Ordinary people have no chance to know the reason why you should never marry a nurse! The third point exceeds the score.

The first nurse wife does not understand romance. People who study medicine have a too thorough understanding of the human body and lack a hazy sense of beauty. Not only is her vision of you not artistic enough, but it will also be quick. to discover your physical or physiological flaws or flaws. (Rebuttal: This is better for your health. You can diagnose early and grow old together with him after early treatment.) The nurse's wife will suddenly chat with you about her patient's condition when you take her to have a candlelight dinner. (You can also make a pact with her and ask her not to talk about patients during candlelight dinners, but sometimes you still have to listen to him complain that you are the target of his complaints)

Second, the nurse’s wife does not Know how to take care of people. Don’t think that a person who studies medicine will definitely take good care of your body. In fact, she has seen too many people who are seriously ill (no wonder). If you complain that you are not feeling well, she may be indifferent. If you are really sick, don't expect her to ask for help. You have to learn to take care of yourself, because she will always have patients who are much more serious than you. (If you are really sick, he must care about you more than others. Who calls you his favorite person? Another thing is that she will notice your symptoms earlier than other wives. She will remember your symptoms in her mind and secretly ask the doctor. Who said he doesn't? (I care about you)

Thirdly, nurse wives are generally very lazy at home, maybe because they are too hard in the hospital. When they get home, they lie down on the sofa and wait for you to serve dinner. Don’t think that she will Help you clear the dishes, she will sit there motionless, find a newspaper to read, or watch TV. Although you are angry, you still think that she has been in surgery for more than ten hours, or she has just been on duty as the director. I couldn't bear to say anything. (I ask you to be more considerate about this. Luo is really tired. If he has a consecutive break, he will definitely tidy up the house. And you can’t stand it and won’t you do it yourself? He will love you even more and show off to your colleagues to strengthen the belief that you are good. After all, the status of a husband is that the wife is married to love her, not to be a Filipino maid)

Fourth, nurse wives make you afraid to be a little carefree. They are usually diligent in observing, paying attention to details in all aspects, and will Summary of data analysis. Major problems are found in the details, so if you are a little bit obsessed, it is difficult to hide from their sharp observation. (Wrong, they are exhausted from going to work every day. Unless it is really exaggerated, eating secretly without wiping their mouths, leaving evidence, and loving her, don’t do anything that would be sorry for her)

5. Locations of different departments Nurse wives also have their own shortcomings

For example, the nurses in the surgery department are informal (not good), the nurses in the orthopedics department are rude (how can they not be), and the nurses in the internal medicine department are trivial (chronic diseases) Just read more), the nurses in the obstetrics and gynecology department are tough (who can say), the nurses in the pediatrics department are hypocritical (it is clear that children will be rejected because they don’t have baby sounds, is it because they are forced), and the nurses in the otolaryngology department are perfunctory (which one ), the nurse in the psychiatric department is hysterical (because of the patient), the nurse in the infectious disease department is mysophobic (for the good of the family), the nurse in the emergency department is impulsive (how many people are there in a day, of course, please move quickly) the nurse in the intensive care unit Arrogant (I can’t understand) the nurses in the nursing home are violent (this is a personal problem, right), the public health nurses are picky (how can you see it), the nurses in the plastic surgery department are all fake (oh, well, this is because men Love it, it’s not enough to please a man. Look at my *** (On Qi), you have to be mentally prepared for this. (Please, these all vary from person to person) Sixth, nurses’ wives are not in good health. The pressure and hard work of work may make youth and beauty slip away faster. Don't think that doctors must know how to take care of themselves. In fact, most doctors who are trained in clinical medicine are only taught how to treat diseases in school, but not how to prevent them. On the other hand, the heavy and stressful work makes them They have endured dual physical and psychological pressures, long hours of work, and anxiety and tension, making them more susceptible to gastric ulcers and high blood pressure than the average person.

(So ??what? Won’t you spend more time and care about them? They are also female nurses. Why do they have to be strong women to not get sick?)

