Facts have proved that meeting a love rat will ruin all your good ideas about love.

Chen Jing is a child without a happy childhood. She lives in a small county in Lincang. At home, her father often beats her mother, especially after drinking. In our country, men are the pillars of the family, that is, the sky.

We are a minority here, and the old ideas are more traditional; Chen Jing is a post-90s generation. Although the traditional ideas in mountainous areas are conservative, the pace of the times is in the foreground, not to mention the post-90s generation! Chen Jing finally came into contact with the Internet in junior high school, but since she came into contact with the Internet, she felt that she had opened a new door. Men and women must be equal, and domestic violence is illegal. . . .

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Although I know that domestic violence is illegal, what can I do? I can only secretly shed tears, and my mother is still silently suffering. In this case, Chen Jing hardly studied after entering high school, so she had to go out to work. But I can't worry about my mother. I just want to find a stable job in a big city nearby.

However, the reality is really cruel, because I just graduated from high school, and I have little courage and no money.

I had to find a job in the factory and finally found a sugar factory. Everyone knows that the factory is a working time factory, which is very boring. It's been like this for two years, sending money home in the middle I will stay at home for three days during the New Year, and then I will work in a sugar factory.

I have worked in such a sugar factory for more than two years. I have been a coolie and have never been promoted to the team leader. My salary is still calculated by piece. Finally, on 20 13, Chen Jing resigned from the sugar factory. But when I came out, I was also confused. I thought that although I have some savings now, I can't sit on my laurels. Then you should go to a bigger city and learn more practical things in the future, so as to make a good retreat in the future.

2. Growth

In this way, I woke up and moved to the provincial capital Kunming, where I found a small hotel for the first time. First, I want to find a restaurant to do it, work and learn skills, and I can open such a store myself in the future.

Observing in many shops, I found that most of them are Chinese restaurants, either breakfast shops or rice noodle shops. But to gain a foothold in these fierce shops, either the craftsmanship is good or the location of the shop is in power!

Finally, after a week's observation, I found that the hamburger fast food restaurant is good. Basically, you take it out when you are ready, and it is also fast to change channels. So I made up my mind to find this hamburger fast food restaurant and see if it was hiring.

It is under this idea that I finally found such a store, because this store is for talents and just recruited people to work in it successfully.

At the time of trial operation, I saw that the boss was still listening to a master. At that time, Chen Jing was still thinking, "This is a big boss, but it looks ordinary, and there is no big belly like a big boss!" Later, I learned that this store was going to join the optimist burger, and the operation master sent by the optimist burger headquarters led the team.

In this way, Chen Jing began to work in Happy Burger Fast Food Restaurant.

With the proficiency of the business, the trust of the boss and the seriousness of the work; During the period, out of trust in the boss, I also went to Chongqing optimist Hamburg headquarters to learn new dishes.

I'll think about it. Unconsciously, Chen Jing has been working in this store for two years, and the boss plans to open a branch in another district. Just say Chen Jing, look, the new branch is about to open. When my new store opens, you can go directly to be the manager.

Step 3 get to know each other and get along well

In this way, Chen Jing went to another district to be the manager.

Chen Jing also participated in the recruitment of personnel; This is the first meeting between Yuan Xiaodong and Chen Jing. It was this interview that produced Chen Jing's Sad Past.

When Yuan Xiaodong officially came to work in the branch, Chen Jing always paid more attention to newcomers and little people.

At work, Yuan Xiaodong still seems to be very smart, especially if some customers feel good, recommend a platform like Meituan takeaway and tell them that we can deliver takeaway. Chen Jing, an employee who is thinking about his own work, also mentioned to the big boss that he came up with this idea, as long as the take-out reaches a certain amount, how much commission will be given to each order.

In this way, Chen Jing paid more attention to Yuan Xiaodong and was more willing to support him. And Yuan Xiaodong's mouth is also very sweet. He always bites Jingjing, and Chen Jing takes care of him more. Slowly, we have a good impression on each other and naturally want to live together and better understand and take care of each other.

It is also because of cohabitation that we find that our views on each other are really different.

Chen Jing and Yuan Xiaodong didn't go to work together several times because the optimist burger shop had two shifts. And slowly found that Yuan Xiaodong often didn't see anyone and asked him to go out to play in an Internet cafe.

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Chen Jing wanted to be together, and she will be 25 years old soon. In rural areas, many girls get married at this age. My mother often calls to ask when to bring her boyfriend back, but she is not sure if she can really bring her boyfriend back.

