Advantages and disadvantages of girls studying in Germany

Advantages and disadvantages of girls studying in Germany

As the world's second largest foreign trade country, the largest exporter and the largest trade surplus country, Germany highlights its position as the largest economic power in the European Union. In recent years, the cooperation between China and China in the fields of economy, politics and education has been changing with each passing day, and more and more German students choose Germany as their gilded ideal country.

The following are the advantages and disadvantages of girls studying in Germany. I have sorted it out. Welcome to refer to!

The feeling of a girl studying in Germany for the first time.

From boarding Air China CA93 1 from Beijing to Frankfurt to writing my thoughts, I have only been in Germany for 5 days! In normal times, five days is nothing, but for me, these five days have given me a new understanding of my future life in Germany!

On the afternoon of April 6th, I finally got my visa to Frejborg, and I was so excited that I wanted to hug you. After all, the preparation for 1 year has achieved results, and going to Germany no longer makes my dream come true. The following days are joyful and noisy. Booking air tickets and preparing those messy but indispensable things will inevitably lead to expectations for future life?

17 April, German time 18: 50, I walked out of the customs smoothly (without asking me any questions at all), and my friends who came to meet me were anxious, but I finally saw my figure, and I was relieved! Next, I picked up my luggage and took a three-hour ice car to Frejborg. By this time, it was night arrival in Freiburg, and I had not slept for nearly 20 hours. My mind has started to get confused, and I don't feel any excitement. I only knew to follow my friends until I went to my sister's house in China, and I planned to stay there temporarily. Elder sister is gentle and kind, and has prepared a simple and warm dinner for us. At that time, she was warm, moved and grateful! Then I reported my parents' safety. It was already 5: 00 a.m.15 in China. I know very well that my parents didn't wait for my call, and I didn't sleep all night. As their daughter, I also wished I could stay with them forever, but the reality is cruel. My parents broke their hearts for 0! Because I just arrived, I ate almost nothing for dinner except water. My friend explained a few words and left in a hurry. Because he is studying in Bonn now, he can only stay at other students' homes for one night. Late at night, I was lying in bed, troubled by insomnia. I didn't seem to think that I had arrived in Germany, but I went to an unfamiliar place and fell asleep unconsciously?

/kloc-in the early morning of April, 0/8, my friend called to remind me to get up. Although I was still sleepy, I set off with great energy! When I am away from home, I feel that the air in Frejborg is fresh, just like it has just rained, and it still smells of earth, but the sun is shining. Today, my friend mainly showed me the environment here. The first stop is the language school where I will take classes in the future, and the second stop is the city center. Because it is Sunday, all kaufhaus are closed, but through the window, we can see the brand zero. esprit。 Nivea Nike ~ ~ ~ We often see it in China, and it seems to be no stranger! It's quiet and beautiful here, surrounded by medieval houses, and the clear spring water flows quietly in the roadside pool ~ ~ ~ It's different from the prosperity of Beijing, the tall buildings in the forest, the noisy vehicles and the crowded people, but it's so quiet and peaceful that I feel calm. At noon, my friend took me to see the house. After sitting in the S-BAHN for 10 minutes, I met a China girl who arrived in Germany one month earlier than me and had a brief chat. Then I will wait for her to give me an answer as soon as possible! Maybe I'm in a hurry, so I'm not hungry, but my friend is hungry enough. He took me to an Italian restaurant that he liked very much. He ordered a glass of pizaa and bier for himself and a glass of spaogti and wasser for me. The taste is OK, but to be honest, I still like China rice! Because it's 3 o'clock in the afternoon, there aren't many guests in the shop, so we'll talk while eating. Because he has been in Germany for 4.5 years, he certainly wants to tell me a lot of things, and he will meet Bonn soon, so he has been telling me. At half past eight in the evening, the night came again. My friend has boarded the EC back to Bonn, and my sister has made wonton. I wonder if I can wait until tomorrow to make house calls, and will DB go?

