What is it like to stay at home for a few months?

?After a few months of leisure at home, you will feel particularly bored and decadent, and your life will be completely devoid of energy. No matter how tiring or difficult your work is, you always think about taking a vacation. In fact, just take a few days to rest, but don’t take it for several months, otherwise you will be bored and decadent at home.

? Now I am a Go teacher, but I was not a few years ago. At that time, I worked in the factory with my husband as a workshop administrator. I originally thought it would be great to work with my husband, and I planned to keep working together, but then something happened at home. My husband’s father got sick, and it was very serious. The doctor said it would only last a few months at most. I had no other choice, so I resigned and took my children back to my hometown, so that the old man could see his grandchildren more in the last few months, so that my husband could work in the factory with peace of mind.

?A few months later, the old man left. The old lady lost her husband suddenly, and she might not be able to accept it. Her hair almost turned white within a few days, her overall mental state was not good, and we didn't feel comfortable leaving the child to her. The old lady stayed in her hometown and was accompanied by her four daughters. After returning to Wuxi, I resigned and had to take care of the children by myself. The child was about to enter kindergarten at that time. After school started, I sent my children to kindergarten every morning and returned home. I was very happy at first. I no longer had to rush to catch the factory bus to go to work. Every day, I could eat whenever I wanted, and sleep whenever I wanted. You can sleep and go shopping if you want.

?But you can’t hold on after less than a month. No one can go shopping with you every day. Everyone has their own work to be busy with, and it’s boring to watch TV at home every day. . I feel dizzy even when I sleep. Every day I feel like time passes so slowly. I felt very empty inside, with no one to talk to. There is nothing to do. Every time I meet the older uncles and aunts downstairs, when they hear that I am so young and stay at home, they all look at me with contempt, which makes me feel very uncomfortable. Later, after my child had been in kindergarten for half a year, I sent him to an after-school class. I also waited for an opportunity. When a chess club recruited a Go teacher, I happened to meet the requirements. I took advantage of this opportunity to challenge myself. Never sit around at home again. Hard work pays off. After studying hard for several months, I finally qualified to become a Go teacher.

?Although I had to pick up and drop off my children every day, I went to class, after class, and learned to play chess every day. My life became more and more fulfilling, and I returned to my old self. I felt I'm back again, and my overall condition is getting better again. So don't be idle at home. Even if you are tired from work or study, you can take a few days off to rest at home and relax a little, but don't stay at home.