What does it mean when a girl says you are not proactive enough? What does it mean when you say you're a good person? What about both? Please know the reference!

Say you are not proactive enough: I want you to take the initiative.

Say he is a good person: prove that you treat him well and give him a sense of security.

Both of them said it means: She feels that you are not proactive enough. She feels that you are a good person but not proactive enough. She is a little disappointed. Being able to tell you that means he likes you very much. I hope you can take the initiative. If not I like you, so I can’t tell you, come on.