Why do rural people like to leave the door open, while some city people always close it? what do you think?

"Live with the door open" or "Live with the door closed"? This is actually a "how to be a man?" problem

The older generation in the village often said that the life of our common people is actually "closing the door and opening the door". Close the door, you can handle things well at home; Opening the door can straighten things out. If a family can do these two things, life will be good.

Therefore, the door has an important symbolic significance in the life of rural people: in the eyes of rural people, their housework belongs to "internal affairs", rural social communication belongs to "diplomacy", and the boundary between "inside" and "outside" is "door", which is a channel connecting family and society.

The countryside is an acquaintance society with transparent information. Because the villagers like to stare at other people's homes, you supervise me and I supervise you, and things are hard to hide. But no matter how transparent your information is, who should leave some privacy? Therefore, if anyone has any private affairs, he must close the door and speak out, in case the wall has ears.

Closing the door is to deal with housework that you don't want outsiders to know, but you have to open the door when you are finished. Many city people may not understand why, because city people may not know that country people are most afraid of being said to live alone behind closed doors.

Why don't rural people like to close the door? Living in the countryside, the first thing after getting up every morning is usually to open the door, clean the aisle in front of the door, and then say hello to the neighbors in the past and say a few commonplaces, so the life of the day begins. Family members should leave home and step into the society, and outsiders may also visit.

As soon as this door enters and exits, it is the social interaction of rural people.

What will happen if a rural family always lives behind closed doors at this time? To put it mildly, it reduces the chances of chatting with villagers or neighbors passing by outside the door.

In the worst case, this is equivalent to telling the whole village: "My family doesn't welcome visiting." In this way, if the villagers have no serious business to find this family, no one will visit his house.

Maybe you will say, what's the matter? I don't like being a guest in other people's homes, and I don't like being a guest in mine. It's no use chatting. I wasted half a day of tea. I don't have any money. Why bother? I can't make a living by chatting.

Yes, chatting really can't be a life. However, if you "build a car behind closed doors" and live an "autistic" rural social life, then your life in the countryside is bound to be more difficult.

Why?

Because the countryside is not as good as the city, and the city has a developed tertiary industry, as long as you have money in your pocket, you can buy all kinds of living materials and services. Rural areas are not as rich as cities, and no matter how rich they are, they can't buy supporting services in cities. Because rural people are helping me, helping you and relying on each other.

For example, if the water pipe at home bursts and you can't fix it yourself, you can call the property in the city and they can help you solve it. But what if this happens in the countryside?

In the countryside, under normal circumstances, neighbors are helping each other. This little thing can be solved by ordinary rural men. You may just shout, and neighbor Erzhuzi will come to your house with tools to help you fix it. It's been fixed. You don't even have to thank him. If you really want to thank others, you should buy more fruits or pork in a few days and send them to Jules. I couldn't tell when I sent it to thank him for fixing the water pipe last time. I'm just saying I can't eat if I buy too much. What does this mean? Anyone who knows it knows it.

Imagine, if you close the door every day in the countryside and don't contact anyone, are you ashamed to call someone in this situation?

In fact, when you see something at home, no matter how "autistic" you are at ordinary times, in fact, neighbors will not sit idly by. However, their mood of helping you is different from before. This is out of morality, out of their inner simplicity and kindness. Someone will help you repair the water pipe. You should make a pot of good tea, invite someone to sit at the table, pass a cigarette and chat with someone for a while. At this time, people who are most afraid of heartlessness, after getting help from others, pay and thank. When you use city commercial services, it's like hitting someone in the face.

Living in the countryside, tinkering at home is still a trivial matter. If your family wants to hold a wedding, you can't help asking your neighbors for help, because you can't do it yourself in the countryside.

Therefore, few people in rural areas choose to live alone behind closed doors.

Why are the doors of city people always closed? The city is a society of strangers. Some people don't even know what their neighbors across the street do, and it's hard to interact with them for years.

Urban society is a stranger, unlike the countryside, where people know everything. People can only get a sense of security by going to the door.

People live in cities, get wages through professional labor, and can use their wages to buy all kinds of living materials and services in the market. People in the city leave a lot of space for themselves because they are unfamiliar. The key to being a man in the city is how to shape yourself, publicize your personality and be yourself.

