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How to treat a man in Shiyan, Hubei Province who made a scene in a matchmaking agency and bit the auxiliary police after five failed marriages?

People are close to middle age, but they are still married. They have been registered with the matchmaking agency for many years. I thought I should gain something, but I didn't expect to achieve anything by 202 1. We can fully understand the anxiety of 47-year-old Wang, but we can't understand his behavior of hitting a matchmaking agency and biting the auxiliary police. Combined with relevant information, let me talk about my views on this incident:

According to the explanation of the crime of obstructing official duties in Article 277 of China's Criminal Law:

According to the explanation of the crime of intentional injury in Article 234 of China's Criminal Law:

When facing the auxiliary police on duty, Wang not only attacked him, but also bit his hand. His behavior has been suspected of constituting two charges of obstructing official duties and intentional injury. Although he attacked the auxiliary police, he was also an auxiliary police in a police country. The nature of his crime is completely equivalent to assaulting a police officer and needs to be severely punished according to relevant laws. Adding up the two charges, he may face more than three years in prison.

I think everyone can understand Wang's idea of stepping into the marriage hall quickly, but his mentality is really poor. Things like love and marriage depend on the wishes of both parties. You can't be too hasty, you can't be too eager for success, and you can't go against the wishes of others.

Not everyone introduced by a matchmaking agency can succeed, not to mention Wang has only dated five times. It is not unusual to find a suitable partner among five people. However, Wang couldn't calm down and felt that he had spent a lot of time and energy, which was still in vain. He not only has a bad temper, but also commits illegal and criminal acts. His series of operations are really helpless.

As an older youth (middle age), Wang is not as popular as young people in the market. He should reflect on himself and think about how to improve his competitiveness and increase the success rate of blind date. And Wang not only didn't mean to reflect on himself, but chose to give up on himself and break the jar. Now that he has a criminal record, it's even harder to find someone when he comes out.

This incident is actually a warning to many matchmaking companies. In order to attract business for themselves, many matchmaking companies package customer information into the sky. Judging from the data, each one is a perfect match. However, at the scene, I found that there was a difference of hundreds of thousands of miles between the real person and the information.

It is understandable to properly package customers, but excessive packaging is suspected of selling dog meat, which is the routine of many matchmaking companies.

202111,47-year-old Wang came to a matchmaking agency again and demanded that Ms. Liu, the "matchmaker", return all the "losses" of her five blind dates, totaling 5,000 yuan.

It turned out that Wang had already paid the fee for introducing himself by the matchmaking agency in 400 yuan on 20 15. Helpless, I arranged five blind dates before and after, and none of them succeeded.

Repeated failures have made Wang lose patience and Ms. Liu lose patience. Through negotiation between both parties, in June 2020, 1 1, Ms. Liu returned to 400 yuan, which means that Wang did not do this business.

It was supposed to be seen by onlookers, and even settled here. Even Ms. Liu suffered a loss.

But Wang doesn't think so. He also wants to find the fees for matchmaking, compensation for mental damage, lost time and so on.

As Ms. Liu, she certainly can't accept such unreasonable demands. After the communication failed, she called the police.

When the police arrived, they persuaded Wang first and talked a lot, but Wang just wouldn't accept it and wouldn't leave the matchmaking agency. There is a posture of going to the end without giving a statement.

If Wang doesn't leave, it will affect the normal business of the matchmaking agency. After repeated advice, he decided to take him back to the police station for investigation, because he was already suspected of causing trouble.

When the police tried to pull him, he suddenly broke free and bit one of the auxiliary police officers in the hand. The hand of the auxiliary police was bitten with deep teeth marks.

Hou Wang was criminally detained by the local public security organ on suspicion of obstructing official duties.

Looking at all the matchmaking agencies or marriage platforms, there is no promise that a marriage will be promoted. After all, this is not a commodity sale, it depends on both men and women.

A few years ago, a very popular TV dating program was nothing more than providing a platform to see if both sides had intentions. As for whether we can get together in the end, it depends on fate.

Wang paid the fee and the matchmaking agency arranged five blind dates back and forth. The reason for the failure is still on Wang or the other side. It is unreasonable to put this responsibility on the matchmaking agency.

The reason why Wang has been making trouble is mainly because he can't take it easy. He always thought that the problem was not himself, but the matchmaking agency.

