Dig into the "workplace dinner" ... people in the workplace must watch it!

Eating is a simple matter, but it has suddenly become a kind of politics by China people. For social interaction, eating is the biggest politics, and for workplace interaction, eating is the core of workplace politics.

Whether you want to have sex, talk business or make friends, you usually start with eating. The fact that a group of people eat has been endowed with political attributes from the beginning. Since it is politics, you have to understand politics, otherwise you can't get a raise and promotion, and you can only wander outside the law. Since I first entered the workplace, I have been having dinner with various bosses, including * * * leaders, and I have also gained some experience. But what I said may not be all right. I should refer to it.

Type of dinner party

The company's daily meals

Internal company dinners are usually initiated by the boss or department boss. In principle, it is a formal working meal, which does not need to reflect the relationship between host and guest, and the atmosphere is relaxed and humorous. However, we should always realize that as long as the people in the company are together, no matter what you do, even if you go to Dongguan collectively, you can't relax your nerve, so you should always be alert to your words and deeds.

Company special purpose dinner

The special purpose is to welcome new employees, send away old employees, celebrate banquets after reaching certain goals within the company, and so on. Generally speaking, the object and organizer of special purpose are the host of dinner, which should reflect the distinction between host and guest.

Have dinner with a client

Dinner with customers is the most complicated and difficult situation to deal with. Generally speaking, the dinner for customers, no matter whether the items after dinner are bars, KTV or big health care, should be arranged according to the importance of customers, the progress of signing bills, the attributes of customer representatives and so on. Generally speaking, it is necessary to arrange the department boss and the direct business docking person to accompany the bureau.

Dine alone with the boss or boss.

Generally speaking, the more opportunities you have to eat alone with your boss or boss, the better. This shows that you are valued, even your own. Either appreciate the salary or wait for the hidden rules. Remember at this time, don't talk nonsense, don't talk behind people's backs, the boss needs gossip, but he definitely doesn't like people who are too keen on spreading gossip.

Private dinner with colleagues

This kind of dinner is the most dangerous. Always remind yourself not to talk nonsense, don't talk about bosses and colleagues who didn't attend the dinner, and don't spit out the business details of the company. The more innocuous things you say, the better, and the less important things you say, the better. There is no one in the world who doesn't take a message.

Industry dinner

A group of colleagues sat down to have a meal, and the organizer hosted it and talked about the industry. It was good. But there will be many hidden barriers. For example, if you want to know the business and financial situation of your company, you can say it at will, but you just can't tell the truth. The best answer is to effectively bypass it.

Job hunting dinner

Sometimes the interview will be arranged as a dinner, and the interview will be held while eating. At this time, it is natural to be generous and relaxed. Don't speak ill of the former boss too much, and don't disclose the specific information of the former boss too much. Simply put it in the right place. Also, no matter what the other person tells you, don't drink it.

Precautions for dinner

The essence of dinner party

-Is dinner really for eating? Of course not. If you want to eat ABCDEFG, you can find your own place to eat at the weekend.

-Eating is just a means to connect feelings and bring relationships closer. It really doesn't matter where you eat, what matters is who you eat and what you talk about. Therefore, some brothers and sisters are particularly obsessed with what to eat. I think, as long as it is not eating shit, as long as it is not eating, it is allergic or can't eat spicy food. It really doesn't matter what you eat.

Pay more attention to the people who eat, not the food. Pay as much attention as possible to what everyone is talking about, what you should say and do.

The purpose of dinner

It is important to predict the purpose of the other party's treat. The purpose of dinner must be clear, there is no way, life is full of pits.

For example, sometimes someone invites the author to dinner, I misjudge or the other party hides the purpose of the dinner. As a result, not long after eating, various administrative orders let you do this and that, and the tone is like red tape. People who eat short mouths are too much trouble.

At the same time, when you entertain others, try to simply convey the participants and the purpose of the dinner to each other. This is the most basic respect.

Dress up for dinner.

-If you go directly to socialize on weekdays, there is nothing to say, just wear what you wear.

-If you have enough time, you should be well prepared. At least you should dress in the same style as the people attending the dinner party imagined. Try not to let everyone wear shorts and slippers. You should wear a suit and tie. Everyone will wear shorts and slippers.

The place for dinner

Generally speaking, if it is a place suggested or designated by the customer, it's settled.

-If it is a meal in other scenes, as a participant, you can propose a compromise plan.

As the organizer of the dinner party, try to avoid traffic jams and make parking convenient, and try to choose places with developed traffic such as subway stations. If you have a car, you should consider not having a car. If you don't have a car, you should also consider having a car. And don't selfishly set the New Year's Eve dinner near your home, it has no future. Unless you are a local tyrant.

It is also important to choose the location. Whether you are eating with customers, colleagues or colleagues, try to choose restaurants with fewer colleagues and colleagues. If it really doesn't work, try to choose a private room. It's not just an idiom that walls have ears.

Dinner time

-Dinner time should be set to avoid overtime hours, off-duty peak hours and recognized time periods of participants.

Seats for dinner

-In China culture, sitting east facing west and sitting north facing south is generally respected, so when the guest and the host take their seats in turn, they should take the initiative to give up the theme.

