The influence of acquired environment on people

Best Education in Life Author: Hu Ping (1) A young man came to work in the city. Soon, because of his hard work, his boss gave him a small company to run. He managed this small company in good order and its performance soared. Hearing this, a foreign businessman wanted to talk to him about a cooperation project. After the negotiation, he invited the foreign businessman with black eyes and yellow skin to dinner. Dinner was simple, the plates were clean, and only two steamed buns were left. He said to the waiter, please put these two steamed buns in the food bag and I'll take them away. The foreign businessman immediately stood up and said that he would sign a contract with him tomorrow. The next day, the boss gave a banquet to entertain foreign businessmen. During the dinner, foreign businessmen asked him softly, what education have you received? He said that my family was poor, my parents couldn't read, and I worked hard for my education. She said that I don't expect you to be superior, you just have to do your own thing ... The boss on the side oozes bright liquid, raises his glass and says excitedly, I propose a toast to her old man-you have the best education in life! A person knows how to cherish after suffering; A person who grew up in poverty cannot but know the importance of thrift. A person who knows how to work hard since childhood can't be irresponsible to himself and others ... poverty is not terrible. The terrible thing is that people can't learn anything in poverty and then lose their self-esteem. (2) An average-looking girl, studying in a very ordinary technical secondary school, got average grades. After learning that her mother had an incurable disease, she wanted to lighten the burden on her family and earn some money in the two months of summer vacation. She applied for a job in a company, and the Korean manager read her resume and turned it down with a straight face. The girl took back her materials. I propped up the chair with my palm and stood up. I think my hand was pricked. I looked at my palm, and there was a small red blood bead on it. It turned out that there was a nail sticking out of the chair. She saw a paperweight on the table, so she used it to knock the nail flat, and then turned away. But a few minutes later, the Korean manager sent someone to chase her back, and she was hired. A person who grows up in love, his best reward is also love. When love urges a person to do something that is difficult for him, it is enough to prove the power of love! On a small matter that has nothing to do with himself, he can also show consideration and concern for others, and his love education is undoubtedly successful. (3) There is a position to be filled, and four applicants have come in succession. In the column of recruitment conditions, there is a condition that you must have more than two years of work experience. The first three applicants all said that they had similar work experience, but when asked by the applicants, they quickly showed their ignorance in this respect. Finally, a male classmate came. He told the recruiter frankly that he had no working experience in this field, but he was very interested in this job, and he was confident that he would be qualified for this job after short-term practice. The recruiter hired him without hesitation. After that, he had a talk with the recruiter. The recruiter said that many job seekers are dishonest when introducing themselves, but why can he tell them honestly? He said that he once picked up money when he was a child. When his grandmother asked him, he lied. Grandma gave him a heavy spanking, and then warned him: "Being poor is not terrible. As long as you are honest, you will be saved! " He said that he would always remember what grandma said. Imagine a person who dare not face up to his shortcomings and can only gain everyone's trust by cheating. Can he go far? An honest man actually needs courage most. He must dare to face the facts and the truth, and bravely point out the truth when others are vague and passive about Nuo Nuo. Honesty is superior to all intelligence, which is the basic condition of intelligence. I found these three stories while reading a book. I don't know how many times I watched it. Every time I read them, I get something new. Every time I read them, I get a new understanding. There are many accidents in life, which is what we call opportunities. Opportunities are created by people, often in people's subconscious. We can only catch him in time, and we can't be impulsive and miss the opportunity. Let people regret it. No matter what you do, you should be serious and start with small things. We should see greatness in small places and spirit in small places. Imagine that a person can't even clean and wash clothes. What else can he do? Confucius said, "If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world?" In other words, a person can't even clean his own cabin. If he can't do such a small thing well, what else can he do? In the above story, the first one is valuable, that is, put the "remaining two steamed buns" into a food bag, and I will take it away. Such a small act of cherishing food was noticed by the foreign boss and moved him. Besides, my mother said, "I don't expect you to be superior, just do your own thing well …" Yes, as long as you do your job well, you are an excellent person. In the second story, the girl "propped up the chair with her palm and stood up, feeling her hand pricked." Looking at her palm, a small red blood bead appeared on it. It turned out that there was a nail sticking out of the chair. She saw a paperweight on the table, so she used it to knock the nail flat and then turned away. " It was a small action, but her action was considerate of others, so she knocked down the nail with a paperweight to prevent others from puncturing her hand. This is an ordinary and great thing. It embodies a word "love". We should also do such small things in life and form habits. In the third story, "he told the recruiter frankly that he didn't have any work experience in this field, but he was very interested in this job, and he was confident that he would be qualified for this job after short-term practice." Grandma once warned him: "Poverty is not terrible. As long as you are honest, you will be saved! " Yes, you should be honest. Most of us in Hong Kong are honest. This is our characteristic. I hope my sons Guo Wei and Guo Jian can keep this feature forever.