What do you mean, you have no worries?

In life, many people are fearless and leisurely in the face of great difficulties, but sometimes they are suppressed by those little things.

Roosevelt and his wife just got married, and her wife was bored every day because her new chef did a poor job. "If this happened now," said Mrs. Roosevelt, "I would shrug my shoulders and forget it." Even Catherine, the most autocratic queen, usually just laughs when the chef accidentally burns the meat.

Many times, if you want to overcome the troubles caused by some small things, you just need to divert your attention and set yourself a new perspective and method that can make you happier.

Homer is a writer who has written several monographs. He set a good example for us and told us how to overcome the troubles caused by trifles.

When he used to create his own literary works in his apartment in new york, he was often driven crazy by the noise of the water heater in the apartment. Sometimes the steam suddenly spurts, and then there is a harsh sound. He will sit at his desk and scream with anger.

Once, he went camping with some friends. When he heard the loud sound of wood burning, he suddenly thought: Why does it sound like a water heater? Why do I like this sound and hate that sound? When he got home, he said to himself, "The crackling of wood in the fire is a beautiful sound, and the sound from the water heater is similar." I should bury myself in sleep and ignore the noise. " As a result, he did it. "I will pay attention to the sound of the water heater in the first few days, but I will soon forget it." He said.

The same is true of many other minor troubles. We hate them and exhaust ourselves because we exaggerate the importance of those little things to ourselves.

Disraeli said, "Life is too short for us to care about small things."

Emerson told a very interesting story-the story of a giant in the forest about the competition of life.

On the hillside of Longfeng Town, Colorado, there is the remains of a big tree. Botanists tell us that it has a history of more than 400 years. That is to say, when it just sprouted, Columbus had just landed in America. When the first immigrants came to America, it was only half as big as America. In its long life, it was struck by lightning fourteen times; For 400 years, it has overcome countless storms. However, the misfortune of this giant comes from the attack of a small group of ants. Finally, it was helpless and fell to the ground. Those ants bite from the roots, relying on their small and sustained attacks, and gradually hurt the vitality of the tree. Such a giant in the forest, not withered by years, not knocked down by lightning, not destroyed by the storm, but finally fell down because of a small group of ants that could be trampled to death with their thumbs.

Aren't all human beings battle-hardened trees in the forest? We have also experienced countless storms and lightning strikes in our lives, and we have survived strongly. However, some of us are worried about "little ants" and have left scars on our hearts.

So, don't let yourself worry about some unimportant things. Life is so short, why bother about trifles?