The influence of family environment on work

The influence of family on personal career planning is not simply that parents or elders have expectations and restrictions on themselves. Many examples show that some visitors deliberately go against their parents' wishes and choose a career path that runs counter to "orthodoxy". As a result, the work I did neither satisfied my parents' wishes nor satisfied myself.

Li Chunxiao grew up in a traditional family with very conservative parents. Their conservative mentality includes that women should be good wives and mothers, maintain family harmony and be obedient to their husbands. In Li Chunxiao's view, the role she wants to play has been stereotyped as "assistant wife". Li Chunxiao doesn't like it very much. Her countermeasure is to take a job that requires all her energy and time. This job freed her from the shackles imposed on her by her parents, and her salary was very high. However, in order to maintain this situation, she had to be at the mercy of her boss. Li Chunxiao didn't become an assistant's wife, but she didn't like her job. Subtle family psychology has hindered her career planning.

Family has different influences on personal career planning. Some people are led to compete with their parents, while others try to make up for their parents' failure.

As for the influence of family environment on individuals, I think one more point should be added to the above views, that is, age. In childhood, people are not perfect in thinking, cognition and personality. And they are undoubtedly totally dependent on their families in material and spiritual aspects, so the family environment will have a great influence on their personal growth; However, with the increase of age, the enhancement of subjective consciousness and the contact with social environment, the influence of family environment on individuals will gradually weaken, but it cannot be completely offset. In short, the family environment is good or bad, big or small, and it varies from person to person.