Why did Jonathan Lee and Sandy Lam divorce?

To ask why Jonathan Lee and Sandy Lam divorced, we should first understand their process from acquaintance to marriage to divorce.

The story begins with 1992. This year, Jonathan Lee and Sandy Lam collaborated for the first time, and wrote and sang the theme song When Love Is Past. Farewell My Concubine was a great success and won the Palme d 'Or in Cannes. When Love Is Past has become a popular classic. Then, Jonathan Lee produced her solo album "Don't care who I am" for Sandy Lam, and their relationship became closer and closer.

Zhang Aijia once said that there will be a subtle relationship between producers and singers. Singing in the recording studio always treats the man outside as an emotional sustenance through the glass. Over time, it is inevitable that there will be some inexplicable feelings. Sandy Lam is a practitioner of this sentence, and almost all her boyfriends are her music producers. And her love with Jonathan Lee was born in the studio.

Here comes the problem. At that time, Sandy Lam had already broken up with Wishing (also a great talent in music, who created the musical style of early urban mature women in Sandy Lam), and was single and in love. But Jonathan Lee married Zhu Weiyin, a Hong Kong DJ at 1988. How to bear the charge of extramarital affairs? Besides, he and Zhu Weiyin have two daughters, a family and a room. Although they have made new progress in love, their feelings are still deep, and divorce is not what they want to talk about.

After two years of struggle, Jonathan Lee held a farewell concert at 1994, and invited many singers including Sandy Lam as guests. This performance is a classic that cannot be ignored. Although there is no fame between them, what they want to say and their lingering feelings are clear on stage and off stage.

After the concert, Sandy Lam sold his property in Hongkong and went to Canada. Jonathan Lee immediately stopped his music activities in Hongkong and went to Canada. According to legend, Jonathan Lee's "Cold Wind Blows to You and Me" was written after he waited downstairs in Sandy Lam all night and failed to meet.

This separation without divorce lasted for two years. 1997, Zhu Weiyin and Jonathan Lee finally signed a divorce agreement. After a long tug-of-war, the two remained friends. Zhu Weiyin has never had a bad opinion of Sandy Lam involved in this marriage. It's just that it's easy for both sides of the divorce to play fifty boards, and I don't blame her.

1998, Sandy Lam and Jonathan Lee finally got married after knowing each other for six years, when Sandy Lam was pregnant. Later, she gave birth to a daughter named Li Xier, the third daughter of Jonathan Lee and the only daughter of Sandy Lam.

After marriage, Sandy Lam's career continued to flourish, but Jonathan Lee's career ran into a bottleneck after she terminated her contract with Rolling Stone magazine in 2000. Sandy Lam developed in Hongkong, and Jonathan Lee made albums for other singers in Taiwan Province. After a period of separation, their relationship became problematic. In order to ease the situation, Jonathan Lee followed Sandy Lam to live in Shanghai. But Jonathan Lee has no friends and no job in Shanghai, and his life is very depressing. Sandy Lam often flies to Hong Kong to perform, but the relationship between them has deteriorated rather than eased.

Some people say that Sandy Lam is a typical "queen loves talents". Her man doesn't need to be handsome or rich, but he must be talented and have a tacit understanding with her in music. At the beginning, it was because Jonathan Lee had a * * sound with her in music that she took the blame of a third party and had no regrets. But in the later period, they obviously lost the tacit understanding in music. Since 2000, Sandy Lam has been very angry, and there are no Jonathan Lee songs in the album. She is no longer satisfied with being an urban cynic packaged by Jonathan Lee, but wants to explore a bigger proposition. Jonathan Lee has been unable to keep up with her footsteps. Sandy Lam is a person who closely connects love and career. Her successive boyfriends, including today's Jun Kung, have worked closely with her in music. In this way, career differences lead to differences in life, and divorce is an inevitable result.

Finally, in July 2004, Jonathan Lee and Sandy Lam issued divorce statements respectively, announcing the end of this vigorous musical love. This story, first vigorous and full of accusations, then stable and sweet, daily necessities, and finally relatively silent, parted ways, is also worthy of shame. However, the encounter between Jonathan Lee and Sandy Lam left many classic works for China's music. In retrospect, perhaps their first collaboration, When Love Is Past, has already shown the ending:

Not to mention the past, life has been stormy, even if the memory can not be erased, love and hate are still in my heart. ...