There are many people who don’t like working for others, not because of the salary but because of the freedom. What do you think?

Yes. Everyone longs for freedom, and no one likes to be controlled and restricted by others... Just because of life, you have to work...

When you are not strong enough, you don't like to work for others. ! Because there is no first pot of gold or venture capital! Not going to work or even eating is a problem! Even if you work for yourself, you still don’t have absolute freedom!

I have been working for 10 years, including 4 years in two factories each. From general workers to technical workers and then to management. Now that I think about it, the working hours in the factory are longer, but they are very monotonous, and there are also holidays where I can have fun without worries. Now that I work for myself, I don’t have holidays 365 days a year, even if I go out to do errands or visit relatives to spend the night outside. Most people will rush back in a hurry.

Working is a process of free choice of career. Whether you like the job or not is entirely a matter of self-determination. If you can be careful, choose a career, and factory selection is a process of self-training. The accumulation of experience and skills is also the key to salary and position promotion. Your freedom lies in your elevation. The better your skills, the higher your position, the more time you have at your disposal. Because the work of the institute is left to you to dictate to others.

Working is a process of capital accumulation. Although you start from scratch, you must pave the way with real money. Even if you borrow money, you still use the money to do things. We can set a small goal for ourselves, not to mention making a small profit of 100 million, but we can make tens of thousands, maybe hundreds of thousands. Before we have freedom, we still have to calculate the salary more or less, and we cannot always live in a dream and have whims.

Working is a process of broadening your horizons. You can come into contact with different factories, different jobs, different people, and different management models. Over time, you will summarize a set of useful operating routines yourself, and even someone's advice will help you get good business opportunities.

Working is a hard-working process. Long working hours and overloaded workload require a lot of patience and endurance. And these are the essences that you must have when starting a business in the future. You have to carry your weight before you leap into the sky.

A scheming person has no choice but to work part-time. Whether he likes it or not, he insists on the goal. Workers who don't care about wages and pursue freedom either come from well-off families, dedicate themselves to art, or simply live a pure life.

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Perhaps for professionals all over the Internet, there will be countless answers to this question. But for me, after struggling in the workplace for more than ten years, everything I am doing is exactly this: gradually withdrawing from the workplace of working for others!

Next, I will share with you my views and approaches on this issue in two chapters:

①The first chapter: After working hard with all my strength, the result was not what I wanted. Want it!

Perhaps because the nature of freedom "awakens too early", when I first entered the workplace, everything I struggled for was to make myself free as soon as possible, so:

The first step in the workplace: I struggled from waiter to supervisor? Because at that time, I saw that supervisors were very free every day!

The second step in the workplace: I struggled from supervisor to manager? After becoming a supervisor, I realized that worrying about the front line every day was not free. So because I saw that managers were very free, I worked hard to become a manager.

The third step in the workplace: I struggled from manager to general manager? After becoming a manager, I became even busier, including project implementation, cost control, personnel management... So I saw that general managers are very free. So work hard.

The fourth step in the workplace: I struggle from general manager to president? After being a general manager for a long time, I found that I am responsible for shareholders, the company, and business profits and losses... Various responsibilities have made me almost Go to work every day. So I set my sights on the presidents who roamed freely across branches across the country every day.

The fifth step in the workplace is finally to sit in the position of president as expected. There is no need to clock in and out, and there are one-hour meetings and one-hour review and approval of company business every day.

The rest of the time is up to you. Unfortunately, many times after an approval is signed, there is no need to think about how to implement it? But the responsibility for the company's bottom line kept me awake at night.

After struggling for more than ten years, I suddenly realized that the result after working hard was not what I wanted! I am not living the way I like!

②The second chapter: I am enlightened by wisdom in my life.

In 2018, I missed my workplace’s commuter bus because I was working overtime. I was too lazy to drive myself, so I arranged a ride home. It was precisely because of this ordinary online car-hailing trip that my life wisdom was successfully opened!

After getting in the car, the driver and I chatted.

Driver brother "I'm so sleepy!"

Me "If I'm sleepy, I'll run a few hours less every day!"

So the conversation between the two started. This started. During the chat, I learned that the driver, who graduated from technical secondary school three years ago and is only 21 years old this year, now works three jobs a day. He works in a trading company during the day and earns 4,000-8,500 yuan per month. After get off work at five o'clock, he owns a small truck. As long as he is qualified to drive, he helps wholesale owners deliver condiments and beer to night markets or KTVs, earning 1,600 yuan a month. After delivering the goods at 8 p.m., I would buy a cake for dinner and then be busy driving until about 12 p.m. The monthly income was about 2,800 yuan to 3,600 yuan.

I was surprised after listening to the little brother’s daily struggle, because he is about the same age as the students in my university, but he knows how to endure such hardships, so I asked him: Do you have any life plans? ?

