Do you think work is more important, happiness or money?

Love, dedication and happy work are a realm of life. But the premise is that this job reflects its own value, thus generating a sense of gain. People who are willing to do what they like will naturally be happy!

In 2008, I retired from the enterprise. I just turned 50 when I retired, and I was idle at home, so I found another job through my relationship. Although I am not tired at work, I am very unhappy. When I was working in an office, I was owed wages because of the poor economic benefits of my unit. I didn't expect to be owed wages for working in a unit with good benefits. At that time, I seriously said to the boss of the unit: "I am a villain in front of a gentleman. If I can't do it well, you don't need me, but you must ensure that my salary is paid on a monthly basis ... "At that time, when the unit recruited people, my conditions were not too much, so we reached an agreement with each other.

Later, because Party A did not allocate funds in time, it not only owed employees wages, but also owed materials fees. It was also because my father was ill in hospital that I politely resigned from the job.

Nowadays, many jobs are not very happy for young people, and sometimes they even compromise to do this job in order to get the reward they deserve. Otherwise, you will keep changing jobs and be exhausted in order to find a job. You can think it over. Now many state-owned enterprises have been transformed into joint-stock and private enterprises. Which will make you happy? What job is not full of pressure and risk? How many happy jobs are waiting for you to do? Therefore, in this era of commodity society, there is competition and unhappiness. To put it bluntly, there is no free lunch in a market economy!

I think it is more reasonable to divide the work into the first half and the second half. The first half is to make money and the second half is to be happy. The specific views are as follows:

1. In general, we enter the society and start working at the age of 18 to 2 1. Without parents at home, we are basically empty-handed. If we don't work hard, how can we afford the above things? Besides, how many people have rich parents, and 80~90% of young people have to struggle on their own. Spending money everywhere forced us to bend over for five buckets of rice. After working in my forties, I have a successful career and a little savings, and then I can catch my breath. This is what I call the first half.

After all, most people live for happiness. In the first half, you are trying to make money; Part of the job in the second half of the year is to make money, but we should also consider happy work. After all, the pressure is not great. Unhappy work can easily make people sulk, easily lead to stagnation of qi and blood in the body, endocrine disorders, diseases, and affect their health, and treatment and conditioning also cost a lot of money. What do you think we have been doing all our lives? Isn't it sad to make money, live, treat diseases, make more money and treat diseases, and work hard to donate money to the hospital all your life? If you want to be happy while making money, few people can do it, then happy work in the second half of the year may be closer to reality.

In a word, human energy is limited. If you make money all your life, you can't eat without happiness. It is unrealistic to work happily all your life. After all, everything is conservative. More here, less there. Follow the law of conservation.

"problem interpretation"

Happiness and making money are not causal, but synergistic. It is very important to choose who. You may wish to enter these four scenarios and you will have the answer in your heart.

1. Happy and make money;

2. Unhappy, but making money;

3. I am very happy and don't make money;

4. Not happy, not making money.

When you are immersed in the above four scenes, it is clear at a glance which is lighter or heavier.

"Riverside view"

Ideal situation: both happiness and making money are important;

Reality: unhappy, but making money, money is important; Or happy, not making money, happy is important;

Wonderful situation: unhappy, not making money; Don't care about the importance of such people. Such people are like skins without souls, just like fellow travelers.

1, external stimulus:

Colleagues saw your new clothes today and said, Wow, this dress is a limited edition of XX. It's beautiful. You really want to. You reply: no, no, half a month's salary is gone, and you have to drink the northwest wind. However, how happy I am inside, I finally have a discerning person. This is the pleasure brought by external stimuli.

2. Intrinsic motivation:

When doing self-media interest certification, I take pains to answer questions every day, consider every word, submit it carefully, and wait with expectation. Passers-by casually said: What a profound answer. There is a wave in your heart. When the system message informs you that the number of upgrading certification tasks is+1, do you suddenly feel that the hard work is worthwhile at this moment, and then you can't wait to share your joy at this moment? This is inner excitement, which produces pleasure.

1, both happy and profitable.

Many people think that this realm can't be achieved by ordinary people, and even say that such people can only be achieved by the emperor who works at the top, because at the top, he doesn't rely on himself for anything. As long as he manages his subordinates and his boss, he can talk and come to the meeting. Working hours are free time, and he flies all over the country, both for business and tourism. Of course he's happy, and he makes a lot of money. This is of course an understanding, but it is not comprehensive.

