Finding a job in love and life on the Internet gives me a headache.

I understand your idea! Whether it's real love or online love. He's all you have. You are a sentimental person. But have you ever thought that even if you go back to reality with her now, can you give her happiness? I didn't mean to look down on you. It's just that life is realistic. Only by working hard and improving your living conditions bit by bit can you have true love. Love is based on material things. As a man, you should work hard and give your beloved a bright future. So you should refuel and work hard. Take this love as your motivation! As for you and her, you should face up to this love. You love her, you must want her to be happy. So, as long as she is happy, you will feel happy, right? Then give her deep blessing in your heart! Love doesn't have to be owned. What did you say?/Sorry? You can choose to be good friends with her. I once fell in love with a girl for 7 years, and now we are best friends. As long as she is happy. I am very satisfied. I'd better tell you a word, there is no despair, only desperate people! Everything about you can change! Believe me, I have no culture either. I don't have a father. I have been in love three times. But I am not discouraged! Of course, I have been decadent, but as a man, I have no decadent capital, and neither do you. You have a family waiting for you to look after. Learn something. Learning can make you see hope. God helps those who help themselves! Your destiny is in your hands. You can change! Nowadays, it is not necessary to have a high degree to survive and develop in society. Success mainly depends on opportunity and ability (non-book ability). If you don't work hard, the opportunity won't come to you, or you won't know if it comes to you.

As for online love, give it up, let alone abnormal love, let alone online love, let alone the current social reality, people who have no job and no money should not talk about love.

Of course, you can't say that you can't have love without work and money, but you always have the same ability to make women feel that you can rely on or be safe. For example, a positive attitude and enough actions prove that you may be a successful man in the future. The following is an inspirational story.

Qi Baishi studied painting.

This famous artist in modern China painting world also started late and had a poor foundation. Qi Baishi was born in a poor family and worked as a farmer for generations. He only went to a private school with his grandfather once before 12 years old. He cuts wood, grazes cattle, cultivates land, and does everything. Learn carpentry at the age of 65,438+02, and learn carpentry at the age of 65,438+05 to earn money to support the family. I didn't formally learn painting until I was 27 years old. At this time, you may not even think of yourself, you will become a master in the future and get a series of honors.

It's hard to say when Qi Baishi can be called "success". I think he was famous when he was young and middle-aged, but what is certain is that he began to boldly break through himself after the age of 56 and changed his painting style before he became famous.

65438-0949 was elected as a member of the Chinese Federation of Literary and Art Circles and the All-China Artists Association. 1952 was hired as honorary professor of Central Academy of Fine Arts, chairman of China Artists Association, research librarian of Central Museum of Literature and History, chairman of Beijing Chinese Painting Research Association and honorary president of Beijing China Painting Academy. He was elected as a deputy to the first National People's Congress. 1953 The Central Ministry of Culture awarded the title of "People's Artist". 1955, German Democracy and China Academy of Art awarded the honorary certificate of "Exchange Fellow". 1956 won the international peace prize of the World Peace Council 1955. 1957, honorary president of Beijing China Painting Academy, died on September/0/6 of the same year. He died at the age of 95.

Gou Jian's service is very hard.

Gou Jian succeeded to the throne at the age of 23, and soon defeated the powerful State of Wu, which can be said to be full of ambition, but Gou Jian was certainly "successful" at this time. Because the powerful State of Wu was fighting for bloodshed and humiliation, a catastrophe immediately came to the young king and his country.

He Lu was injured and died, and his son Fu Cha was determined to take revenge. Gou Jian took the initiative to attack Wu the following year. In Fujiaoshan (now southwest of Wuxian County, Jiangsu Province), there was a fierce battle with Wu Bing, and the Vietnamese army was defeated. Gou Jian withdrew his troops to Huiji Mountain (now south of Shaoxing, Zhejiang Province) and made peace with Wu. In five years, Gou Jian took his wife and minister Fan to Wu and took tea as an oath to Wudu. Gou Jian bring disgrace to oneself, who claimed to be a modest minister, was extremely respectful to the prince of Wu, eating coarse grains, sleeping in stables and serving hard labor. The lady's clothes are out, and Shi Zuoguan is in chains. "Be careful to serve Focha, be obedient, raise horses, let the lady supply water, remove dung and sweep the floor. Three years without anger and hatred. Better than the servant of Fucha.

Gou Jian returned to Vietnam in the seventh year (30 years old). After returning home, in order to motivate himself not to forget revenge, he slept with firewood instead of a mattress. There is a gallbladder hanging in the room. Try it before every meal. This is the origin of the allusion of "paid service". Ten years of reunion, ten years of lessons. Finally, Gou Jian took advantage of Wu's hegemony in the Central Plains and domestic natural disasters to defeat Wu. In the 24th year of Gou Jian (47 years old), Wudu was besieged for three years, the city was broken, and Fu Cha committed suicide. Wu Wu died. Subsequently, Gou Jian sailed northward, and Song, Zheng, Lu and Wei joined the army in succession, and moved the capital to Langya (now Jiaonan, Shandong Province), where he joined forces with the governors of the Qi and Jin Dynasties and was officially recognized as the overlord by Zhou Yuanwang.

"Where there is a will, there is a way, and 3,000 armor can swallow Wu."

Liu bang

Liu Bang should be regarded as a typical late bloomer. Besides being surprisingly lucky, I think he also has his own advantages. In September of the first year of Qin Ershi (209 BC), Liu Bang gathered in Peixian County to respond to Chen Sheng and Guangwu Uprising, which was called Pei Gong. At this time, Liu Bang was 47 years old. 47 years old, I want to start a business today, and I feel old. More than 2000 years ago, a 47-year-old person might be equivalent to a 67-year-old person today. What's more, it is still the gap between a small cadre in a county and the top leader of the country.

Liu bang's revolutionary cause is progressing very rapidly. In October of 206 BC (only three years), Liu Bang entered the hegemony. Zi Ying, king of Qin, surrendered and Qin perished. After Liu bang entered the customs, he abolished Qin's harsh laws and made three chapters with the elders in Guanzhong: "The murderer dies, and the wounded steal to apologize." Therefore, it is welcomed by the people. After Xiang Yu defeated Qin Jun's main force, Liu Bang took Sean's advice and went to Hong Men. He paid lip service to it. Xiang Yu named Liu Bang Hanwang, ruling Bashu and Hanzhong. Unwilling to be monopolized by Xiang Yu, Liu Bang led the army eastward and launched the Chu-Han War for four years. In the winter of the fifth year of Hanwang, Liu Bang invited Han Xin, Peng Yue and others to lead the troops into the Chu army. Xiang Yu led his troops to break through and commit suicide in Wujiang River. In February of that year (55 years old), Liu Bang proclaimed himself emperor, made Luoyang his capital, and soon moved to Chang 'an, which was known as the Western Han Dynasty.

It is generally said that "from a slave to a general" is a leap for a person, and it took Liu Bang eight years to complete the leap from a pavilion to an emperor, which is even more awesome.

So, you are still young, don't lose heart! You can change everything!

Come on!