Why do you see others get hurt as if you will get hurt?

I have to admit that modern superb film technology, coupled with thrilling and bloody plots, will bring great sensory stimulation and make people want to stop. But sometimes, some bloody pictures that are too real can still make people feel sick or painful. Mirror neurons in the monkey's brain can make it stick out its tongue in imitation of humans. For example, I can't watch a movie called "Death Comes", not to say how horrible it is, but that the bloody picture is too real, and my head is cut off by an elevator and directly pierced by a plastic pipe. Seeing these naked descriptions, I can't help but close my eyes, as if all these pains are acting on myself. In addition to this violent picture, there is another picture that I can't watch. When I witness other men's vital parts being attacked, an endless feeling of egg pain will emerge in my heart. I believe this is what many male compatriots have experienced (how painful the egg hurts, please imagine dysmenorrhea for female compatriots). Why do you see other people's pain as your own? It must be a psychological factor! * * * Love is real. This ability to treat other people's pain as their own pain is called empathy (different schools of psychology have many different translations, such as * * * feeling, * * feeling, empathy and so on. ), this is mainly the ability to go deep into the subjective world of others and feel the same. This ability is not only used to feel pain, for example, when others are sad, we will be sad, and when others are happy, we will be happy with them. This ability is innate. The simplest example is that if a group of babies are together and one of them cries, the other babies will soon be driven to cry together, that is, they will be infected by the crying baby's emotions. With our own development, this ability is also constantly developing, which has become the basis of our communication with people and integration into society. The core that a person can make others feel comfortable is to understand the inner feelings of others, and pain is only a small part. This ability is also an essential quality for an excellent psychological counselor. Rogers, the greatest psychotherapist in the twentieth century, regards empathy as the core process in which psychotherapy can play its role. He believes that the process of establishing a good consulting relationship is to be able to walk into each other's spiritual realm, feel each other's inner world, treat each other with heart, understand each other's feelings, and respond appropriately to each other's feelings. Mirror neuron human psychology is a function of the brain, so * * * emotions are also reflected in the physiological level of the brain. In the early 1990s, Italian researchers discovered by chance that when a monkey made a purposeful action (such as picking fruit), this neuron in its brain would be activated. Surprisingly, these neurons are also activated when other monkeys see their companions picking fruits. This kind of cell, which has just entered people's field of vision, looks like a mirror and can directly map the actions of others in the observer's brain, so we call it mirror neuron. Unsurprisingly, scientists have found traces of these mirror neurons in different parts of the human brain and confirmed that they are the source of our empathy. Let's go back to the problem of egg pain. When we see others being attacked, we will activate the same mirror neurons as when we are attacked, so we will unconsciously follow the pain. Ouch! Learning review: 1. We will be sad when we see others sad. When we see others happy, we will be happy with them. Naturally, when we see others suffering, we will also suffer. This ability is called * * * love.