Driver: “I can’t talk about planning, but my life plan is to retire at the age of thirty-five! Because besides work, there are many scenery worth seeing in person.”

So my brother shared with me his understanding of life and the workplace: He had planned it and worked hard until he was thirty-five years old and could just save about 1.6 million. If you deposit one million yuan into a large certificate of deposit in one of the four major state-owned banks, the monthly interest will be about 1,600-2,000 yuan. If you buy a capital-guaranteed fixed investment fund with RMB 600,000, you will earn about RMB 5,000-8,500 per month. After everything is ready, I will pack my bags and go to every place I want to go in the world on the day after I blow out the birthday candles on my 35th birthday. Ten years from now, when he is 45 years old, he will choose a livable city or village to travel to the beautiful world and do volunteer work every day. The volunteers will write a book about the beautiful world he has traveled in his spare time.

At the end of the conversation, the little brother said a classic saying to share with everyone: The reason why people are unhappy is because they are not free. The reason why people are not free is not because the work they do is not what they love, but because they are not free. Because even if you do what you love and are good at, as long as you still have to beg from others to survive, then your life will definitely be unhappy!

After the exchange ended, I asked the driver one last question before getting off the car: "You have been struggling for more than three years. How much money have you saved now for your free life plan?"

Driver: "Not much. In three years, I saved 310,000 through frugality."

?Many people don’t like working for others. They always think it’s not because of the salary. It's because the word "freedom" is on the lips, but many people just talk about it casually after experiencing setbacks at work, but there are always some people around us who don't just talk about it. , they are constantly working hard for a free life, just like the driver brother I met, and just like me who has started a free life plan at this moment.

The reason why I don’t like working for a boss is not because of the salary but the lack of freedom. People who think this way are the following types of people: First, the family is relatively well-off and they don’t have enough food and drink. A sad person. For them, it doesn’t matter whether they work for the boss or not. Not working for the boss will not affect their lives. Working for the boss will restrict themselves. No matter how high the salary is, they will be reluctant to work. In their hearts, they There is a little bit of free-spirited thinking at work.

The reason why I say I don't want to work for the boss is not because of the salary but the lack of freedom. It's just a way of saying it, and it feels like a full man doesn't know how hungry a man is. The second is those who disagree with the boss over work, salary, overtime and other issues while working for the boss. These people are full of resentment towards their bosses and have either resigned or are still working for their bosses. When others ask about their work situation, they just use this kind of words as a fig leaf to show off to outsiders. Although I was so disdainful about working for my boss, it was hard to describe the sense of loss inside. There is another kind of people, people who have participated in job recruitment many times but failed repeatedly. They have a twisted mentality of saying that grapes are sour when they cannot eat them. When they say this, they don't look for reasons for their own failure, but blame their bosses for not being able to work freely. In short, people who think this way should wake up. No matter who you work for, don't be full of chatter, but be down-to-earth. Life is sublimated by struggle.

I also work part-time. Let me tell you what I think about myself. Why some people just don’t like to work for others and want to do their own things. In fact, this needs to be analyzed from the following aspects.

First, people who don’t like to work generally have a good family education environment since they were young. This kind of people have never been lacking economically, that is, they are relatively free economically. That type of people say it’s not about money, but they really don’t want to run around for survival. Failure of their business will have no impact on their survival, and they can start over from scratch. The parents of these people are generally relatively rich and powerful. . Naturally, I won’t work for such a small salary.

The second is that the family environment is not very good, that is, the type of people who want to change themselves. They have refused to admit defeat since they were young. They do not want to live a stable life of working and have to be vigorous. Such people are not unreasonable. Many people come from part-time jobs. They accumulate funds and professional skills while working, and then develop themselves. Such people are very admirable. Anyway, I like this type of people. If they fail, they will still choose to start working part-time. It’s not that they don’t work, it’s that they don’t always work.

Generally speaking, whether you want to work or not mainly depends on your personal and family situation. You can’t say that you don’t want to work. If you don’t have freedom, you won’t eat or drink, right? Unrealistic. What do you think?

Judging from the current situation, more and more young people are beginning to develop in the direction of freelancing. In fact, there are many reasons behind it, not only It is a question of freedom, which should also include changes in the form of social organizations. At the same time, everyone's understanding of employment models is also quietly changing. Of course, social employment competition pressure is also an important issue.

There are many people around me who actually want to have a stable employer, but the actual situation is not ideal. Some are personal problems, and some are corporate problems.

Looking at the employment form of the entire society from today's perspective, whether to work or start an independent business is not the core of the problem. The main thing is to see which form is more suitable for personal development. After all, in In the Internet age, people pay more attention to personal feelings rather than collective feelings.

Many people say they don’t like working for others. It is not just a simple issue of freedom. The core issue behind it is whether the working environment and platform are conducive to personal growth and development.