The so-called happiness, in fact, can be achieved by the general public, just because your desire is increasing, and external and internal stimuli can't keep up with the growth rate of your desire, then you will show unhappiness. As for making money, when you just entered the workplace, giving you a 3-500 yuan increase in 1 year will make you happy for several months, but when you work for three to five years and give you a 3-500 yuan increase, you will not be so happy, and you will feel that this is a drop in the bucket.

Happiness and making money can actually be balanced, and ordinary people can do it, that is, you need to know where your balance point is. Happiness can make you continue to work efficiently and happily, bring you recognition returns, stable returns, and make you feel safe.

2, unhappy, but making money

When IT comes to the industry that makes money, I have to mention the IT industry. The most typical one is "Cheng", because as long as this is mentioned, everyone subconsciously represents high salary.

In reality, many such people are just a microcosm of the IT industry. Many people try their best to make money because they know that their working years are getting shorter and shorter, and they don't try to get a high salary when they are most valuable. Therefore, once they lose their jobs, mortgage, car loan and the life of the youngest will make him breathless, so they can only grit their teeth and stick to it. Doesn't he want to find an easier job, even if the salary is lower? Of course, he believes that the problem is that reality does not allow it. Open your eyes to repay the loan, close your eyes to live, happiness is not important, making money is the most important.

3, very happy, not making money

To tell the truth, if you lived on this income, you would have been drinking the northwest wind. The income from my own work is also in the group of 5% wage income in Wuhan. To be honest, I have no pressure on mortgage and car loan. Then why should I enter this industry? Because I think people will not be satisfied with the status quo until they enrich themselves. I used to brush short videos and watch news after work. Now every day besides work, life is very fulfilling. It feels really good to write articles, read comments and interact with friends. Naturally, happiness is very important.

4, unhappy, not making money

Why should I say this last? I don't want to comment, but there are such people in reality. I can only say that you died pitifully and unhappily, and you deserved it. Everyone has his strengths and weaknesses, but when you are unhappy at work, you quit. 1 year, you can't make money if you want to jump several times. You said that you are not interested in work, you can ride a donkey to find a horse, and stick to it when you find a job you like, but complain that you have too little money. Why can't I get a high salary when others can? I never check what's wrong with myself. So for this kind, do you still discuss happiness or making money? Does it make sense?

Everyone, with different experiences, can't arbitrarily define happiness or making money.

At your own stage, you know what you need most. If life is stressful, it depends on money. If you are financially free, you will be happy. No one can influence your thoughts, don't listen to other people's suggestions, have your own subjective judgment, life is your own, and work is your own.

Friends, which of the above four scenarios do you belong to?

I am happy when I have more money, but I am unhappy when I have less money.

I wonder if the subject is asking this question from the company's point of view. Many company leaders believe that they can talk about their ideals, the future and the current office environment without giving money to employees. These things may make an employee more comfortable, but the most important thing for employees is to take money to live a good life.

Are you happy to travel all day, go out to play and sing KTV together? Just be happy? Then you can stop working and do these things that make you happy every day.

A good job must be rewarded accordingly.

Enterprises recruit employees to create value, and employees work for the enterprise in exchange for their own value in return.

Happiness is only a person's emotion, not the purpose of work.

I share two stories with you. I sent it to other colleagues when I was writing the manuscript. They all say they have a lot to say. I hope you will read it patiently.

At the age of 22, I was working with my colleagues in a low-paying job.

He told me that he used to undertake business in an advertising company, and his monthly salary could be more than 1000, but he gave up and chose the job he likes now.

I asked him, so you are not short of money?

"Enough to eat. But I want to do what I like. "

I'm a little awed. I'm 22, too. Why do I feel that he is more like a young man?

At the age of 23, I still stay with my colleagues in the old company, and my salary is still very meager.

He told me that colleagues in advertising companies used to buy cars, but now we have no savings.

I asked him, do you want to choose to go back?

"Don't go back. I want to try again. "

I didn't speak because I thought the same thing as him.

At the age of 24, the company started its business and we got a good salary.

He told me that money is earned, but there seems to be no life.

I asked him, do you like your present job?

He didn't speak.

Two months later, we all left one after another.

Is happiness more important or money more important? At this moment, I think happiness is more important.

22-year-old, working in an advertising company with colleagues, the salary is very high, but the office is intrigued.

He told me that if I hadn't taken a fancy to the high salary of this company, I would have been unbearable.

