Is it difficult to find an all-inclusive job in first-tier cities?

How are you doing now that you have left the first-tier cities?

Have you ever been anxious about the depression of its life, wandering in the prosperity of its city, wandering in the first and second lines?

If you have feelings, please leave your story or feelings in the comments section.

You will find that you are not alone.

Today's story comes from a girl in Northeast China.

When I first talked about this topic, she gave me a simple but negative answer: terrible.

0 1 I bid farewell to Shenzhen

Because my home is in Harbin, the winter is long and it is too cold. So when I was looking for an internship, I chose Shenzhen, a southern city, to feel the spring, summer, autumn and winter here.

When I came, I made a decisive decision, and with little hesitation, I dragged my luggage and flew over.

Shortly after I started my first job: customer service of e-commerce, including accommodation, often working overtime, which is very stressful.

The stormy mood at that time is nothing special in retrospect. But after crying in the middle of the night several times, I experienced the embarrassment of sharing a room and went to several places.

For Shenzhen, I still have a wonderful vision.

I like winter here.

Originally, I planned to bring my parents over for the winter during the Spring Festival. If I don't succeed, I will bid farewell to Shenzhen.

My parents are old, so I shouldn't travel far.

In fact, it's a very life-oriented reason: my parents are old, so I shouldn't travel far.

I lost the courage to take root in Shenzhen. Because I need time to be full-fledged, and my parents don't have to wait for me.

Shenzhen is a very good place. It's like a dream to me. I am looking forward to it. I was struggling during the time when I was about to leave Shenzhen, and I was struggling with my life every day.

I even told my friends: I feel my life is over.

Family factors and inner restlessness keep me in the dark.

In my early twenties, I don't want to believe the "standard answer" provided by others, and I don't have much ability to give myself an answer. I am in a mess all day, so I can only find a gap in the pressure and let myself catch my breath with a short escape.

At that time, I had a stupid idea: staying in Shenzhen for two or three years is no different from going home immediately after graduation, because I will go home after all.

So I finally decided to leave the company.

Four and a half months of wandering

I didn't go home immediately after I left my job.

I felt very free at that time, and going home was a depressing choice. So I contacted the tourist volunteers online and bought a train ticket to Lhasa, which took 52 hours and 34 minutes.

I have been wandering for four and a half months since Lhasa. It took three and a half months to travel more than half of Tibet, and it took 1 month from Nepal to Thailand.

These four months are condensed into two words: freedom! People get along straightforward and simple, and the natural environment is pure and vast.

When I'm not playing outside, I volunteer at the inn. I was at the inn at first, and then I happened to go to the front desk.

In two months, I earned 5000 yuan.

Arrive at 8 am 12 am and rest. I have a lot of time to go out to play.

The more time you play, the faster you spend money. The consumption in Lhasa is comparable to that in Shenzhen. Any take-away food costs 30+ and a cup of yak milk in paper cups and 5 yuan.

Finally, the money was spent and the matter of going home was put on the agenda.

I don't have the strength to find another job.

Although my parents didn't rush me, they were still very happy when I came home.

"Finally back, hurry to find a job!"

When I returned to Harbin, it was 20 165438+20081October, and I immediately started looking for a job.

I found a travel agency for my first job. Because I don't have a tour guide card, I am going to make a plan (arrange the tour route and contact the hotel &; Hotel) work.

The reply of the travel agency is: 996, with a monthly salary of 2,500.

As soon as I came back from the waves outside, I decisively refused.

The second job is to find a sales position in an educational institution, and I want to save the country from the market position and enter the education industry through the curve. As a result, people still dislike me! Yes! Wolf! Sex!

Then a friend introduced me to a newspaper office as an unpaid intern, and I will become a regular employee in 3-6 months.

Everyone in the newspaper knows that the industry is depressed, and I resigned after only two and a half months. I can't see the future, because the institutional atmosphere is strong and the leaders are not enlightened.

Then, in mid-March, I went to an institution that did interview training for civil servants. I thought I could pass this springboard and eventually become a teacher.

As a result, I was assessed for half a month, and the boss said, I don't think you can stay with me for long. Let's go

I was badly cheated by this institution. During the interview, I said I wanted to be a teacher. The boss said: you are with me, you can't take the teacher qualification exam for three years, and you can't be a teacher. I said yes.

Results Tell me after the training: Your future plan is inconsistent with our organization.

After finishing these three jobs, I have no strength to find another job. I don't even want to see the sun tomorrow.

05 road ahead confused

My parents have a better attitude than me: "It's no big deal. It's normal to feel frustrated. Just find another one. "

Unfortunately, I don't have such wisdom in my life. I just feel extremely disappointed, to the world and to myself; I don't know who I am, where I am and what I can do.

After being "beaten" by the society, I began to chew at home.

The peers around me choose to open a shop, open a psychological counseling agency and go to the hospital as a doctor and nurse. ......

There are still many people in the system.

I have experienced freedom and can't adapt to the environment within the system at all. If I can't enter the system, my parents will judge that I don't have a stable job.

I became a particularly unhappy person.

Recalling what I said in Shenzhen: I feel that my life is over.

I want to correct that I have four months before my life ends.

My working experience in Shenzhen has had a great impact on my life. The office environment of internet companies is very simple, and the collision at work has always been a fact.

I have never felt the meaning of "calling a spade a spade" before.

Therefore, I reject the system. Even if I find a job at home, I still don't want to go this way.

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