What is a good home?

I didn't know why white people changed before, but quietly changed at a certain moment, becoming excellent people and bad people. Later, I listened to the course about the self-taught exam. The teacher said: everything is changing now, and the same is changing. Slowly, I understand that everything will change, get better and get worse.

I didn't understand why he suddenly didn't care so much about me when I was in love. Why become so cold? Why doesn't the message come back in seconds? Because it's changing. In the choice, he chose change to make this relationship more comfortable and worry-free, so he wants to change and can change.

Some time ago, my mother called me and introduced me to a boy through her friend. Mainly because I don't want to marry someone who is far away from my choice. The boy introduced is excellent, only two years older than me, has his own career and property, and has a harmonious family. His mother even said that if she married in the past, she would take care of her wholeheartedly and would not let herself suffer, as long as they lived well. Mainly because it is close to home, it can make the family feel at ease and it is convenient to go back to their parents' home. I know what family means. Faced with such conditions, many boys will hesitate to choose, compare and choose the one that suits them best, just like a passage in Beijing women's picture books: everyone wants to pay less and get more. Faced with such conditions, if I choose to change, give up my satisfactory love now, round my dream at home and give myself a better home, I won't need to float in Guangzhou like this. It is estimated that everyone will be full of happiness.

But why did you choose to stay in Guangzhou? Why did you choose to talk to your current boyfriend about the present? Because it is what you really want, it is your choice, and it is your responsibility to be right or wrong. Choose your own firmness and be practical in your heart. Later, I insisted on convincing my mother that my life is very good now and I don't need such a family to liberate myself. If I choose to help the man's career and marry him, so can my current boyfriend, and I can also choose his family's career. He asked me for help when we first got together, but I didn't go, but I didn't want to link all the interests of career, life and love before I got married. I might be happier alone. My mother said silently, I hope you can think about it. After all, girls get married. Choose a good home, and it won't be so bitter. ......

I understand my mother's intentions and pains, and her actions are firm in my choice. That's because I understand that I don't like attachment and clingy, and high marriage can't solve everything in life. I care more about the fit, personality, respect and purity of the two. Even if I make a wrong choice one day, I won't blame others and bear the disappointment caused by my choice.

Home, what I long for is the mutual appreciation of two people, which will never change. It's not about external conditions.