I asked him, are you happy?

I am unhappy. But I have to support myself, and I also want to help my family relieve stress.

I'm a little awed. At the age of 22, I began to help my family relieve stress. I think he is more like a young man.

At the age of 23, I was still in the original advertising company with my colleagues.

He told me that he would buy a car and asked me to go with his family.

When I bought a car, I saw his smile, which I had never seen at work. The family is driving a car, which is very warm.

I asked him, are you happy?

Happy. I want to drive my parents to other provinces. My parents haven't traveled to other provinces.

I didn't speak, and I also made an appointment with my parents to see the car the next day.

At the age of 24, the company's business began to get worse and worse.

He smiled and said to me, as if with a sigh: I'm leaving this ghost company. Well, I finally don't have to suffer.

I asked him, are you happy?

His smile just now suddenly disappeared.

He didn't even speak.

Two months later, we all left one after another.

Is happiness more important or money more important? At this moment, I think money is more important.

The "I" in the article is not really me, but it is definitely you.

I saw a lot of answers, saying that more people will choose happy jobs after 90, and resign if they are unhappy. After all, they are still young.

But in fact, most children in China are not very rich!

"Back Wave", which was shown some time ago, has also received feedback from many young people. Not every young person is called a young person like a video.

It is not a youth who does nothing if he is unhappy. It is also young people who are willing to take on more responsibilities and reduce the pressure on their families, and it accounts for a large proportion.

In primary school, the Chinese teacher told us the difference between happiness and happiness.

I'm impressed.

Being rich is not necessarily happy, but it must be. You can be happy without money, but not necessarily happy.

Working for many years, I also understand a truth: happiness is actually part of the reward.

We like some skills (photography, cooking, writing, tea art) and even spend money to learn them, isn't it just for fun?

Back to the question: Do you think happiness is more important at work or money is more important?

There is no right answer, only the right answer.

If you don't worry about food and clothing and have good family conditions, you can find a happy job with less salary.

Then if you want to take responsibility early and relieve the pressure for your parents, you can also find a well-paid job. For you, you will be happier if your family is happy.

These are young people, everyone's growing background is different, and everyone's choices are different!

But if we can only choose one, will we be happy at work?

In fact, what I value more is "learning ability", which is the best competitiveness of this era. The higher your ability, the greater your right to choose. You can choose to work happily or earn more money.

Hello, I'm glad to answer this question for you. I think it's important to be happy at work and have financial resources. If you lose in a certain field of work, the work is not satisfactory, but the salary is high and the future is bright, I suggest you continue to do it. Even if you learn this technology, you are not in this company, so you are an iron rice bowl. You can look for a job elsewhere, but if you are happy in this company, after all, money is more important than anything in today's society. If you have money, you will be happy. Happiness is not necessarily rich, so contemporary young people will choose money!

It depends on whether you are short of money. It is reasonable to say that happiness is very important, but if the salary you earn can't support yourself or your family, can you be happy No way! I think at that time, you would rather be unhappy than choose a high salary. I think it is more appropriate to choose my favorite job after I have a high salary and savings.

Sometimes, you get what you pay for! In real life, most people are doing jobs they don't like. It's not that they don't want to do the work they like, but they have to do it for a living. For them, work is to make money. Whether you like it or not, there is not much difference in essence. It's all work In this case, the important thing is definitely money. Of course, there are also people who tighten their belts and do their favorite jobs.

Personally, I think that in most cases, it is important to be happy at work, which is a spiritual requirement, higher than material requirements; Happiness is the most important thing. No matter what kind of work you do, you must have a good mood in order to have a healthy body and live a more chic life.

Only in a certain period of time, sometimes wages are more important. For example, if you need money badly, especially badly, and want to do something very important, then you should bear the burden a little bit. If you succeed, you can be flexible, work in a well-paid company, leave immediately after making enough money, do your important things, and then have your happy time. Be a man, be happy!

People will have this kind of emotion when they stay in one place for a long time, so you should think about what you lack most and what is most important, and life also has a short board effect! If you need money, money is very important. After all, it is hard to have no money. If you are a rich second generation or a second generation, if you are not short of money, you must find a happy job you like. It doesn't matter how much money you have, just to pass the time and experience life.

Of course, if you are good and strong enough, you can find a job that makes you happy and rich, and you can have both.

Employees are willing to stay in the company mainly because of the following three factors:

1, revenue