"You deserve a divorce if you earn less money." Is it so important to earn money in marriage?

"I'm divorced. My wife thinks I can't make money. She took the children and ran away with others, hehe." When I saw this sentence sent to me by Chen Dage, I remembered the male nanny in the TV series "I Love Male Nannies". Similarly, because of the lack of money, she gradually became a full-time family cook. In the end, her wife disliked him for not earning any money, disliked him for being incompetent, and took her daughter to the United States, where he could not even see her children.

I feel sorry for Chen Dage. He is not lazy. He actually works hard. Maybe the mistake is that he married a wife with different strength. Brother Chen works very hard. When he was young, he worked hard, but the opportunity was wrong. Even if he tried again, it would be useless. Later, when I met my current wife, her career was booming, but he still stayed where he was, and the gap between them was thus widened.

When they have a child, the husband and wife also discuss who will take care of the child. Originally, Chen Dage's mother will take care of the child, but suddenly her body suddenly becomes ill and she is unable to do so. After discussion, the couple decided to let Chen Dage resign to take care of the children and take care of their mother by the way.

If he quits his job, he will be unemployed, but he will occasionally find some part-time jobs on the Internet. He doesn't want others to think that he is eating soft rice. In fact, we all envy Chen Dage's wife, who can earn money by herself and has a man who is willing to be kind to her. We always think that she is very happy, but what she thinks in her heart is: "I can earn money by myself, and it is more of a burden for him." So there is now, Chen Dage was divorced. He asked her why she divorced, and she said, "You earn less money, you deserve to be divorced, and you deserve that I don't want you."

This incident of Chen Dage is actually more like what happened to many women. Many women, like Chen Dage, quit their jobs to take care of their children because they need someone to take care of them after they get married and have children. In the end, they are rejected and finally divorced.

In marriage, do people who earn less deserve to be divorced?

In fact, in marriage, we really shouldn't care who earns more and who earns less. The one who earns less may be the one who pays the most.

Between husband and wife, they share weal and woe, and the best state in marriage is even, but if a person gives up his job because of his family, it is difficult to make a comparison. Chen Dage gave up his career because of the birth of a child. His contribution to his family is relatively great. Although his wife earns a lot, it is all because Chen Dage has been taking care of the family.

In marriage, you shouldn't care who earns more money than who earns less, because you don't know how much the other person has paid for the family, and you don't know how hard it is. He may have to spend an afternoon in order to make you eat delicious food. He may spend a long time taking care of the family in order to make you feel comfortable every day. In order to reduce your burden, he will try his best to find a part-time job. In fact, he has paid a lot for the family.

The one who earns less money may be the one who pays the most. He tries hard to make this family better, but you have been calculating how much money you earned and how much he spent on you. Is this marriage still interesting?