Seventh, the nurse’s wife has a bad temper. In this way of medical treatment in China Under the system, the pressure caused by heavy work and high medical risks, when facing patients, nurses must respect "God". When they return home, they need to vent. Of course, they have to turn over and become the master. How can you still expect that? She comes home and is gentle and considerate to you, even coquettishly acting like a little bird? You have to get used to accepting the "Hedong lion's roar" that appears from time to time. (What will happen if you have to be patient? Only nurses can do this? Won’t others do this? Don’t you? You have to be considerate of each other, okay?) But... a few more points

Please read on

This is the daily life of a nursing staff, it is not an exaggeration, because it happens every day

1. Be available when you make a call. Do not turn off your phone or run out of battery, otherwise your boss will think you are doing it on purpose. And he would also say that if you make so much money, you won’t be able to buy a better mobile phone.

2. The only reason for granting leave is that there is a death in your family (this is what my boss said, don’t doubt that I have many witnesses).

3. You have to go to class during the holidays. If you don’t show up, be careful of your life. Being too tired and oversleeping will be deemed as missing on purpose.

4. Changing units frequently is called training.

5. Taking care of serious infectious diseases is normal. Not thinking about leaving your job is an insult to your calling (can anyone tell me what my calling is, because I only know that dying is called dying in the line of duty).

6. If you don’t study for a second skill or a master’s degree, you don’t seek advancement. This is really in line with the aspirations of nursing staff, especially those in the ICU!

7. I work for six consecutive days and have one day off. On the day of the holiday, I mostly fall asleep in bed.

8. If you get off work at 7 o'clock in the morning and have a holiday, you often work the day shift the next day, which is also considered a day off.

9. There are holidays every month, and the holidays should be taken in turns. Sometimes I forget to make a holiday reservation and there will be no holidays.

10. You must work three shifts, unless you are pregnant or have given birth to a child within one year, if you are not married or cannot give birth, you deserve it (even if you have three children, you will still work three shifts, refer to point 1.2 , who cares whether you get a break or not).

11. There is no overtime pay for overtime work. Who calls your class a "responsibility system".

12. I have been working for several years, but I still don’t give you the annual rest in one go. It only lasts for half a month at most.

13. You have to endure the doctor’s bad temper at work.

14. At work, you should remember what size gloves each doctor wears and what size blades he uses.

15. If the doctor doesn’t retaliate after scolding you, it will be a disaster for other units to hang up on you.

16. The ward takes care of 9 patients during the day shift, 12 patients at night, and 15-20 patients at night. In addition to the patients, family members also need to be taken care of. As long as a patient is in trouble, he will wait. work overtime.

17. The intensive care unit takes care of 2-3 patients. As long as one of them is in condition, they can’t even think about eating or going to the toilet, let alone two patients and a new patient (I suggest that the ICU lady should routine Take UTI medicine so that when it attacks, you will not only have to suffer in class photos).

18. In addition to taking care of patients, you also need to do paperwork, quality control standards, on-the-job education, equipment maintenance, service attitude, project reports, innovation, etc. Except for meetings, making up time for these will not be counted as overtime. , the time for meetings and homework is spent on holidays or before and after work (and you are required to be promoted to N3 or N4, but even if you work hard to write the report, you still can't be promoted to supervisor).

19. For patients who do not have family members to take care of them, you are responsible for the food, drink, and diarrhea, not to mention that there is more than one.

20. When there are family members to take care of the patient, we have to ask the family members for help, and they also deceive the patient that it is not serious. The patient does not cooperate and has to be tied up... It is also our fault that we are impatient.

21. Patients like to pull out intravenous drips and tubes at random, and have to be criticized by doctors. If they are beaten hard, their family members will say that they did not pay enough attention, that the beating takes too long, that it is too painful, and that it is not easy to beat. Poor technology.

22. If the patient is too restless and restrained, it is your fault for being unloving.

23. Understand that the patient is uncomfortable being tied up. After the patient is untied, the patient promises not to tamper with the tube. If the tube falls off, you will have to write an accident report and your salary will be deducted (sympathizing with the enemy is being cruel to yourself).

24. I’m too busy at work and can’t eat, and I can’t make up the hours. I blame you for not eating or ordering lunch.

25. It is rare to have a holiday, and if the unit recruits you and does not want to go back, your performance will be deducted.