-if there is no east position, give up the north position. The second person in the team sat face to face with the boss.

The level of dinner

-You can arrange a map of local specialties and arrange it according to different banquet objects.

-If you are inviting bosses and important customers, the level should be high, but as long as it is higher than sincerity, it should not be too high. The quota is 300 per capita. If it is too high, the other party will have pressure.

-If it's a bribe, please invite the most famous and expensive one in the area.

-The scores of various forms among colleagues are random. The general team boss came to listen to everyone's suggestions, and finally he came to democratic centralism.

-sometimes the relationship with each other is good to a certain extent, and the delicacy and characteristics of the food are better than the so-called grade.

Words and deeds of social intercourse

-Try not to play with your mobile phone while eating, except for important phone calls and text messages.

-Try not to play with mobile phones, especially when eating with customers, colleagues and bosses.

-at the same time, talk more, but don't say too much, don't say too much, stop here.

-If you are a boss or leader, you should pay more attention to whether your subordinates are full and like too much food or drink.

-If you are a subordinate, you should pay more attention to the leaders and customers, pour wine and tea frequently, hand in paper towels at critical moments, and do a good job of blinking. If you can't even reach this basic quality, just play with your mobile phone and eat by yourself. It's really free to eat.

-Last one, don't drink too much. The so-called wine is a thing that doesn't exist at all. Don't rigidly associate it with personality. That is to say, if you drink too much, there is no need to pay attention to authenticity. Just drink it. In fact, everyone hates people who drink too much at every meal, especially those who have a lot of things after drinking too much. In addition to leadership.

-don't trust others' promises on the wine table, and don't make promises when you are excited.

Blink at dinner.

Blinking, that is, eyesight, is to understand your role, what you should do, and don't patronize yourself. When serving, you should wait for the important person to pick up the food first, or at least wait for the boss to move the chopsticks first. Pour wine, tea and paper towels, not to mention that.

In short, after dinner, we should carefully observe everyone's state and needs, and do the right things at the right time, which gives people the feeling of being careful and caring, not flattering.

Dinner is over.

The end of the meal is also very learned. You shouldn't rush home after it's over. You should know what your role is and what to do next.

First of all, you should accurately understand everyone's mood and end the dinner at the right time.

Secondly, after the dinner, give priority to those who have drunk too much, and the leaders will go first. Not home, of course, but in the car. If you are really drunk, you should take it home.

Then, say hello to the person with the farthest road and send them to the car to go home. Finally, it is you.

-You didn't finish it when you got home. You should at least ask people whether it is safe to go home through WeChat. In this way, the whole dinner ended perfectly.

Don't reveal important meals at will.

If the boss or boss treats you alone, there must be his reasons, so don't let many people know.

Keep a low profile when eating with customers, unless you want the whole world to rob your customers.

Try to make peace with your peers at dinner, and don't be caught by the enemy. In fact, everyone has potential enemies.

-without the consent of the host and participants, you can't take photos and send friends. If you must send it, don't just look at yourself. Everyone else is very photogenic. Why do you love being a red flower so much? Others are your green leaves.

About ordering food

-Ordering is a great philosophy. There are two kinds of dictatorship and democracy. If it is an important goal, it can be dictatorship. If it is a relatively relaxed scene, it can make everyone feel very free.

-If you know clearly that it is the autocratic mode of the host, he will politely ask you that your best choice is casual, and then tell the other party that I don't eat anything. Otherwise, it is not to charge more, but to charge less and lose face.

As a host, to give everyone a chance to eat, at least ask what you eat.

As a host, you should know roughly where the people at the dinner table are from, how they taste, whether they are spicy or not, and what dishes are basically embryos.

-if it is a democratic model that everyone chooses at will. As a orderer, you can't patronize what I want to eat. A group of people order food, which is the greatest common denominator that they and everyone like, and should mainly miss everyone. Generally speaking, this dish with the greatest common divisor is served faster. Order a side dish, eat a few mouthfuls by yourself, and no one touches it, leaving a big lump, but the operator will feel pity.

-the main course, that is, the finale, should be ordered by the operator.

About toasting

It's not your turn before the boss and the boss propose a toast. Unless you are the star of the dinner party.

-Don't try to drink it all at once when toasting. It's cool for you. Where are the others? It depends on the boss, customers or key people. If they can drink and are still drinking, then you can finish your toast in one gulp. If they can't drink, take a sip, so everyone can come to Taiwan Province. About abstinence

-If your boss or client explicitly points out or implies, you can give up drinking, otherwise don't volunteer.

-If the other person is a sister who can't drink, forget it.

About persuading wine

-persuasion is a very annoying thing, at least don't persuade the wrong person. Don't force girls who can't drink and people who are allergic to alcohol to drink.

-There is always a reason why the other person doesn't want to drink, either driving, allergic or not feeling in place. Whatever the reason, it is objective and legitimate and cannot be forced.

-clearly understand whether the relationship between yourself and the other party is familiar enough to make jokes by persuading people to drink, clearly understand the objects that should not be persuaded, and clearly understand the frequency and methods of persuading people to drink. Summary: This article is very simple, but few people can do it. The simpler it is, the harder it is to do it well. Do you like this article? Share it if you like! Show it to more people!

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