Therefore, it is a legitimate need to hide in the city and build a car behind closed doors.

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Why do rural people like to leave the door open? There is an old saying that the door is closed, and the door of a farmer's house is closed all day. This family is either a family with little contact with outsiders or no one at home. The main purpose of the rural gate is to prevent livestock from entering the courtyard and hurting the vegetables and fruits in the small garden, not to guard against theft, because all the valuable things in the countryside are in the house, and there is no one at home, so the outer door must be locked.

In fact, locking the door is also to prevent gentlemen and villains. If a gentleman doesn't need to be protected, then a villain can't be protected with a lock. Farmers are not afraid of theft. In broad daylight, no one wants big items and food, and there are many idle houses in the countryside. Just find a place to put them away, I'm afraid the fairy Luo won't guess.

Most rural areas live in tile houses with windows facing the gate. As soon as the gate is closed, the line of sight is covered tightly, which makes people feel blocked. People who come to do business and travel along the road have to knock on the door, which makes the chicken fly and the dog jump and runs far away before opening the door. How inconvenient is it? Open the door, the yard will be bright and the mood will be cheerful. Nowadays, chickens, ducks, geese and other poultry in rural areas are kept in captivity, as are cattle and sheep, not to mention worrying about these things entering the hospital. So many residents don't close the door even when they go out, just lock the door of the outhouse.

The gate in the countryside is like a posted notice. If the gate is not closed, it means that there are people at home or in the garden, even if no one is there, they will leave temporarily and wait for business. If the door is closed, the owner may be working in the field and won't come back for a while.

It is normal for farmers to communicate with each other. Sometimes there is no one at home, and they can find what they want by themselves with just one phone call. It is convenient for the other party to open the door. When outsiders want to go to the hospital, neighbors will take care of it, which is much better than closing the door and locking it.

The rural public security situation is very good, so the habit formed over the years is often to open the door and not to deliberately defend. On the other hand, cities are different. Living in the unit is often unfamiliar. Outside the unit is public land, and outsiders will not notice each other when they come in. Even if someone is in the room, it is impossible for outsiders to observe the situation in the room. So they not only closed the door all day, but also installed security doors to ensure safety. Although people in the city live in a community, there are not many situations that cross each other, which is very different from that in the countryside.

In contrast, it is safer for farmers to leave the door open than for urban users to close it.

It is very simple, because the countryside is an acquaintance society and the city is a stranger society. A rural person can be said to be known by everyone, and is familiar to adults and children. You can say one, two, three, whose child is this and whose old man is that. Even if someone marries a new wife, it won't be long before they all know. Even the cows, pigs, chickens and ducks are clear.

The village is small, and the whole village is a large family, all of which are dedicated to one ancestor. When people meet, they are either called uncles or uncles. You can hear a large number of aunts in the west of the village, and you can draw a portrait of the whole village with your eyes closed. The village is large, and people with the same surname often live together, and everyone is surrounded by their own family. Everyone knows each other very well. There is no need to guard against anyone by closing the door every day. People around you can see who entered the hospital and took what.

In addition, before the 1980s, rural housing was still very tight. There are often two or three families living in a yard, some are lost brothers and some are uncles. Everyone shares a yard and goes in and out through the same door, so it is impossible to close the door. Over time, the habit of not closing the door was formed.

Some commonly used farm tools, such as hoes, shovels, hoes, brooms, etc., are often placed in rural yards, and valuables are not placed in the yard. Rural people often live with the elderly. In general, there are people at home. Even in busy farming days, it is impossible for everyone to farm. Sometimes children play at home. Therefore, as long as you don't go far away, you won't lock the door. You will only close the door if you go to the vegetable field or wash clothes by the river.

Rural people also have the habit of visiting, especially women, who get together to do needlework and help their parents, such as collecting soles and knitting. Men also get together to chat when they are free, and the place to chat is often at the gate or in the yard. Rural people are also used to borrowing things, and when they lack tools, they will borrow from each other to form a mutually beneficial relationship. If you close the door every day, you will not associate with you for a long time. This is self-isolation. In everyone's words, this family is too tight, and no one wants to associate with you.

