Should girls give their parents living expenses every month after work?

Should your parents ask you to pay for the house? Don't you write your own name?

For living expenses, if your salary is generous except for your daily savings, then give them some money. After all, it was not easy for them to raise us, so they gave us the best.

Paying for a house is a bit outrageous. Hahaha, the salary can't reach a certain level and you can't afford a house at all. Besides, don't your parents buy their own houses? Even if not, there is always a house in my hometown. Maybe the living environment is different, so I don't quite understand this. Is it a mortgage? Both mortgage parents must have jobs before they retire at the age of 60, so they don't need children to pay them back. Ha, ha, ha, and if the elderly have no major diseases, their daily expenses are much less than those of young people.

The first is support and financial management.

If parents are worthy of support, children have the obligation to support their parents to the best of their ability.

At the same time, we should do what we can. If you just work, it is not recommended to give your parents how much money regularly every month. If you have extra money, you should invest in yourself. Of course, investing in yourself is not to buy clothes and bags, but to buy books, study, research, classes and other things that can make you stronger. Only when you become stronger, will you have more income in the future and do your best to support the elderly.

The second one doesn't quite understand. Whose name is the house that your parents want you to repay the loan? Parents' or younger brothers'? What is the use of the future?

If it is a house that parents are going to give to their brother or younger brother, you should refuse decisively. Everyone has his own life, and once Voldemort's life begins, it is hard to get rid of it.

If it's just the house where parents live, it's back to providing for the aged. If the house can't bring cash flow and eat up your cash flow every month, it will be difficult for the financial situation to improve in the future. Do your best.

This is not a problem for boys and girls!

For example, I didn't get 3k salary until my first year of work. I bought two more clothes and cosmetics myself. It is difficult to save any money. How should I call my parents …

Grandma also asked me to pay for going home. The problem is that I have no money! ! !

If the monthly income 1w+ I can make money every minute, I don't have to hesitate at all.

Although I don't make money every month, I will save money to buy gifts for my family, snacks my grandmother likes or things she wants. Buy a mobile phone and an electric toothbrush for dad.

It's too expensive to buy, but it's still available as big as several thousand.

This year's salary rose to 4k+, so I went out to play more. I have bought skin care products from Yin Feng, Shi Yue to Lancome. But I still didn't call home because I still didn't have enough money …

Your parents didn't write your name at home, so there is a high probability that you have a younger brother or elder brother, right?

If not, you can advise your parents to write your name. After all, inheritance tax is quite expensive.

If so, see how your parents treated you when you were growing up. If the income can cover your own expenses and surplus, choose whether to give a little. Of course, if you don't want to give it, don't. Because I don't write your name, this house won't be yours in the future.

If you feel bad, give a few hundred and one thousand yuan as pocket money every month.

Look at your own situation. If you can't feed yourself, give it back to a ghost. If you have more money, your desires and living standards will be satisfied. It is also your obligation to give your parents living expenses.

Well, it's not necessary, because I can handle it myself now, and it's okay when it's stable, unless my parents have lost their ability to work, but it's okay to buy something occasionally.

I just came out, and I hope I can live a good life without asking my family for it. There is no need, and no one stipulates that I must give money to my family. With my ability, I can work for a year after the Chinese New Year and have some money. Watch what you do!

There is nothing wrong with this, it depends on whether parents are still able to maintain their own lives. Of course, if there is a lot left after meeting your own needs, you can control it yourself and rely entirely on your own will.

They are adults and can support themselves. They don't need you to support them unless there are problems in their lives. ...

This has nothing to do with gender.

Well, it depends on your own situation. If the family is not short of money, you can wait until it is stable. If the family is short of money, help according to your own ability.

I think

First of all, there is something wrong with this question. As a member of the family, both boys and girls should have the idea of reducing the family burden. It is natural for boys to give living expenses after work, but is it heinous for girls to give living expenses? We emphasize equality between men and women. Why can't such things be treated equally?

Moreover, the wages of most young people who enter and leave the society are still very low, and some even need family support. If they want to give their parents living expenses, they are unable to do so. If you have the heart, you might as well scrimp and save some money for a rainy day. Give my parents pocket money every month when the salary is good.

For myself, I earned a little money in the winter vacation and wanted to give some to my parents, but they explicitly refused, saying it was my heart. I have many places to spend money when I go out, so I can keep them for myself. On the other hand, they don't like me to earn 30 cents (), and things like mortgage are adults' business and don't need my help (they always think I'm a child).

I think this kind of thing ... depends on what you think, but most parents don't want their children who have just entered the society to have pocket money, and even want to give them pocket money because they are afraid that their children will not eat well or live well.

It must be a good girl who can give her parents living expenses every month after work. I like it.

Last year, my mother earned over 100,000 yuan and asked me for a red envelope. I only earned more than 40 thousand a year, and the rent 1 10 thousand. She also asked me if I had enough money.

I think it's on my own. In fact, even if I give it, my parents won't use it, they will only keep it for you. The difference is that you save it yourself and your parents save it.

I think, after you have a job and an income, you should rely on yourself as much as possible and stop asking your parents for living expenses. Parents can't help you all your life, you should learn to be independent.

It depends. If your job is stable and your parents are really hard, of course, you should give them living expenses every month. On the contrary, I think unless you meet Su Mingyu, who is self-sufficient and balanced, you must be filial.

Not absolutely, that's not living expenses, that's filial piety.

Yes, my parents did a good job and encouraged me to save my dowry.

It depends on personal circumstances.