you earn in the northeast, it is domestic violence. The Regulations on the Protection of Women's Rights and Interests in Harbin clearly points out that economic blockade also belongs to the category of domestic violence.

Northeasters have a hot temper and are not wronged. Generous personality is vividly reflected in divorce.

Never has a group of people divorced like this? Whatever? No place has seen so many divorces? Ordinary? .

I have to say that the divorce of the Northeast people is too impulsive, but it is a personal choice and a social phenomenon at different stages of economic development.

90 12, we do not encourage divorce. But marriage should not be the only choice in life.

In fact, Northeasters don't always advise them to go or not. I really don't think it's necessary to leave, so I flashed a golden sentence: you dog, another person can't stand you!