At 9 o'clock on April 19, my sister accompanied me to DB to unfreeze my account, but DB asked me to apply for an account first. Alas, the house has really become a top priority! My sister has a lot of homework because she is studying for a doctorate, and then I am really lonely. First, I went to the language school, and then explained that I would take the exam next Monday because of the house. Because of my poor spoken English, SEKRETAERIN said it many times, and I barely understood it, not to mention my own words. Then I took the map and walked around the place where my friend took me yesterday. On the way, a kind German woman looked at me with a map and offered to tell me how to get there. Although I don't know much about it, I was very happy until I was sure I wouldn't get lost, so I went to Unibibulotek to study by myself!

Experience the deepest speed: My German is too poor to communicate with a German normally. I was taken by a friend on the first day, and now I'm all on my own. Once I encounter a problem, I am absolutely dumb, and the most important thing is that I can't understand it. Now I know the importance of learning German well in China! To tell the truth, before I came to Germany, I thought it was very kind for China people in Germany to meet each other, but the truth was just the opposite! Frejborg itself is very small. On the way, I can see at least 10 Chinese faces every day. At first, my eyes were so eager to say hello to them, but every time they looked at my smiling face or didn't even look at me, I was silent! Is this the people of our country? When you smile at Germans, you will get a polite smile and greeting. From China? Why is this happening? On the first day, I thought I met the wrong person, but the next day and the third day, I realized that it was a fact, that is, my friend told me to keep it? Low profile? ! I don't understand that China people have seen China people but not foreigners' enthusiasm and courtesy! I don't understand! I heard that people in China are disunited and don't believe in this, but today I deeply realize this. I never consider myself as a person of the same nation at all, because there is no intimacy and pride of a nation! I feel sorry for this, and at the same time, I feel sorry for the China students who are studying in Germany like me! Why is this happening? German classes in Beijing are not like this.

On April 2 1 day, the trouble finally came. The China girl who arrived in Germany earlier than me stopped contacting me, and my house was gone! My sister's husband will be back soon, so I have to move out and walk on the path of SEEPARK. I feel so helpless for the first time. My friend has a lot of homework this semester. In Bonn, he tried his best to help me. What else can I ask for? I let myself try not to worry, listen to the news everywhere, and hope that another miracle will appear and wait?

On April 22nd, another sunny morning, I stood on the footbridge and looked at the scenery of Frejborg, like a dynamic oil painting! I'm worried about the house, but I keep encouraging myself. I must learn German well so that I can communicate with others and live completely independently. There is still a long way to go?

The feelings of female students studying in Germany

Those who think they can get rich by going abroad should wake up, because nothing has changed in China and abroad.

1, from tourists to international students: mentality change

The initial heart of yearning for Germany comes from the handsome and heroic attitude of the German national football team (it didn't win the World Cup that year). With the fantasy of European customs and the conscious study of the meticulous Germanic nation, I came to Germany with my box. In the first month, everything was fresh, clean air, European classical buildings in Nande, quiet streets, clean and punctual subway trains, large tracts of greening, never having to worry about traffic jams, unlimited highways (although there were no cars) and slow-paced life. I just think, ah, evil capitalism.

It was not until a month later that my locked bicycle was dismantled and stolen, leaving only one wheel and lock lying alone in the carport. Then he took the train SLR bag and put it on the seat, then turned around and was taken away. It seems that this country is not so perfect.

A little longer, it is nonsense to find that foreigners obey the traffic lights. The traffic lights at the exit street of the downtown railway station are always furnishings. It is good for drivers to let pedestrians go, but it is not voluntary but legal, and it is often accompanied by impatient honking. Small villa It is good for every family to have a beautiful small garden, but that is stipulated by the government. There will be a special person to regularly check the construction of garden vegetation, and whoever has overgrown gardens will be fined. In my opinion, Germans? Rigorous? Most of them are bound by German laws; Reading on the subway without looking at the mobile phone is because there is no signal on the subway; It is normal to be ten minutes late for the meeting. Who says Germans are punctual? What about the trust between people?

At this point, I found that human nature may be the same, regardless of nationality. It's just that western culture pays more attention to doing good deeds outside, which is relatively neglected in China education. For example, foreigners like to get up in the morning, wash their hair, take a bath and go out to see the scenery, while China people prefer to go home at night, take a bath and sleep comfortably, which is the difference in personal habits caused by culture. This is my impression of Germany from a tourist to a student. In the eyes of tourists, Germany is a neat, orderly, friendly and elegant beer garden in summer. As students, there are more high transportation costs, universities that are difficult to graduate, long winters and rare sunshine.