City people live in buildings, and there is no yard at all. Only the 100 square meter inside the door belongs to you. The door is someone else's, so there is no academy at all. As soon as the door of the city people is opened, everything in the room can be seen clearly. One family is poor and the other is rich, and there is no privacy at all. Standing at the gate in the countryside, you can only see everything in the yard, but you can't see anything inside the house.

This city is a completely strange society. People who go door to door don't know what they do, where their hometown is, and what the situation is at home. Those who live upstairs and downstairs may never know each other, even if they are fugitives. In this case, if you don't close the door, others won't know that you have finished taking things. It happened that someone was away from home for a long time, and the thief drove the car, moving things without anyone asking, and didn't even know the property.

There are contradictions among rural people, and it is not a big deal to quarrel or fight with each other. As long as the hatred is not deep, no one dares to retaliate further. Everyone knows that the roots and blood are maintained there. More than three or five generations are a family, so the broken bones are still attached to the tendons, and people in the clan can't let you die.

People in the city are different. They are strangers to each other. No one else knows the background at all. On the surface, they met with goodwill, but they didn't know what was behind it. They may be powerful people, or they may be mixed society. Therefore, a little contradiction between them will lead to great disaster.

So, it's not that city people don't want to open the door, but they can't. So many people think that the city's home is not a home, but a place to sleep. If you move anywhere like duckweed, even if you have lived in one place for decades, you won't feel like home like the countryside. When you move out of this neighborhood for a year or two, no one knows you when you go back, and everything will feel strange. In the countryside, as long as you grew up in this village head, even if you go out for 30 years, people will recognize you when you come back. The mountains and rivers still look so kind, the roads are as familiar as the fields, and there is no strangeness at all.

This is why people who come out of the countryside have so much homesickness, because their hometown will always be in their hearts, even if it becomes ruins, they will have an impression. The city is dying out and changing too fast. As long as you are not in this place, you will become a stranger at once. There are good flowers and trees in the yard of the community. I pass by every day, even picking and picking, but I don't feel anything.

Therefore, the rural gate has two functions, one is to attract customers, the other is to prevent thieves, opening the door is to welcome guests, and closing the door is to stop thieves. Doors in cities have only one function, that is, to prevent thieves. Only when the door is closed will you feel safe and feel that it belongs to you. Everything outside the door has nothing to do with yourself.

This question is a bit biased. The door of rural people is not opened every day. For practical purposes, the door is open when there is someone at home. If everyone in the family goes to work in the fields, the door is always closed when there is no one at home. Why are the doors of rural people always open as long as someone is at home? This is because rural people have lived in this place for generations. Old relatives, old friends and old neighbors all know each other, communicate with each other, help each other and have deep feelings. No one is on guard against anyone. I wake up every morning to see old relatives and friends and say hello to each other. The reason why people in the city close their doors every day, whether there is anyone at home or not. It's mainly the influence of the environment, so we have to do it. The main reason is that the urban population is more complicated. There are all kinds of thieves, models and criminals. They are the black sheep that endanger city residents. Don't say that the residents of a community are not familiar with each other, even the neighbors of a corridor don't know each other. No matter day or night, there are unmanned security doors at home, which have become the habit of urban people's safety precautions. This is why rural people's doors are open and urban people's doors are always closed.

Different ideologies give different connotations to the gate switches in cities and rural areas. City people close their doors to guard against theft, while country people open their doors to make a fortune. In their words, "Menna is rich in all aspects." Secondly, in rural areas, if the door is closed, it is considered to be working in the city or going out on business. What is even more frightening is that they are afraid to hear such unlucky words as "there is no one in this family". This is the connotation given by door-to-door switch in urban and rural areas. There is also a potential connotation: indifference. City people are closed to guard against theft and don't want to get in touch with people, so as not to cause trouble. The key is indifference, and there is a feeling of shutting people out. In addition to the subconscious mind of opening the door to collect money, it is more important that rural people are cheerful, warm and generous, like to make friends and like to walk around. The two doors of the city and the countryside reflect different life values and the current outlook on life, and also reflect the social background of step-by-step defense between people.

