Anjie property

First, I realized that Gao was a soldier. He has the qualities of a soldier, a high political consciousness and a down-to-earth personality, which is his bright spot. In order to marry the woman he wants, he doesn't care about her family background and social composition. In order to get the leader to agree to this marriage with Angie, he willingly gave up an important promotion opportunity. In order not to make Angie sad and think too much, he kept it from Angie after marriage. It was not until later that Angie learned the truth from others. To alleviate her sadness, Jiang Defu would say softly, "Angie, thank you, really, thank you for giving me such a good day."

In a short sentence, Angie's sadness was resolved. In such an atmosphere, Anjie also cried and said, "I thank you, too."

It can be said that Jiang Defu has brought positive feelings to Anjie. During his long marriage, he never complained about Angie. He just silently became Anjie's husband, not taking himself as a leader, and silently paying behind Anjie, just as Anjie once asked him, "If one day others embarrass me because of my identity, will you protect me like a child?"

Although Jiang Defu didn't answer this question, his subsequent actions indicated that he would.

It is such a warm Jiang Defu that makes white-haired Anjie say that he has lived a happy life.

Second: Jiang Defu's sense of responsibility is also reflected in his composure. Before he married Angie, he still had a marriage. In this marriage, he was betrayed, and his ex-wife stayed with his brother, which is a huge scandal in the countryside and can destroy a family. In order to keep the reputation of the family, and for the sake of others in the family, Jiang Defu divorced and took the fault of marriage on herself. He bore the reputation of a family, and even later, the children born to his ex-wife and brother found him. Even if it is not his own child, he can still keep this son from Angie.

He endured Angie's reproach and complaint, and Angie's cold war. There are so many contradictions between them, but he can still shoulder the reputation of his family. This is a man's mind, the overall concept and the courage to take responsibility.

Third: He will coordinate the relationship between aunt and sister-in-law. In Angie's eyes, he is a reliable husband. After the marriage, because of Anjie's family composition, she had many concerns in her heart. Even though her own sister lives in a remote island, she dare not take a look, but Jiang Defu will persuade her and support her to visit her sister.

Anjie's niece wants to join the army, but the identity problem has become the biggest obstacle. Jiang Defu will help her join the army. When Angie and his sister have conflicts, he will adjust and ease their relationship, mainly in front of Angie, and it is not easy to tell her about her sister's life. At the same time, he will tell his sister that Anjie is your sister-in-law and you should respect her.

Fourth, treat children with care. He is a father who stands like a mountain. He and Angie have five children, three men and two women. The last five children have a bright future and a happy life, which has a lot to do with Jiang Defu. Because of his influence, three of the five children joined the army and became a member of the army. The youngest daughter married a soldier. Although a child runs a teahouse, his father's influence on him is also reflected in all aspects of life.

Jiang Defu will encourage children to do what they want. When the eldest son joined the army, he took him to target shooting. In order to leave a souvenir for the eldest son who joined the army, he will be taken to take a family photo.

He is a competent father and an indomitable father. He edifies the next generation with his good character.

His composure and sense of responsibility contributed to this happy marriage. However, in the real society, there are too many irresponsible men, so Jiang Defu's character is particularly precious.

23-year-old Xiaoru divorced after less than two years of marriage. The root cause is that the man is too irresponsible. As a man, I can't bear the burden of a family at all, and I don't bear my own responsibilities.

Every day Xiaoru returns to her messy home, which is the beginning of her emotional breakdown. She cooks and cleans up the housework, and she is also responsible for paying utilities and property management fees on weekends. Her husband was never there when the old people on both sides were sick, and her husband was busy playing games when she was sick. In this family, the husband has not done his duty at all.

In this way, Xiaoru couldn't bear it anymore and ended the marriage.

Not every woman can meet Jiang Defu who makes her happy all her life like Angie. In today's free love, women should try to find a responsible man who can shoulder the family as a life partner.

What kind of man you marry is what kind of life you live, and marrying an irresponsible man is trying. Marry a man with indomitable spirit, and you can live a happy little woman.