2. Is hard work equal to reward?

Next, let's talk about the issues that everyone is most concerned about. Can Chinese struggling in Germany easily reach the middle class? Most students studying in Dehua are admirable self-reliant people. Most of them stayed in Germany after studying abroad. For some people who do scientific research, foreign countries have much better resources and environment, while avoiding the unique interference factors in China. Although the brain drain is controversial, scientific research should contribute to all mankind in the world. Let's propose a toast to you. Except for this small number of scientific research talents, most of them are people who roll and fall in the enterprise. The average wage in Germany is about 2300 euros before tax and about 1500 euros after tax (German tax is quite high). One month's food, clothing, housing and transportation add up to at least 1000 euros, not counting travel expenses. German young people, like vagrants in the north and Guangzhou, live a frugal life. What about the middle class and the high-income class? Let's take a look at the pre-tax annual income of 60,000 euros (already the highest salary level in Munich), and about 30,000 euros after tax.

As Asians, although there is no obvious superficial discrimination now, the deep sense of superiority of Germans or whites is still deeply rooted. (For example, in Bankrupt Sisters, all ethnic groups are used as jokes. Status is much lower than that of black people. Many people will jump out and say that you are just incompetent when they encounter discrimination; Some people say that the foreigners they meet are very good. Naturally, in an environment without competition, such as traveling or studying abroad, people must be friendly. Human nature only shows its dark side when it is threatened. In the workplace, if you rob others of their jobs, how can others not crowd you out? Do you think outsiders are so noble that the two villages next door can crowd them out? Look at England and France. The French now refuse to learn English, while the British despise the United States and Britain. Everyone is the same.

Some people say that European income of 2000 euros and RMB income of 2000 yuan are not at the same level of living. First of all, this sentence itself is a concept stealing. Suppose the after-tax income is 2000 euros, which is already a very good income for young people. There is no doubt that such a person can get 20,000 euros in China's first tier cities. Being able to get a high salary abroad shows that their ability must be excellent. These people started out smoothly, but when they got to a certain position, they would find that they met the ceiling. The tax bureau's strict investigation, all kinds of red tape paperwork and intrigue in the workplace are no less than those in China. Asians are extremely rare, especially in the middle and upper levels of highly competitive fields such as law, medicine and business. So, if you have the ability, why put up with the unfair treatment you encounter abroad? Domestic development is changing with each passing day, and opportunities are thriving. I can get 2,000 euros after tax in Germany, and 20,000 yuan in China is definitely no problem. There is still a chance to develop steadily, so that executives can earn millions a year, or the future of starting their own business as CEO is even more boundless. Just a few decades of life, why waste it on gaining the approval of irrelevant people? As for people who are bound by various hidden rules at home and easily integrate into the middle class abroad, you have certain social relations and languages at home and can't get along well without pressure, and dare to say that you can get along well abroad? You can sit in front of the computer and be a keyboard player now. Do you think it's because you pay less taxes? Losers are losers everywhere, which has nothing to do with the system.

3. Is marrying a foreigner a winner in life?

Girls also have a topic of great concern: marry a handsome guy from Europe and America and have a beautiful mixed-race baby. Fortunately, I have seen many real people and stories in this field. In fact, unlike most people's imagination that marrying a foreigner is equivalent to buying a beautiful villa in the suburbs and living a middle-class life, these women have similar starting points, but their married life is very different.

The most legendary is a strong woman who started her own company and lived in the core business district of Munich. Her husband has reached the level of his mother tongue in Chinese (she can write poems and send text messages in classical Chinese) and has started a company. Love is very. But she gets up at five o'clock every morning, goes to work in a nearby city (where the company is located), then goes home after eleven o'clock in the evening, and sometimes sleeps in the company. The children are all taken care of by the nanny.