26. Nurses’ Day is not included as compensatory leave, but she still has to perform on stage to make everyone laugh.

27. As long as you are not hospitalized when you have a cold, you have to go to work, not to mention having diarrhea dozens of times.

28. New employees should be retained for a long time, so as not to leave and have to bring them again.

29. When a new employee first comes to work, she must be allowed to eat. Even though her patient’s condition is not good and your patient’s condition is even worse, you still have to let her eat to prevent her from wanting to leave.

30. It is normal to not be a team leader or head nurse even after ten years in the hospital.

31. Not having a boyfriend is normal.

32. It is very common to have an unhappy marriage and be responsible for the health of the entire family members.

33. After working the night shift, you have to accompany your family to the outpatient clinic. It is very important to take care of your sick family members.

34. When relatives or neighbors from far away call you to ask about your condition, be sure to answer them enthusiastically.

35. You can’t say you don’t know about issues that are miles away from your major.

36. When asked about illness, he said: If you go to the doctor, you will be considered unloving.

37. After asking the question, answer: It doesn’t matter. I also told you: Are you sure? No need to see a doctor?

38. All kinds of difficult and complicated diseases must be cured... Free gifts.

39. The hospital has dozens of wards and hundreds of nurses... people must know your name.

40. There are dozens and hundreds of doctors in the hospital that you need to know, and you can build relationships with them at any time.

41. You are caring and patient at work, but if your tone of voice is not good enough after get off work, you will be read: How can you take care of patients like this? Will definitely be accused.

A lot of eloquence... Who said that nurses are the angels in white, Guanyin Master?

Does anyone know what the average monthly salary of a nurse in Taiwan is if she is not working in a public hospital or working night shifts? … It’s about 32,500 yuan. Perhaps for some nurses, this is a salary that only takes several years of experience. You may think, "More than 30,000 yuan is an average monthly income, so what's there to complain about?" I believe those who have been hospitalized will know that to find a doctor, you have to schedule a time, and to find a nurse, you only need to press the button on the bedside. Not long after, a man in white clothes will come to your bedside. The doctor gets off work at 5:30, so if you have something to do, please come early tomorrow. But if you need to change patient clothes, sheets, diapers, drink a glass of water, or even the toilet is blocked, you can find a nurse 24 hours a day. No matter where a medical act is performed, a nurse is always there. In the emergency room, the nurse takes care of the wound first and then asks the doctor to suture it. In the operating room, the nurse prepares the instruments in advance and hands the correct instruments to the doctor for him to operate on you. In the ward, it is the nurse who first asks about your condition and tells the doctor to come to the ward to see you. In the outpatient clinic, the nurse is the first to receive you and help you prepare your medical record, and then the doctor will see you. Are there any occasions where there are only doctors but no nurses? But the salary of these nurses is only 1/5 (or even less) of the doctors who leave on time at 5:30. Some people say, "Doctors have to study for 7 years, and of course they need more money...". Did you know that nurses now also need to graduate from college. If you add the three years of nursing school, the time it takes me will never be less than that of a doctor... There is a shortage of nurses abroad in the past few years. If I want to immigrate, it will definitely be faster than that of a doctor. Do you know what will happen? Because nurses work too hard, they don't want to do it.

Moreover, the socioeconomic status of nurses and doctors abroad is as high as that of nurses. Nurses work only 4-6 hours a day, take care of about 6-8 patients at a time, and earn a monthly salary of about US$2,500-3,000. We work 8-9 hours a day and take care of about 15-20 patients each time, so I take care of these patients for an average of 25-40 minutes, not counting time for eating and going to the toilet. This is where foreign medical care beats us, they allow nurses to allocate more time to care for patients. And the respect received is the same as that of a doctor.

I have always heard people say, "The doctor at such-and-such hospital is very skilled. If you want to see a doctor, go to him." But I have never heard anyone say, "The nurse at such-and-such hospital takes good care of you. You need to go to him in the hospital." He said, "Why is this?" Because when you get a disease, you hope to be cured, and when you are truly cured, you will be filled with joy and of course you will thank the person who made you cured. But in the painful process of the disease, seemingly inconspicuous actions (such as applying hot compress, patting on the back, changing clothes, giving medication, etc.) are taken for granted.

