Fatherly love is a lifelong responsibility.

It is said that his father loves a mountain, but when he became a father, he realized that this is not a mountain to express. From the moment he became a father, you have an unshirkable responsibility. You can't give up, and you can't accompany him for a lifetime without regrets.

Fatherly love is hard work.

Born in a family where both parents are ordinary workers, there are four children in the family. My father has been ill for a long time, and I have realized that life is not easy since I was a child. Eating by ration, wearing by big and scattering by small, scrimping and saving, and careful calculation are the true portrayal of that era.

Watching my father drag a disabled leg to work every day, I started to help my parents early, and even set aside a small space in the already narrow kitchen to help my family raise chickens and lay eggs. I'm used to the poor food in the northeast and seldom ask for anything.

Fortunately, I was admitted to the university and graduate school by my own efforts, but after five years of university and three years of graduate school, nothing can be redeemed when I get married.

The hardships of life have taught me what it means to be a father. I dare not have children without money. At that time, I worked part-time outside and tried to make money. Fortunately, my communication major is catching up with the great development period of domestic telecommunications. I have to go to Daiyue every day to engage in development, equipment installation, maintenance and customer training. From honing myself to later, I learned the ability to start my own business, and also saved a little bit of capital to be a father.

Fatherly love is companionship.

I became a father late and didn't have my first daughter until I was in my thirties. At that time, I was doing a lot of projects outside, and I was on a business trip most of the year. After having a daughter, I can't let go of my heart. If possible, I will run home every weekend and accompany my daughter to the park and playground. We surf in Yuyuantan, row boats in Beihai, slide in Taoranting and play in Shijingshan Children's Park ... Although we can't watch her grow up day by day, the happiness of her daughter's childhood has become the greatest wish of a father.

Fatherly love is at all costs.

We finally got a garage and settled down in Beijing, but once again we made a difficult choice for our daughter.

When we were in Beijing, we lived on the fourth ring road at the junction of Haidian District and Fengtai District. Supposedly, educational resources are not too good, but they are not too bad. When my daughter first entered primary school, a parent-teacher conference gave us a new generation of parents who were assigned to work in Beijing after graduation a profound understanding of the basic education in the capital. A simple addition operation, almost all children are memorizing the unified answer, without any change and thinking.

Although I know that children in Beijing will have many advantages in the college entrance examination, I can't imagine what kind of suffering it will be for children to graduate from high school in this way, so the husband and wife made up their minds to give up their assessed senior titles, establish a good professional foundation and immigrate to Canada to start a new life.

Fatherly love is never giving up.

I just arrived in a foreign country without friends, so I caught up with 9 1 1. The atmosphere is tense, the job is hard to find, and the cash with me is limited, so I have to start a cautious life again.

Live in an immigrant's home for a temporary transition, and then find a room to share with others to save money. Toronto is very cold in winter, so it is inconvenient to have no car. Sometimes it takes a long time for a family of three to walk outside to find a place. Their daughter was tired, so they carried her slowly in the snow.

When you are cold and hungry, find a restaurant to warm up. If you can't bear to spend money, buy something for your daughter and go back to your place with satisfaction after watching her eat.

In this way, in order for our daughter to go to a better school, we moved again and again and took great pains.

After settling down a little, I started a business in Canada and rented a warehouse of more than 3,000 square meters to do imported LED display business. From the initial OEM without brand, it is difficult to enter mainstream integrators by gradually establishing brands to enter the PC supporting market in North America and Europe.

Just then, our second daughter was born, and our family finally had a place to live in Canada.

Fatherly love is an example.

After the LED market flourished, I had to transform again.

In order to set an example for my children and let them see that my father has been working hard, I resolutely chose to go to Britain to study for a doctorate when I was almost forty years old.

When the father of two children becomes a student again, it will be a great challenge in terms of language, energy and willpower, and he will face the separation of his family again. But for the sake of a better living and learning environment for my two daughters in the future, it is worthwhile for me to be a father.

Four years later, my family finally attended the graduation ceremony in England, and I immediately found a job in a university and settled down in England.

Fatherly love is appreciation.

In a blink of an eye, both daughters have grown up. One inherits his mother's career and becomes a doctor. The other, following her sister's example, wants to be angels in white who saves lives. Although they are still busy, they often get together as a family. Most of the time, my mother cooks for them. From time to time, I will show my daughter a hand. The two daughters are also interested in occasionally showing off their cooking skills.

On one occasion, the eldest daughter invited her family to have afternoon tea and taste exquisite cakes at her specially selected London hotel. Looking at the photos of celebrities visiting here on the wall, she can't help but feel a sense of time travel. I still remember my daughters when they were young, but now they are slim and elegant, and they are beginning to face the challenges of life by themselves.

The confession of my eldest daughter surprised me and intoxicated me. "The person I admire most when I grow up is my dad. He tossed and turned all his life, letting us see the world and experience different realms of life. "

I was deeply moved by my daughter's words. Half of my life is full of ups and downs, and I have paid a lot but have no regrets. At this time, I can watch my children grow up happily, except for appreciation and satisfaction.