Can I get the right of abode by marrying a same-sex foreigner?

First of all, one of the ways to obtain permanent resident status in the United States (that is, a green card) is to marry an American citizen (commonly known as a green card for marriage), which has nothing to do with the time you have lived in the United States (if you meet the requirements, you can usually get a green card in a few months). The only requirement for a green card for marriage is that your marriage is true and qualified.

Second, on the issue of same-sex marriage, only a few states in the United States recognize the legality of same-sex marriage, and California has just joined the ranks through a judge's precedent this year. So you and your boyfriend can legally register for marriage in these States that recognize the legality of same-sex marriage.

Third, however, same-sex marriage is not recognized by federal law, and immigration law is completely within the scope of federal law. So it is difficult for you to apply for a green card through marriage with your boyfriend. Because although the marriage is recognized in the laws of these minority States, it may be difficult for the immigration bureau to recognize that the marriage conforms to the purpose of immigration law.

So you can marry your boyfriend in a state where same-sex marriage is legal in the United States, but if you want to get a green card, you may need to consider other ways. You'd better consult a qualified American immigration lawyer directly to find a way that suits you. You can choose to leave me a message for further consultation.

Disclaimer: The above discussion does not represent formal legal opinions, nor does it form a lawyer-client relationship. The application of the law will be very different in different cases. Lawyers need to get detailed information about the case in order to provide effective help.