After reading this message, I hope that next time you receive help from a nurse, don’t forget to show respect

P.S. When you are sick, others will ask you, "Nurses too" Are you going to get sick? ”

It’s really realistic and well-written. Please try to spread it.

Let’s see if it can be spread to the Guild (or the Presidential Palace) in the end

Let me tell you: this work is not done by humans at all! !

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When I first read this article, I really wanted to cry. Now it makes me feel that nurses in Taiwan are really hard. They are so exhausted from work that they have to stay after get off work to "do homework." "I have to go to the hospital for classes during holidays. Sometimes I have to pick up the late night shift after the day shift. You may not understand this. Let me explain. Usually the working hours of the day shift are from 8 to 4 or 5 o'clock, and the late night shift is from 10 p.m. From 2 o'clock to 8 o'clock in the morning, you only have seven or eight hours to rest. But usually during the day shift, patients will have problems and delay get off work. Assuming that nothing happens, what can you do for eight hours? After deducting transportation time, eating, and bathing, there are still six hours left to sleep. Those who live further away will be even more miserable. Some people will say that the hospital has dormitories that are cheap and convenient, why not live there? But the fact is, my sister has a colleague who lives in the hospital dormitory, and his roommate is a senior who works the night shift. The senior is a light sleeper and will be awakened by the slightest sound. So my sister’s colleague has to hang around after work every day after the day shift. Can't you go back to the dormitory and live outside until ten o'clock? The area near the hospital is very expensive. Do you want to help pay for it? Sleeping for less than six hours, waking up and having to work a long night shift completely disrupts the biological clock, so there is really no reason why nurses are in poor health. Please stop saying "nurses can get sick too". Nurses are also human beings and are not invincible. Tiejingang also needs a rest

Due to the inhumane nature of the work, many excellent nursing staff want to leave their jobs, but the hospital's attitude is still: leave if you can't adapt, and you will be the best one anyway! (This is true) (We have to take care of high quality, and we are required to take care of more than ten or twenty people at a time. Do we think we are gods?!) If this continues, I can only advise everyone not to get sick, otherwise, in the hospital You will encounter nursing staff who have no choice but to dawdle and know little about medicine because all the good nursing staff have left...

There is a senior in the ICU (Intensive Care Unit) who has a fever of 39°C and still needs it. I worked the night shift until I was completely confused. Another senior in the same group was almost responsible for the whole thing. After all, this is the ICU, and there are many more germs than in the general ward. Once the immunity is weak, it is easy to get sick every three days. I heard about this senior The senior who had a cold had a fever, and she became seriously ill one after another.

Many people will say: Being a nurse is great ~ the salary is great! Elders especially like to say: Which job now pays as much as a nurse? Otherwise, just say: All walks of life have hard work. At least the fact that your salary is higher than others does not mean that other industries are not hard work, but the salary that is completely disproportionate to the workload is paid for with your life. Do you want it instead?

Just like many people think of flight attendants, they think that flight attendants just wear bright clothes and walk around on the plane every day, carrying plates and meals, and they have high salaries and a lot of money. There are few romantic encounters, and men have a fantasy about flight attendants, so it is easy to make boyfriends. However, due to jet lag, flight attendants have irregular schedules and messed up biological clocks. They have to push heavy dining cars and luggage, and rarely have romantic encounters with passengers. It is difficult to make friends with boyfriends who eat tofu and are easy to get cheated on, because they have been flying around for a long time and being cheated without knowing it. The same is true for nurses. Alas, I don’t know what to say!!

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After reading the following article, I hope we can respect the hard-working nurse lady more

My wife is pregnant and goes to work every day with a big belly. Sometimes she works overtime and comes back very late. After a hospital check-up, she couldn't even eat a normal meal even though she was busy. The busy work and the growing baby made her body overwhelmed. How many times did she suffer from stomach pain at night and burst into tears; although I Is a doctor, and a nurse every day

I have long been accustomed to working with them, but at this time, when I saw other people's wives leisurely walking in the community or in the park during pregnancy, while my lover was still working hard, I felt very uncomfortable and felt very sorry for her. It coincides with the collection of essays on the stories of nurses in the department, so I specially compiled this essay to dedicate it to my lover and to every angel in white.