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4. Fraud

Slowly, unconsciously, they lived together for more than half a year, but Chen Jing hinted that she had expressed the problem of getting married several times. Chen Xiaodong said directly, "I'm still young, so how much will it cost to get married?"? How can I get married? "

"However, my mother urges me to get married as soon as she calls, so let's work hard to earn money, otherwise I will give my mother less money every month, and we will save more."

"good! We'll do some small business ourselves then! "

It was these two conversations that led to the subsequent deception.

Yuan Xiaodong was often absent from Chen Jing later, saying that he was going to see the facade.

Women who don't know if they are really in love are all fools, because Yuan Xiaodong said that he always looks at appearances, so he totally believed him. As a result, a few days later, I said that I had found a new job with higher salary and wanted to resign. Earn another half a year, and we can do business together, then get married and have children.

Hearing this, Chen Jing thought it was great. Yuan Xiaodong finally grew up. I know that I have worked hard to earn money, and I also know that I have considered our future.

Also made a table of dishes, shallow cups to talk about each other's bright future.

However, I didn't expect that reality and imagination were completely inconsistent. After Yuan Xiaodong resigned, he often left this house and often asked Chen Jing for money, saying that he had not saved money before. Although there will be money in this job now, there is no money because I have to give gifts to my customers in the early stage.

What I think is that both of them are preparing for starting a business in the future, so I will give it to Bai, as long as it takes six months to a year.

In such a constant demand for money, Yuan Xiaodong really took more than 20,000 yuan from Chen Jing in half a year. It was not until that day that Yuan Xiaodong asked Chen Jing for money again that Chen Jingcai broke out.

"Didn't you say you can basically open a shop after half a year? But now for half a year, I haven't seen you make money, but you've been asking me for money. Now I basically give you all the money I earned from working these years. I have no money now, just waiting to get paid. What's wrong with you? "

5. noisy

"Is that what I want? I also want to make money! But who would have thought that this project was so difficult to talk about? Gifts are basically thousands of gifts, usually for customers to eat. Honey, wait a little longer! Let's see if it can. If not, I will resign. "

"But I really have no money. I will give you everything I can now. If you want hundreds of dollars, you will really have none at 500; And there is still half a month before the salary is paid! "

"Then you give me 100 first, and I'll think of another way."

"That this 100, you save some! I really want to give your boss a present. After all, this is not a long-term solution! "

I thought Yuan Xiaodong would know how to save money. As a result, after Chen Jing had no money here, he found that he went home less and less.

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I don't know when it started, but when I found out I was going to pick it up in the bathroom when I went back. In this case, Chen Jing smelled a trace of cheating.

I peeked at Yuan Xiaodong's mobile phone intentionally or unintentionally. One day, I actually found an ambiguous chat record on my mobile phone, showing that it was still a woman.

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Chen Jing wants to talk it over. As a result, Yuan Xiaodong blamed Chen Jing for how you rummaged through my mobile phone.

"Is it me rummaging around? Aren't our mobile phones free to look at each other? I can't see anything. Are there any other enchanting goods outside? "

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"You don't be unreasonable, well, nothing. This is for the customer, and she is an old woman in her 40 s. I just say this to coax her and let her win the project early. "

6. Knowledge

"How did you become like this? Can't you talk it over? Do you have to? Can you promise never to sleep with this woman? "

"my dear! I promise not to sleep with this woman. I really just coaxed her into winning the project. When we win this project, we will have the money to start a business. Baby, don't be angry! Now this woman is a fool. Since I behaved like this, that woman has never received a gift again, and sometimes other customers want to give gifts. I spit on her and she gave me money! This will not save us a lot of money. "

"But have you ever thought that others are rich and powerful? What if you know your purpose and others retaliate?"

"My dear, don't worry! These old women are like this, and they will definitely not speak; That's a married woman with children. That's just vanity. She won't really like me. Besides, baby, do you think that woman can compete with you? I am the one who wants to marry you, and the old woman can play with her at most. "

I don't know why, after Yuan Xiaodong said these words, Chen Jing still felt uneasy. Think this is still the smart person I knew at the beginning, but I am full of enthusiasm and only think about the company? Is this colorful world too impetuous for us, or have we never really known Chen Xiaodong?

Then, for Xiao-dong Yuan to chat with that woman on that mobile phone, Chen Jing wouldn't be embarrassed to make a phone call.

I often hear "Sister Wang, that dress of yours really suits you today. It looks uneven, which fully embodies the sexy beauty of women and makes me very impulsive." You see, if there is no project to talk to you about, I will definitely challenge your husband and make you the happiest woman in the world. "

7.noisy

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Chen Jing is really sad. Yuan Xiaodong often talks sweet words to that woman. But thinking about it can only remind myself, which means Xiaodong won't really take action. As long as he chats with that woman in the future, it will be good for him and himself.