There is a world of difference between the countryside and the city. The countryside is a big family, and everyone in Fiona Fang knows it, especially village officials.

Rural people like to open the door and have a feeling of collecting money, because rural people have a living habit every morning.

I am willing to clean my own yard. Before cleaning the yard, I will open the door, then clean the yard and go out to clean the door again, so I will open the door.

The city doesn't know the door. If you open the door, you will attract unexpected guests.

My cousin lives in the countryside and has four bungalows in Beijing. Now only my cousin and my aunt live in this house.

My cousin and my cousin have moved out. Every morning, my cousin's first task is to open the gate, and the second task is to sweep the yard and clean the yard and the outside of the gate.

After cleaning the yard and outside the gate, I opened the gate and went back to my house to have a rest. My aunt started cooking. When the meal is ready, the old couple eat in the house and are ready to work in the fields after dinner.

Before going to work in the field, close the gate, don't lock it, just plug in the inner door. The purpose of this is to leave a convenient door for the children, otherwise the cousin will not be able to enter the house when he goes home.

Knowing this, every time I go to his house, if I find no one at home, I will open the door in the old way, and sometimes I can find something to eat myself when I am hungry.

The countryside is really convenient. If you want to eat side dishes, you can go to the garden and pull out a few. My own soy sauce is everywhere in the countryside, and it has a strong sauce flavor, because I am most willing to eat my cousin's soy sauce.

I remember once visiting my cousin's house. My cousin was not at home, so I went in. Just in time for noon. My stomach is growling, so I can't go to his kitchen to see what I must eat. After searching for half a pot of rice, I had to pull out an onion in the garden without vegetables. It's really delicious to eat rice with green onions dipped in sauce oil.

I am deeply touched by this question. My mother and father live in the city. Once I went home to see my parents and found a stranger chatting with my mother.

After I entered the room, the stranger greeted me and continued to talk to my mother. I listened carefully to what they said.

The stranger said that the telephone office is now engaged in activities. If you pay 200 yuan first, you can nail the annual telephone bill and reward two barrels of soybean oil. Pay the money before issuing the invoice, and take the ticket to the telephone office to get the soybean oil.

My mother heard that it was too cheap, and two barrels of soybean oil were worth at least 100, so she only paid the telephone bill of 100 a year, but my mother was very careful and only paid 100, but the staff of the electric power bureau agreed.

Paid 100, gave the bill, and waited to collect the soybean oil. After the toll collector left, I called the telephone office and asked if there were any workers who charged residents' telephone bills.

At that time, the telephone office gave me an answer, saying that they didn't have these activities at all, and they didn't send people to collect telephone charges at residents' homes. When I heard this, my heart sank. It seems that I was really cheated.

I told my mother the contents of the phone call. My mother said that when the door was open today, a man broke in. The man claimed to belong to the telephone office when he entered the room. Isn't this a scam?

I said that the liar is really smart. Even I let him fool me. It seems that the doors will have to be closed in the future. We really can't cope if we don't come in with strangers. This time, we just cheated you 100 yuan. If we knock you out, we'll have to take all the money.

Now it seems that the countryside is still good. Their neighbors know each other in the village. When strangers enter every farmer's house, their neighbors will help me look after the house, because when I go to my cousin's house, my cousin's neighbors will take the initiative to say hello to me, which means helping my cousin look after the house.

On the other hand, cities are different. When the door opens, it's the same as outside. People can enter the house anytime and anywhere, because the residents in the corridor are closed, and no one will look after the house for anyone, because the neighbors have no idea who entered a stranger, because the neighbors are strangers and never know each other.

Why do rural people like to leave the door open, while some city people always close it? what do you think?

People in rural areas are relatively simple, and they like to stroll around and chat. When you close the door, others don't want to come to your home, so you slowly cut off contact with the outside world and stop communicating with others. It's strange to see them.

Rural people, every family is the same You come to my vegetable field to pick a handful of vegetables, and I'll go to your place for dinner. It's a normal image, and I never care too much. Some people are very hospitable and take out their best dishes to greet guests, for fear of being slow to treat friends.

