Do you think we should treat the nanny as our family? Why?

You shouldn't, because it's unnecessary. Employers and nannies have an employment relationship. You work for my family, and I will give you a corresponding monetary reward. This is a very pure equivalent transaction. Why should it be mixed with complicated emotional relationships?

From the employer's point of view, if we are too friendly and gentle to them, it is easy to encourage some bad bad styles. For example, take whatever you have at home, and you don't feel guilty at all. It's just a little food, so why be so stingy! ? Careless about things at work? I have a backache today and don't want to mop the floor. ? Even too casual, do some immoral things, face to face, and don't take care of the elderly and children. 20 17 Hangzhou nanny arson case is a bloody example. It's very kind of the owner to treat the nanny as a family member and help her buy a house and pay back the money. But this did not win the hearts of the people, but stimulated the greed in her bones. Why can his family live so well, but I can't? ? Four people died as a result.

Undeniably, these nannies also have problems with their own conduct, but when they first started working, she knew how to hide and suppress, and her superficial skills were in place. Only after a long time, she found that her employer was very kind and easy to bully, so she became unscrupulous. If you have been rigorous and clear about your respective positions, she will definitely not expect this.

Of course, we are not a horrible bosses, and we also need humanized management of nannies. She won't look down on or make things difficult for her career. Understand the hard work and difficulty of her work, and give her less trouble if you can do it yourself. When she behaves well, she will get material and financial rewards. On holidays, send some gifts and have a small holiday. These are all possible, not only to win the hearts of the people, but also not to be too close and let them lose their sense of proportion. In a word, these small favors we give to nannies are all based on their hard work and dedication.