Junior three boys don't sleep in the middle of the night every day, talking to themselves, swearing in emotional places, and hitting the bed or wall with their fists. Asked him what was wrong, he said

Junior three boys don't sleep in the middle of the night every day, talking to themselves, swearing in emotional places, and hitting the bed or wall with their fists. Asked him what was wrong, he said, nothing. Don't worry. In fact, the boys in grade three are almost 15 years old, and boys of this age have entered two stages in this era. 1 is the rebellious period of teenagers. The second stage is the embryonic stage of youth emotion. There is also an external realistic factor, that is, the children in grade three face the pressure of study and life, and the psychological burden here is great.

In the fourth aspect, children at this stage will also have communication barriers with their parents.

Don't go to bed in the middle of the night, don't talk to yourself, don't swear in an emotional place, and don't hit the window or wall with your fist. From this phenomenon, we can draw the following conclusions.

First, there is a lack of good communication environment between you and your children.

Secondly, you don't pay enough attention to the emotional problems of ordinary children at school.

Third, the reason for this situation should not come from the pressure of study, but from the emotional problems of life and this stage.

He tells you nothing, and you can get the following points behind it.

First, although you are related to relatives here, with the growth of your child, you have little sense of security in his heart.

Second, the way and idea of dealing with problems in his mind are quite contradictory. Whether he swears, hits the bed or hits the wall, it is just the external expression of his inner thoughts. Behind this kind of behavior is to prove that he has many ideas in his heart, and there is a major conflict between the two ideas. Under this conflict, he can't make a good choice in time.

The other is the problem he is currently encountering. At present, his cognition of things is not enough for him to calmly digest, decompose and deal with problems.

Note that you can try to go to school to learn about students' life and study in school, and let teachers know about their recent performance in school and the problems in getting along with classmates. More importantly, when you come back from your holiday, you should find suitable opportunities to communicate with your peers, and even take them out for a walk to get to know his real thoughts through the atmosphere.