We met by chance; we fell in love with an angel's smile; we fell in love with a true confession; we got married on a day of celebration. In the eyes of others, I am so lucky to have found a gentle, beautiful, kind and considerate wife who is a nurse. However, looking back on the emotional journey I have gone through over the past few years, I cannot connect luck with myself, even in my heart. A thought came to mind many times: If there is an afterlife, please forgive me for not marrying you again. Although I also work in the hospital, I really can't stand her endless overtime work and the long wait at the hospital entrance, especially at the beginning of the hospital's high-quality care. I can't stand her washing the patients' hair, face, and feet. When I trimmed my nails, I sometimes laughed at her for being a high-end nanny. But now, after seeing my wife pregnant, with a big belly every day, going to work at night and night, and working overtime without eating or sleeping, my mind has changed, and I know that nursing is not just for her. Her career is also her career.

The hospital is a special environment, and nurses are a special group in a special environment. A fluttering white dress represents a pure heart; a unique swallow hat represents the important task of protecting life. For countless sunny mornings, they listened to the concerto of the healing tray; for countless sleepless nights, they felt the symphony of life and death. They are responsible for every aspect of the ward, ranging from medical rescue to changing clothes. They are nowhere to be seen. As the saying goes, if the doctor opens his mouth, the nurse will break his legs. It is the nurse who walks in front of the doctor to observe the patient's condition; it is the nurse who follows the doctor and executes the doctor's orders; it is the nurse who keeps her eyes open every day to be alert to whether the doctor's order is wrong; if the doctor's order is wrong, the nurse carries out the wrong medical order and accepts the punishment It is the nurse who protects medical records from being snatched by patients and prevents data from being lost; it is the nurse who protects medical records from being snatched by patients and prevents data from being lost; patients need to see nurses for infusion, dressing change, and treatment; patients who cannot eat need to see nurses; if they eat too much and cannot poop out, They need to find a nurse; the hospital pool is blocked, the TV light is broken, and they need to find a nurse; they are not satisfied with the environment and the companionship system, so they need to find a nurse; patients cannot find a doctor, so they need to find a nurse... When they are examined, they are on the ground or in bed. , under the bed, on the bedside table, on the wall, in the air, on the balcony, quilt, mattress, pillow, hair, skin, fingernails, toenails, office, treatment room, dressing room, dressing room, trash can, classified garbage, disinfection Liquid barrels, oxygen bags, medical records trolleys, nursing records, temperature sheets, medical orders... everything has to be sorted out, and the core system must be memorized, etc. Some leaders also have to ask the patient if he knows who his responsible nurse is. The patient doesn't know that the nurse is deducted points, but as everyone knows, some patients only remember their doctor in charge. Even though you run in front of her every day, she still doesn't know and can't remember it. I remember a doctor once jokingly said something like this: The first-year nurse has an apple face, with a rosy complexion; the second-year nurse has a cucumber face, with a bluish complexion and acne; and the third-year nurse has a bitter melon face. Face, worried about getting married and getting wrinkles. Maybe you don’t believe it, maybe you think this is just an example, maybe you call it alarmism, but this is a true portrayal of the passing of nurses’ faces. When they work on the day shift, they have to be woken up by N alarm clocks N 1 times in the morning; when they work the night shift , the doctor can sleep, but they can't close their eyes for a minute. When they get off the night shift, their eye circles are black, their lips are white, and their faces are yellow and bloodless. They finally look forward to a vacation, but they don't want to do anything, they just want to be there. Get a solid sleep in bed.

How many times have they cleaned up the absent-minded patients, how many times have they washed away the dirt on the faces of the unaccompanied elderly people; how many times have they sent warm encouragement and pillars of life belief to cancer patients; how many times have they provided comfort to the sleeping patients? The patient pulled up the quilt; how many times they shed tears of sympathy with the family members who lost their loved ones; how many times she forgot to eat and rest in order to rescue the patient; how many times they guarded the patient when others were reunited; how many times... Their hard work can be seen from their swollen legs, from their feet covered with calluses, from their hands soaked in disinfectant, and from their tired figures when they get off work.

