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Yes, I used to feel inferior.

When I was six years old, I only dared to hide behind my mother when I signed up for school because of my inferiority complex. Never dare to raise your hand to answer questions in class. When the teacher came, I dare not answer loudly. When I announced the answer, I found that I was right.

When I was twelve years old, I was afraid of competing for Chinese class representatives because of my inferiority complex, even though I could rank in the top three in Chinese. Obviously, I like playing with my classmates on the playground, but I only dare to hide in the corner and write math problems silently.

When I was sixteen years old, I never dared to say "I like you" to him at the same table, never dared to look up at his greeting eyes, and even became cautious when I spoke. I'm afraid he thinks I'm too stupid.

At the age of eighteen, because of my inferiority complex, my mother's joke "How come you are nothing like me" made me feel sad in the mirror for a long time. No mother's big eyes, no mother's white skin and no mother's tall man. Well, it's really nothing.

I thought that when I went to college, the ugly duckling would become a white swan one day. Unexpectedly, the inferiority complex in the bones is hard to change after all.

I finally got up the courage to stand on the stage when I ran for the study Committee at the beginning of my freshman year. But I was attracted to another girl. Her typhoon and her conversation made me feel ashamed. I haven't voted yet, and my heart has lost first. Later, I learned that the final number of votes was not much different. It turns out that my performance is not bad either.

Sophomore wanted to stay in the school's media editorial department and carefully prepared the campaign form, but when the minister asked "what are your advantages", he was speechless. I'm really not good at boasting and selling myself. I said foolishly, "I don't seem to have any advantage." Later, I learned that I was actually one of the top three writers in the minister's mouth.

My junior year wanted to take the postgraduate entrance examination, searched all kinds of materials and visited various famous schools in official website, but I still didn't have the courage to report to the schools in Beijing. I haven't started yet, so I'm scared. Later, all the people around me went to Beijing.

When I was looking for a job in senior three, I still remembered my dream of being a reporter. I stood in front of the media building and looked up for a long time, but I was stopped by the "Don't go to college unless it's 2 1 1/985" in the recruitment information. I found an educational institution in a hurry, and the salary is ok, but I have no bottom.

02

Damn inferiority complex, pestering me. I thought I was the only one with such deep inferiority, but later I found out that I was not the only one with inferiority.

Cher is a friend I met in college. She is dressed in white with neat bangs. Whether running in the sun or reading in the library, she looks like a fairy floating from another world. She smiles beautifully, as gentle and beautiful as her name.

She is the first in her major and the first prize in various competitions every year. She is a good student in the eyes of teachers and a cotton-padded jacket in the hearts of classmates.

When we calculated what to eat for the next meal, she had traveled abroad with her mother several times.

Her looks, her talents and her family background are enviable. Such a girl who is always in the center of the stage has too much dazzling light.

If she didn't tell me herself, she would feel inferior. I can't believe it.

She said that her father was away on business all the year round, leaving only her and her mother to get along day and night. In the eyes of others, a happy family is nothing more than the separation of two places.

She said that she was sent to various music classes and dance classes since she was a child, and her parents never asked her if she liked it. Once, she didn't want to play the piano, and her father smashed it angrily. The violent crash still seems to ring in my ears. A heavy blow hit the piano and hit her heart. From then on, it was difficult for her to pour out her heart in front of that tall figure.

She said that since childhood, at the request of her parents, she has attended the best primary and junior high schools in the city, and she can't slack off for a moment. Competing with those excellent people all day, if you relax a little, you will fall behind others. How can I not feel inferior and tired? And this kind of inferiority can't be shown in front of your family, otherwise they will say that you are worthless.

At some point, Cher left tears.

03

How good do you have to be to not feel inferior?

Recently, Zheng Shuang questioned the referee in the program, and his emotions were out of control for a time, even leaving the program to interrupt the recording. This is not the first time she has lost control on the show. Previously, she had quarreled with her father in public because of weight loss. In the early years, the love with Zhang Hans ended without results. After all, it's all because of inferiority.

Before Tong Liya and Chen Sicheng got married, they also admitted that Chen Sicheng was excellent in acting and directing, and he definitely didn't deserve him. When the host asked "What should I do if you find a rival in love one day", her answer turned out to be "I can only express myself well".

They are goddesses, but they also feel inferior.

When Li Qingzhao met Zhao Mingcheng, she changed from a girl who "walked with shame and looked back at the door, but sniffed her childhood" to a woman who was "thinner than a yellow flower".

Zhang Ailing met Hu Lancheng, and she became very, very low, as low as dust. A generation of talented women with countless fans put down their bodies and searched for a husband thousands of miles, only to find that her husband had another love.

In love, it is always easier to make people feel inferior.

Feel inferior in front of your lover, afraid that you are not worthy of him,

Feel inferior in front of work and worry that you can't do it well.

Feel inferior in front of others and worry about not being liked.

From small to large, we always feel inferior for our looks, our jobs, the people we like, and all kinds of things. We are afraid that we can't do everything well and lose everything carelessly.

04

When I look back on the past years and recall the things that made me feel inferior, I suddenly find that inferiority is not hopeless.

Share my two speech experiences with you.

When I first went to college, as a team leader, I had to stand on the stage and give a speech in front of hundreds of people. When rehearsing, I always worry that my voice is not good, my words don't resonate, I forget my words in the middle, and I worry about all kinds of emergencies. What's more, there are several teams here, and if they don't perform well, it's not just their own people who will lose.

However, the tutor's feedback is that you are the best team leader. A group leader also talked to me privately and said, why are you not nervous every time you go on stage?

Finally, our team was selected as an excellent team.

I'm not nervous, but they just can't see it.

On the contrary, it is because of nervousness and inferiority that we are more fully prepared.

For this speech, I wrote a word-for-word draft in advance, revised it repeatedly, looked at my expressions and gestures in the mirror, and found an empty classroom to practice repeatedly. By the day I officially stepped onto the stage, I could have done it. No matter what happens, I can guarantee that my speech will go on. "Who makes who is perfect" is the truth.

This is the "not nervous" me in the eyes of others.

When I try my best to do things, although I am still nervous, although I still feel inferior in front of so many excellent people, at least I can keep smiling, at least I have done impeccably.

When you do one thing well, you can do the same thing well. When you enter a virtuous circle, you will become more and more confident.

The second time was an activity outside the school. I took the stage as a student representative and made a speech for a few minutes. At that time, because I didn't have time to make any preparations during my internship, I just meditated for a few minutes before going on stage, and because no one in the audience knew me, there was basically no pressure. When I finished my speech, the audience applauded. The contact of the activity gave me a thumbs-up under the stage, and later called me to ask if I wanted to go to their company for an internship.

I was quite surprised by the "unintentional insertion of willows into the shade".

At first, I just talked casually, but finally I got applause and offer.

When I don't compare with others, don't care about gains and losses, and feel at ease, I no longer feel inferior.

After all, everyone's growth environment is different and their pursuit of life is different. There is no need to always compare the advantages of others with your own shortcomings, thus exerting unnecessary pressure on yourself invisibly.

Less utilitarian pursuit, more down-to-earth accumulation. Why do you feel inferior to dust? You are better than you think.

Text ‖ Green grass floats.

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