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Until one night, Chen Xiaodong went home drunk to do things; In the evening, I said, "It's better for you. That old woman is a slut. You might as well go out and sell, and then our venture capital will be faster. "

After hearing this sentence, Chen Jing felt like thunder.

Just get up, get dressed and start quarreling.

"Xiao-dong yuan, what did you say, I am your wife, you let me go out to sell. And when you said you wouldn't sleep with that old woman, you actually slept with that old woman! "

"Chen Jing, every time you call me Sister Wang, you don't disappear with your eyes closed; It gives me the feeling that you just want me to make more money. Just sleep with Sister Wang a few times, and then our life will be fine! "

"Xiao-dong yuan, what I want is sweet talk hanging, not really letting you sleep with that old woman; Secondly, I won't sell it! "

"Chen Jing, okay, okay! That sister Wang fell asleep, and then she fell asleep. I know it's better for you But seriously, think about it, if you go out to earn this part-time job, it's a big deal to sell it for two years and then start a business in another city. Now you have done too much. What does it matter, as long as I don't dislike you? Life is so difficult now, not just for a better quality of life in the future! "

"You don't say so much, I won't go out to sell, you don't want to. Men don't work hard, they rely on women. How can I be blind and have a crush on you? You have paid back this half year from my more than 20 thousand yuan now. I don't want much, I want 20 thousand. "

"my dear! But I really don't have it now. You can sell it. "

"I told you, I won't sell it. If you do this again, we will have to break up. "

8. So that's it

"Well, points. I won't pay back a penny. "

"How could you do that? Why are you so shameless? I saved that 20 thousand myself. Usually, we both try our best to make AA system, and I just lend it to you. Why don't you give it back to me? "

"You gave it to me yourself. I didn't steal it or rob it."

Two people quarreled over money, and finally they even got to the point of fighting. In the past, only Chen Jing slapped Yuan Xiaodong in the face, but with more beatings, Yuan Xiaodong began to fight back.

"You've had enough! Go ahead, start doing it, too. Don't think I don't hit women. If I hadn't watched you follow me for so long, I would have hit you. "

Hearing this, Chen Jing gave me a push and said that you would hit me. I just want to find a man who doesn't hit women, because I watched my mother hit many times since I was a child, and I secretly vowed that I would never find a man who hit women again.

At this point, Chen Jing's heart is gloomy, and it seems that there is no future for each other.

"All right, don't say so much, pay back the money quickly!"

"Anyway, now don't money, a life! If you sell it, you will have money to pay you back! "

"I'm blind? I love you so much and trust you so much; I have always thought that you are a person who can be entrusted, thinking about the future, but listening to you? "

"What's going on? Anyway, this society is like this. What does it matter if you laugh at the poor and don't laugh at prostitutes? "

9, cold heart

The more Chen Jing thought about it, the more depressed she became, and the more they quarreled, the more fierce they became. Finally, in the midst of the noise, Yuan Xiaodong said, "You don't look at yourself either. A rural person, who wants money but has no money, doesn't need people, is older than me. If you want to get married, you will naturally spend money! "

"Then why did you promise to marry me? Have you been lying to me to fight and open a shop together? "

"I didn't lie to you. I wanted to open an optimist burger or something with you. But as you can see. The reality is so cruel. If you don't have enough capital, you have to make money. That's why you must work part-time. "

"Stop it, let me think!"

When I said this, Chen Jing thought, forget it! Since he insists so much, it seems that I really should break up with him. And you must go quietly, or who knows what he will do to me for money.

Besides, I have to quit my job, change my district or change my city. But what should I do with my mother? Life is so hard!

Well, they have been together for over a year.

Men really like the new and hate the old, don't they cherish it when they get it? Just thinking about money, just thinking about using money, that's all?

The next day, I went to the big boss and submitted my resignation report. I can only say that something happened at home and I have to go home to take care of my parents. What about the feelings of two people like this? What a pity!

In this way, Chen Jing left this city and moved to another city.

I found that after I left, my skin turned black, while others had fair skin. Just wondering, is it because I'm black? I'm really old, and I don't deserve him. Is that why he did this to me?

So far, Chen Jing has this idea. In another city, she has found a factory to ensure food and shelter and worked hard. Every time a colleague asks about dating, he directly refuses.

P: This article is adapted from a true story, and the names of the articles are all pseudonyms.