Is the book Tomb of College Students really good? Our teacher recommended it in class, but I can't see it in our library.

Dear gods, let me answer a complete preface to let you know about this book.

The preface of this book.

Why is it called "College Students' Tomb"?

Everyone who has been to college knows that many college students are confused, decadent, degenerate or blindly feel good about themselves, and their thoughts, spirits, beliefs and future competitiveness have all entered the grave.

The purpose of this book is to uncover the graves of these thoughts, spirits and beliefs.

Anyone who has studied in college knows that there are two cancers on college students: one is confusion and the other is decadence. The former is benign and the latter is malignant.

Confusion is a benign tumor.

Compared with people who are not motivated, confusion is a state where they want to work hard but have nowhere to start. Sadness in my heart is greater than death. If the heart is immortal, there is still salvation. Confused people have several manifestations, either because they are confused, so they have no motivation, just like mud. Either because you are confused and can't find the direction, just like a monkey, follow the trend and do what others do; Otherwise, you will blindly try to take detours and suffer from blindness in postgraduate entrance examination, English madness, sequelae of college entrance examination, self-study stupidity, academic research madness, castration of business consciousness and so on. Some people with mild poisoning have begun to doubt whether they are doing this right, but some people with deep poisoning have been walking on his "single-plank bridge" until their death. For such a person, I can only say earnestly: "Brother, it's almost the same to work hard.

There are many reasons for confusion: first, there is a lack of clear goals after the college entrance examination, which means that high school is not confused because of clear goals, that is, it is admitted to universities by spelling scores, and there are too many ways out for universities, so many people have no goals; Second, many people lack the ability to think independently and are used to being arranged. In other words, high school is not confused because the curriculum is compact, teachers will constantly take out materials to feed students, and students do not need to think about things, so they will not feel confused. But when I arrived at the university, no one had enough to eat and no one arranged the details, which made many people who had no thoughts and were used to being arranged very confused. Third, the influence of social pluralistic values, in high school, good grades may be success, but the success criteria of universities and society are diverse, and good grades may be respected, but they have many talents, strong activity ability, strong ability to create wealth and high academic performance. It is also the pursuit of many people. Under the condition of insufficient self-awareness and narrow information, college students are at a loss and don't know what to choose. There are many reasons for the confusion, such as the influence of some old ideas of the previous generation, so I won't list them here.

Decadence is a malignant tumor.

Decadent people have no spiritual beliefs, let alone ideals and enterprising spirit. Such a person will either become a game god of war, a soap opera princess who sleeps at home, or a fallen condor hero. They are not only decadent and empty, but also like to say negative things to discourage others. Malignant and decaying tumors are not only recurrent, but also highly contagious. Many self-motivated people have been dragged down by such cancer patients.

I give hundreds of lectures in universities all over the country every year. I have studied in universities for many years and have a better understanding of the problems of college students. If I feel sorry when I see a large number of decadent college students, I feel even more distressed when I see those who work blindly on the wrong road. When I encounter these scenes, this feeling is even stronger.

When I saw some college students with no family background and social relations, holding that little-known university diploma and carrying that poor resume, I was wondering why, after four years in the same university, others became strong, but you became weak.

When I see people who can only recite questions, do research and spell results, but can't even solve a very simple problem, I wonder, what ruined your thinking ability?

When I saw that many people had studied for so many years that they couldn't even explain themselves clearly, I was thinking, what made college students lose their ability to express themselves?

When I saw some graduate students with dull eyes and dead faces, I thought, if you study like this, even if you have higher education and stronger ability, what is the meaning of life?

When I saw many people emailing me to tell me about his confusion, poverty, loneliness and inferiority in college, I was thinking, isn't a teacher just "preaching and teaching to solve doubts"? Why didn't anyone answer your question and teach you how to stand on your own feet? What deprived you of your self-confidence and made you so lonely in the bustling campus?

Therefore, I wrote this book, specifically refuting the pedantic ideas and old ideas that make you work hard and take detours blindly. At the same time, it also makes you know yourself, the world, who you are and what you want. Then I hope that aspiring people will live clearly from today!

Almost all the detours that college students have taken, I have gone through: confusion, poverty, lovelorn, inferiority, introverted timidity, poor interpersonal relationship, poor expression ability, degraded surrounding environment, wrong major, wrong postgraduate entrance examination, wrong company ... but after all my efforts, I survived. But I found that there are still many people who are puzzled by my confusion, poverty, inferiority and pain, so I want to reach out and help the later people, so I founded soft power education.

But I also found that although I have to give hundreds of lectures every year, I often run around, tired and thirsty, but I still get many such emails, "Why don't you come to our school to give a speech?" "I didn't listen to your lecture until the third year of high school, so I envy their freshman year." So I think I should write a book to share my failure experience with you on a larger scale, so that those who make progress can make fewer detours. In order to let more people read this book before school starts, I spend more than ten hours typing on the computer every summer vacation. I'm unkempt and my eyes are swollen. Because of mental stress, I never sleep at night.

Of course, because of my personality (everyone who has heard my speech calls me Brother Sharp), the views in the book are still sharp. Numerous lectures have proved that there are two sharp results: one is to make most people applaud, and the other is to make a few people become angry from embarrassment.

But I think it's not a bad thing to arouse some people's cynicism. Active thinking and conflicting views will promote people's awakening and social progress. Of course, if you ask me to write something objective and fair like the leadership report, I can also write it, and then you lose your temper and get nothing.

People who are a little more mature know that those who scold you are not necessarily bad people, and those who praise you are not necessarily good people; The person who makes you cry is not necessarily a bad person, and the person who makes you laugh is not necessarily a good person. In the same way, my harsh voice, words that make you look less affectionate, and some truths that everyone knows but is inconvenient to say don't necessarily make you uncomfortable.

Some students told me that many teachers only praised students, and then those students didn't know who they were, but you restored your true self in a sincere way.

This book is not written for people who are naive and gossip, so there are not many beautiful pictures and emotional diaries in it; This book is not written for decadent people, because decadent people can't read books; This book is mainly written for those who are self-motivated but may be a little confused or have other problems. To those who have been trying to change their destiny, because such people are my own kind and I love them!

Introduction of works

Since the publication of Liu's book "The Tomb of College Students" on 20 1 1, it has aroused widespread concern in society, especially among college students.

This book is not a boring sermon, much less an ordinary success and inspiration. He just used his critical thinking and sharp language to analyze the confusion and decadence of modern college students and gave appropriate guidance. As commented by Huaxia Publishing House, his works will promote contemporary educators to think deeply and play a great role in promoting the construction of the style of study in contemporary universities.