They are naturally familiar, smiling, simple and kind to their friends, and the door is always open for them. Many friends are good friends. They drink in large bowls and eat meat in large chunks, so everyone can eat whatever they want, unlike city people.

Why do city people like to build cars behind closed doors? Because they are stingy and there are wage earners at home. They don't want to make more friends with the people next to them, don't like to visit them, and don't like to have sex with their neighbors. They are afraid that the other party will find trouble, but they don't want to deal with them.

They live in a good environment, almost every family has money, and they don't want to participate in discussions, let alone make friends. Because they live in a good environment, they think they can go to Dont Ask For Help and don't want to deal with others. They are used to their own company and have only a few friends.

After living in the city for six years, some people don't talk much. Everyone is in their own home, and if they have something to say, they will come to you. Usually you don't come or leave, as if someone died and the next-door neighbor didn't come. Just go to work and chase it off.

People in the city are impersonal, and they will make friends with you only when they really need you. Under normal circumstances, they are basically staring at the sky and don't want to deal with you. If they really need you, they will try their best to make friends with you.

When Xiao Liu arrived in the city, people in the city, and his parents needed her care, came to recognize her brothers and sisters and said that they would be a family in the future. I hope that if she has any requirements, the family can understand and discuss with each other without saying a few words.

But after her parents left, people in that city left her alone. People who don't need it won't open the door, let alone make friends with you. They will only stay away from you, which is human nature and social reality.

People in rural areas and cities have different living environments, and of course their concepts and practices are different. The vast countryside has cultivated their simple personality characteristics, while people in cities are smart and care more.

"Why do people in rural areas like to open doors, while people in some cities always close them?" This statement is not accurate. The fact is that rural people open the door as long as there is someone at home, and all urban people always close the door, even if there is someone at home.

Why do rural people like to open doors? First of all, because rural people don't need to guard against people, they are surrounded by acquaintances. People have been neighbors all their lives, and people in the village come to see us while eating. You close the door, people think there is something wrong with your family. My mother-in-law lives on the roadside. Every time I have lunch, there are many people around the gate, chatting with rice bowls and eating, and your door can't be closed at all.

Second, rural people have no money and nothing of value at home, and they are not afraid of thieves stealing.

Third, people are everywhere in the countryside, and people come and go every day. Generally, no one dares to go in and steal.

Fourth, there are very few migrants in rural areas. Except for a few sellers, they are all known relatives, so the chance of losing things is very small.

Contrary to rural people, every household in the city is closed. Why?

The main reason is that the city is a society of strangers. Even the neighbors across the street don't know each other's background. Some neighbors have even lived opposite each other for decades, and they don't know each other's surname or what he does. Nobody's worried about who it is. Dare he open the door?

Second, the city is relatively rural, with a large foreign population and a high probability of crime, and no one dares to open the door.

Third, city people are rich and have a lot of furniture and home appliances. Whoever dares to open the door may lose something.

City people and rural people have completely different personalities and living habits, because they come from different worlds!

Cut to the chase. Beautiful scenery. Delicious food Don't panic when eating.

This is a portrayal of rural people's life. So rural people like to open the door.

Seek peace in busy work. Take time off from busy work. Carefree. Because the city is busy, it is difficult to be quiet. Only about the door, can be more comfortable.

Therefore, some people in the city like to close the door.

Rural and urban areas are two different fields, and their living habits are naturally different. Next, Zhao Yan's hometown will talk about this issue in detail.

We rural people like to leave the door open, because rural people and people are connected, and they are all villages composed of one family. There are no outsiders living in the village and the circle is simple.

Rural areas have the habit of visiting each other or borrowing farm tools. Opening the door is more convenient for people to communicate with each other. There is also the custom that rural people like to open their doors to meet wealth in all directions.

Cities are different. Every day except going to work, I just stay at home. People who live across the hall may not know each other. They all come from different places, and they don't know each other or are familiar with each other. The main reason for closing the door is to guard against theft.

This is the difference between rural areas and cities. Rural people don't have to be afraid of stealing when they open the door. They open it at dawn. Do you think what I said makes sense? Don't spray if you don't like it!