So, don’t think that nurses’ wives are beautiful, wearing white, blue, or pink uniforms, as beautiful as angels, because they have never put on makeup; don’t laugh at her The dark circles under her eyes are getting darker and her skin is no longer delicate and rosy, because they have never had regular rest; don’t hope that she will stay young forever, because their appearance has faded away during the night shift; don’t think that those who study medicine People will definitely take good care of your body. In fact, she has seen too many people who are seriously ill. When you complain that you are not feeling well, she may nonchalantly tell you to just take a rest, or ask you to find some medicine. If you are really sick, don't expect her to ask for help. You have to learn to take care of yourself, because she will always have patients who are much more serious than you. Don't think that they will be as diligent at home as they are in the hospital, washing and cooking for you. , maybe because they are too hard in the hospital, they will lie down on the sofa as soon as they get home, waiting for you to eat; don’t think that she will help you clear away the dishes after dinner, she will sit there motionless, watching TV Go to sleep quickly; don't think that the nurse's wife will be as amiable to you as she is to her patients. In a medical system like China's, with heavy work and high medical risks, nurses must respect patients as if they are "God". When she goes home and needs to vent, can you still expect her to return? Will you be gentle and considerate to you at home, or even behave like a little bird? You have to habitually accept the "Lion's Roar from East of the River" that appears from time to time; don't think that...

If your wife is a nurse, please cook meals at home, wash clothes, mop the floor, Wait for her to get off work; if your wife is a nurse, please give her a basin of hot water before going to bed and let her soak her swollen feet; if your wife is a nurse, please do not blame her for not replying to your message , she may be checking medical orders or rescuing patients; if your wife is a nurse, please don’t blame her for not being able to answer your call at work, because if you are distracted for a moment, you may add the wrong medicine, because she is facing life; if you If your wife is a nurse, please turn your cell phone to silent at home. Don’t let her get nervous because of the cell phone ***, because her brain nerves have been tense for a day in the hospital; if your wife is a nurse, be her When she falls asleep watching TV on the sofa, please do not wake her up, because she may have just returned from the night shift after finishing her busy work. Please gently turn off the TV, lie quietly next to her, and wait for her to wake up quietly. Come on; if your wife is a nurse, please give her some understanding when she cannot accompany you during holidays. Everyone is on holiday, but life cannot be on holiday. She must always stand up for her position so that more people can enjoy life and enjoyment. Happy holidays, in fact, why doesn’t she want to spend that wonderful time with you? If your wife is a nurse and cannot spend the anniversary with you, please understand her difficulties. Her work often does not allow her to be on time. After work, she often changed her working hours and obeyed the arrangements because she had sworn in front of Nightingale that she would devote herself to nursing.

If your wife is a nurse, please don’t complain about the time difference she gives you. She goes to work when you take a break, and she takes a break when you go to work. In fact, the person she misses most is you. Once she has time, she will even sacrifice herself to rest. He will also visit you when he is working, even if he secretly glances at you from a corner where you can’t see him so as not to disturb you while you are working.

Then send a message or call you to tell you that she loves you, and then say a few words, dear, you must eat well, I can’t take care of you, please forgive me...

If your wife is a nurse , she can't always be by your side to take care of you when you are sick, please don't blame her. Apart from your parents, she is the one who worries about you the most, but her job is to face more patients. They put all their energy on the patients. As long as she has time, she will definitely be by your side to take care of you.

If your wife is a nurse, please comfort her patiently when she sheds tears. She has faced too many life and death situations, and has seen too many tragic scenes. She is not callous, she is not She has seen too much and has no feeling. She cannot cry. In order for her work to proceed smoothly, in order for her family to accept the reality, and to give the deceased more dignity, she must remain calm. Only when she faces you will she shed tears because of you. He is the one who makes her feel most relaxed, safe and trustworthy. —– Such important information must be shared to let more people know!