You are new to the world, so you are different.

Text/Xin Xiaheyuan

You are not deeply involved in the world, so you appear to be different.

This sentence came back and forth vaguely, as if I had heard it said many times by different people around me. In everyone's tone, most of them had this or that story hidden in them.

The first time I heard someone comment on me with this sentence was when I got my first internship after graduation. At that time, nearly three years had passed.

Let’s talk about my Miss Pistachio Luzi.

In just a few days of work after the new year, after the annual leave, it stands to reason that everyone should be in a passionate state to be normal, especially Miss Luzi who is beaten every day A girl with chicken blood.

I pushed the coffee in my hand to her hand, looked at the tired Miss Luzi in front of me, joked with her, and asked her what was going on.

Miss Luzi is the most lively, cheerful and outgoing among all my friends. She works in human resources management.

This is one of the jobs I envy, because Ms. Luzi speaks fluent Mandarin and looks confident and calm when sitting in the interview room and chatting with applicants. I stood at the door Everyone outside has to be a little envious.

In fact, I think I am not inferior when it comes to being eloquent. However, in the nearly three years since I met Miss Luzi, I have never been able to argue about something. A little cheaper.

I asked her, why are you so worried during the Chinese New Year?

She said, Xia He, recruiting has been very difficult recently.

I smiled and told her that it was impossible. Logically speaking, the peak period of employment should be after the new year.

She shook her head.

In Miss Luzi’s narration, I finally understood most of the reasons for her frown.

After a major personnel reshuffle before the year, a large number of job seekers are indeed facing the problem of finding a job after the new year. At the same time, recruiting units also hope to take this opportunity to recruit a large number of outstanding employees.

After rounds of elimination, there are really only a few left to the end.

Many companies want to inject a young and outstanding force as soon as possible to maintain sufficient passion and vitality. But the vast majority of fresh graduates are young and not as good as the companies want.

Miss Luzi said that sometimes during interviews, she would always think of the time when she was looking for a job after graduation, so she naturally felt a different kind of distress for these children, but the tricks everyone proposed The question really made her dumbfounded.

You are new to the world, that’s why you stand out.

The meaning of this sentence should be understood as that one feels that oneself is the most special and unique, so that makes him stand out.

Or it can be explained that you are not yet deeply involved in the world, so the edges and corners of your body are still sharp and have not been smoothed, so you are different from a large number of people who have been socialized.

In other words, it is precisely because they are too young, have too little experience, are inconsistent with the surrounding environment or circle, or even incompatible, that they appear different.

I don’t know which explanation from friends around me is more realistic. However, the moment we walk out of school, it may not only represent the end of our entire youth, but more importantly, As an adult, you should bear responsibilities.

When we open our eyes and bid farewell to our youth, we act like adults and wait alone for the sun to shine and shine through all despair.

How many people, with a monthly salary of two to three thousand, lament that they are unable to support their parents and give their children a good life.

How many people scroll through their circle of friends every day, envious of where their friends have gone, and feel sad for a while.

There will always be a darkness when growing up, like the ocean. Who can cross and who falls silently. I don’t know who the original author of this sentence is, but I have the same thing as him. The state of mind is just like Miss Luzi. Many interviewers, when sitting in front of her, envy her calmness and her profound knowledge.

But at the beginning of life, we all face the same test. When we grow up, there will always be a darkness like the ocean. Know.

This principle is just like the old saying that when a person drinks water, he knows whether it is warm or cold.

I once heard many people say that there were no stars in this city at night, only shining street lights.

At the beginning of my graduation, I probably had the same idea. Negative thoughts are bigger than life.

First of all, he was caught off guard by the life he met for the first time, and secondly, he was completely injured by the improper handling of human relationships. When he woke up every morning, he felt that work was more difficult than being punished.

At that time, Master told me a story.

I suddenly woke up and finally understood that when you wake up, the first thing you feel is sadness. You don’t know that there is an ant that spent its whole life crossing this city.

And I am so lucky.

Every day that is full of hope is a clear story, telling about time and wandering, mocking failure and ignorance, and those dreams that persist alone.

When I was in college, I had a very close friend. Later, she met the more important half of her life, so I had to eat, go to class, walk, and go shopping all by myself. At that time, I had a little bitterness hidden in my heart, but I didn't dare to say it.

I just silently thought about how she could be so treacherous.

Later, my life circle became larger and larger, and I met more and more friends. Everyone had different lives in different cities, and most of my friends only saw each other once a year during the Chinese New Year. .

Suddenly, I remembered that we said before that we should keep in touch.

When I was in school, partying, singing, and going shopping were the main thread of my life. Most of the time I paid the bills without blinking. During the Chinese New Year this year, my neighbor next door asked me, Xia He , why have you become thinner and thinner recently?

I smiled and didn’t answer her, but I thought to myself, no, haven’t I always had this kind of body shape since I was a child?

My father replied jokingly that once he made money, he would know how to save more than before, so he lost weight.

In the test of life, we walked through mountains and bridges, overcame thorns and thorns along the way, with immature faces and stubbornness, suffered discrimination, experienced the warmth and warmth of human relationships, experienced bitterness and suffering, and even lived alone for a while. A life that no one cares about.

In the past, I could not tolerate a grain of sand in my eyes. This was the oath I bragged to my friends when I was in school. At that time, I really could not tolerate a grain of sand in my eyes. I was arrogant and willful. , do not know how to make the slightest concession and compromise.

This is the so-called youth and frivolity.

Later, old classmates established a WeChat group, and those people who once felt that they had no contact with each other, after saying hello, smiled and disappeared.

Because you have seen too many people, you understand the quarrels at that time better. There is no malice in your heart. The people and things you hated, rejected, and hated in the past have now changed. Got the taste.

In fact, your little thoughts will be shared by others, your little feelings will be shared by others, and your passionate dreams will be shared by others.

Thousands of people have experienced the same setbacks and pain you have experienced. You feel that you have paid a lot but still gained nothing. In fact, it is just because there are thousands of people who work harder than you.

We all once thought that we were the most unique and shining.

So in the interview room, the boy opposite asked Miss Luzi, is your company responsible for finding partners?

Miss Luzi’s breath was stuck in her throat and she was speechless.

But one day, you will not be able to stand those teenagers who are full of edges and corners. They regard themselves as the center and loudly preach the truth that you have understood many years ago.

You will feel ridiculous, but sometimes you will envy them, because you know that you will never be like them again.

The world has fallen into a new cycle. One wave of people has passed, and another wave of people has come again.

Just like when we were kids and we said "I don't agree" it means I don't agree.

When you grow up, you will still say "I don't agree", but you will still say "but I accept".

Many years later, if you are deeply involved in the world and disappear from everyone, I hope you are still different, but I hope that your difference is hidden in the books you have read and the experiences you have walked. The road, and the calm and unhurried temperament.