For example, in some public institutions, many people keep saying that they are tired of the company and really don’t want to work anymore, but in the end they will still go to work step by step and go to work for them. Ban said he was bored to death, but the reason was actually that his interests had been satisfied to a certain extent.

On the contrary, some people choose to start their own businesses, seemingly because they do not work for others. They say they like freedom, but do they really feel free if they start their own business? Not necessarily.

Freedom is often relative, or a feeling in a certain environment. In fact, those who say they don’t like working for others mainly have certain demands. To be satisfied, I hope to obtain more spiritual or material comfort through my own efforts.

Maybe this is because I don’t like part-time work and like the true meaning behind freedom!

There are indeed reasons for this, but it also depends on your own personality and abilities. Some people like to go to work safely and do not need to invest. It is also a situation to get paid at work and take a break after get off work to save worry. Some people feel that they are constrained by work, so it is better to do something by themselves. At least they can control their own time. However, running a business by yourself is actually more difficult. You have to think of everything no matter how big or small it is, and you have to do it yourself, so it depends on the person.

Many people don’t like to work for others. In my opinion, the main reason is that they are unwilling to earn only a little money and contribute to others. At the same time, there is really no freedom and income control while working. Xiaofan once entered an entrepreneurial company after graduating from college and worked for others. Tell me why Xiaofan finally chose to work part-time at home. Do you think it was very wise now?

First, let me first say that the city I am in is Zhengzhou. I have just joined the company at the beginning. I was excited because I received 4,000 yuan in public funds. Every month, I look forward to the day when my salary is paid, rent and college. If you live with roommates, the cost of water and electricity for each person is about 800 yuan. Living expenses are at most 600 yuan a month, which is enough. Because my classmates and I bring lunch to the company, and we work in the same company, we have a balance of more than 2,000 yuan every month. Buying clothes and everything costs tens of yuan, and I can save at least 2,000. Quick money a month.

Second, precisely because there is no pressure, I am very satisfied with the status quo and think about working in the company for the rest of my life and doing something good. But then something happened and I basically stopped working in the future. . Our company went bankrupt, the boss lost a lot of money, and we were fired without any labor compensation. We were young at the time and had no legal knowledge, so our wages were not calculated afterwards, so we were hastily dismissed.

Third, after I resigned from this company, one of the partners opened a small studio and asked me to work there. However, after working for more than half a year, he changed careers and I was fired again.

Fourth, through these two resignations, I felt a sense of instability and uneasiness. I was about to buy a house at that time, and I was 20,000 short of the down payment. I maxed out my credit card, and suddenly I had to pay back the credit card. , I was unemployed at the time, and it was a very difficult process.

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Later I figured out that I should do it myself and not work for others, even if I earn less than Even a few hundred yuan is better than earning thousands working for others. Let’s talk about how I ended up doing part-time work full-time.

First, my first idea at the time was to set up a street stall, but later I discovered that Zhengzhou’s urban management inspections were very strict, and I did not have the funds to rent a store, so this idea was abandoned.

Second, I want to start a live broadcast. Since I have already moved into my own house, I have arranged it and carefully chosen a platform. After only a few live broadcasts, I really can’t stand it. , chatting awkwardly, asking for gifts, these are things I can't do, so I changed my mind again.

Third, since I have live streaming equipment, why don’t I do live streaming and sell goods? I just do it. I am more of an action person.

I immediately went to apply for a business license. I didn’t understand anything, so I finally made four trips to apply for it. I applied for an individual business license in my own house. It was free. I also remind everyone that you don’t need to pay. Go to the Industrial and Commercial Bureau. It's easy to handle, just ask in advance what information is needed.

Fourth, the live broadcast has been running for two days, and it is true that not a single piece of clothing has been sold, and there have been complaints about noise and disturbing residents. I even doubt my ability. Am I really that bad? Why can't I do anything?

Fifth, I later started to do self-media on the Internet. Because the income was very low at first, I did several part-time jobs online and also worked on the Xianyu second-hand platform.

The combined monthly income from these part-time jobs is limited. Until I became a Taoke and my income increased tomorrow, then I was completely relieved and became a Taoke.

Sixth, in the end, I have been doing self-media for a long time, and I have opened up a lot of rights and interests. I have spent more and more time on it, and I have become a full-time self-media worker.

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Summarizing these experiences of Xiaofan, I am not saying that I can do everything. I really have to find Do what you like, so that you can devote yourself to it and get more benefits.

So Xiaofan believes that if you work for others, if your job is promising and the benefits are good, of course you can stick to it. If you are not satisfied with everything, you can choose yourself. Start a business, but don’t invest too much. Starting your own business is actually more tiring than working, because you are working for yourself and you will invest 200. Work freedom, but potentially more hours.

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The above are just Xiaofan’s personal opinions. If you have different ideas, you can leave a message. Thank you for reading.

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