Just kidding, if 400 yuan is sure to get a wife, there won't be so many young men of the right age who can't find a wife.

I have never felt so reliable about blind date. After all, you can't get to know a person deeply only by one or two hours of contact.

When Wang Gang entered the matchmaking agency, he was already in his early forties and was called an older man. Then why doesn't he find a wife in his forties? There must be something wrong with him.

Maybe it's looks, maybe it's personality, maybe it's family, maybe it's economy. Everything can be changed except looks.

But now it seems that Wang should not have changed. In today's social reality with more men and fewer women, isn't it whimsical not to change and accept the reality?

According to Wang's known behavior, we can probably know the reason why his blind date has repeatedly failed. First of all, his character is flawed: extreme, stubborn, stubborn.

Many times, a person's current situation is largely caused by himself. If you can't find the reason from yourself, you are doomed to stand still forever, let alone change the status quo.

Mr. Wang from Shiyan, Hubei is 47 years old this year.

From 20 15, that is, at the age of 42.

Constantly dating, at Ms. Liu's matchmaking agency,

One blind date, five times, all ended in failure

If the blind date is unsuccessful, Mr. Wang will make a scene at the matchmaking agency every time.

Five years, five single women, one each year.

Then get along for more than a year, and the blind date is over.

Whether it's blind date or free love,

It depends on both fate and opportunity.

And personality, three views, temper of getting along,

Whether there are * * * the same language.

Judging from Mr. Wang's temper,

Although he was middle-aged when he dated,

42 years old, but immature.

Still like a child,

If the blind date fails, there will be a big fight in the matchmaking agency.

This is pure humiliation and humiliation for yourself.

Let people see jokes,

Matchmaking agencies match suitable single women according to your conditions,

Like a master,

The master enlightens the apprentice, but the apprentice's skill depends on his own efforts; The master teaches the craft, and the apprentice's skill is self-taught.

As a bridge, the matchmaking agency paved the way for you.

The rest is up to you.

They are not their parents, so they have no obligation and can't be responsible for everything for you.

Judging from what happened later,

47-year-old Mr. Wang has a bad temper, unstable mood and irritability, which is particularly easy to get out of control.

Otherwise, we wouldn't bother the matchmaking agency every time,

Obvious personality defects.

When dealing with other women,

It is estimated that his attitude is the same, and others can't stand his temper.

He seldom reflects on his own problems,

Directly attribute all the problems to the matchmaking agency, and think that the matchmaking agency is like this.

Introduce me to such people, and none of them succeed.

Your matchmaking and all the responsibilities are the reasons why my blind date failed.

So, I made a scene with the matchmaking agency and asked it to refund the introduction fee.

There are also more than 5,000 expenses such as love expenses.

Mr. Wang has become a bit overbearing.

I regard the matchmaking agency as my family and parents.

Willful and unreasonable.

Ms. Liu of the matchmaking agency made him helpless and have a headache.

Mr. Wang didn't get the money, and he kept hanging.

But also insulted Ms. Liu of the matchmaking company.

Such people are just like hooligans, and there is nothing to talk about.

Getting along with such people is not only tiring, but also scary.

Because the matchmaking agency, Ms. Liu, also called the police,

When the police took him away, they bit the police.

Resistance, emotion, mania,

If the police don't come to the scene, force him to take it away.

I'm afraid the personal safety of Ms. Liu in the matchmaking agency has also become a problem.

His behavior is crazy, like a madman, a mental illness.

Get along with such people, together.

I will always be nervous, for fear that he will get angry and curse if I say something wrong.

Mr. Wang is 47 years old. This behavior reflects his extreme self-confidence and doesn't know how to communicate with others.

Maybe never married, single for a long time,

Without the warmth of family,

In the long run, personality changes are also normal.

Mr. Wang has serious psychological problems and obstacles and needs psychological intervention.

For him, if his personality does not change,

It's hard to like,

It only makes people hate and dislike,

Or stay away from it.

For matchmaking agencies,

Before introducing the blind date to others, you must fully understand each other's family background, living habits and personality.

Don't do that kind of cheating,

It is obviously harmful to introduce a person with a personality defect like Miss Wang to other single women.

It will also have a negative impact on the reputation and prestige of Ms. Liu's own matchmaking agency.

Don't do nothing to make money.

I hope that the bite wound of the police will recover soon.