A woman of the same age lives in a small villa in a rich area a little far from the city, and her husband is an executive of Siemens. She can only speak no more than ten sentences of German, and her English is quite average. The children have left home to work, so she can only communicate with her husband in a few simple words of English. She does housework and cleans flowers and plants every day. The biggest expectation is that the children will go home. I have been there several times. Every time I leave, she tells me to come back next time. My eyes are deeply lonely. Looking back now, I still feel unbearable. For more than 20 years, I watched the same scenery from morning till night every day, few people communicated with each other, and my connection with China has long been out of touch. Children are also influenced by different cultures and can't speak the same language. The appearance is really glamorous, but other people's opinions are so important that they can be eaten as food? Life is her own. What is the meaning of her life?

Tell me about the young one. Many of them met their husbands after studying in Germany and then got married. I once joined a crowd in Dehua, mostly girls. When I found out that they were all making do by themselves or taking their children to dinner, and my husband came home or my mother-in-law cooked a table of hard dishes, I decided to quit the group. Why not? As a foodie who never mistreats his stomach, he is willful.

Other girls' german level is very low, and later they learned that there are many flash marriages and? Blind date marriage? . Privately, I heard that a girl met and chose her husband when she was in China. Because my husband is handsome and spends a lot of money, he goes to restaurants every day and has a big wedding in China after a few months of love (the girl can't speak German and the man can't speak English, so don't talk about soul communication). When I came over, I found that there was no exchange rate of 10: 1 (that year), and my husband's income in Germany was actually very low. Her social circle is limited to her husband and his family. Her husband is satisfied with her self-centered social circle and gives a little family living expenses every month, not thinking about gifts and luxuries. I have been married for more than a year, and I have cheated several times.

There is another process like this. After returning to Germany, my husband knew that there was a custom of dowry in China, and he forced the woman to ask for money from her family. Some are even more exaggerated. In order to go abroad, they married strangers directly through an intermediary.

If these are the reasons for cultural differences. Look at the local families. In order to practice oral English and understand local customs, I lived in a host family for a period of time and in a German family. The male owner is a senior manager of a famous German enterprise with a high income, while the female owner is a primary school teacher with an average income. Her children study in famous schools and live in beautiful villas near the city. A very ordinary middle class conforms to the vision of most people who want to immigrate. The ending of fairy tales is just the beginning of fireworks. It was soon discovered that when the cleaning aunt didn't come, the woman was cooking and the man was watching TV with his legs crossed. Of course, he never wanted to help. Going home for dinner at night instead of being chic outside is because restaurants outside are expensive and you can't afford to eat out often (even at a high salary). When a man who looks like a senior elite is in a bad mood, he will scold her for cooking shit and strike the table and leave. There are high-grade chocolates in the refrigerator that only the host can eat, and no one else in the family can touch them. And so on. The part involving women's rights will not be discussed. It can only be said that it is the same at home and abroad, and the economic base determines the superstructure. But when you have your own financial ability, you have to pay a corresponding price, such as spending time with your family.

I met a girl who was desperately looking for a boyfriend in Germany. I can achieve a standard of living by finding a boyfriend here, but I can't achieve it after ten years of struggle in China? She said. I have nothing to say to those who are so forced to get married for a nation and give up countless possibilities of self-esteem, family and life, but are lazy and selfish and unwilling to work hard and just want to take shortcuts, because it is not worth wasting time to persuade.

4, parents are here, don't travel far.

As a person who loves sunshine, Germany really doesn't appeal to me, especially after a day in June in a down jacket. At first glance, the scenery is beautiful, but after a long time, it is all villages. The transportation is inconvenient and expensive, medical care is a demon that grinds people, wages are not high, taxes are too high, rules and regulations are complicated and dogmatic, and there is no alternative to the economic downturn. Every China student studying in Germany is lonely in meditation at night.

Many people who have lived abroad for a long time and rarely return to China are likely to stay in the past. People born in 1980s and 1990s witnessed the most shocking changes in China. I don't want to miss the process and look forward to her future development.

Every era has its own America, a pioneer in opening up the western region and an enduring Europe. It's up to you to decide which side to take. My parents are here, so I don't travel far. I don't want my mother to sit in front of the computer for hours because of that damn time difference, so she can say a few words online. I don't want to be shocked to find that they have so much white hair and deeper wrinkles every time we meet. I'm afraid it's too late to find that the warm old house that once sheltered from the wind and rain has become empty.

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