Gone with the Wind: A love affair that missed you and me by mistake.

The most touching love in Gone with the Wind belongs to Rhett and Scarlett.

At the beginning of the novel, Rhett is a bachelor with insight into the world, and Scarlett is a proud girl who loves Ashley wholeheartedly. These two people are not a good match, but Rhett, who has read countless women, is fascinated by this vain and unpopular woman for a long time.

Scarlett is really beautiful, but Rhett is so handsome and rich. If he wants to, he will catch a lot of beautiful women, and whether Scarlett is in distress or pregnant, her appearance is certainly not much better at this moment. Rhett's love for Scarlett never waned.

It can be seen that his love for Scarlett is not only because of her beauty, but also because of her blindness and unknown so. It is the kind of rational love that persists regardless of Scarlett's unruly temperament and selfish heart.

What qualities in Scarlett attract Rhett the most?

1, dare to love and hate, not afraid of the secular

The first time I met Scarlett was at a party at Twelve Oaks Manor, where Rhett and his business partner came by accident.

At that time, on the eve of the American Civil War, men were excited about the coming war.

Rhett knows the gap between the north and the south because he has been shuttling through the blockade for gold all the year round. From the beginning, he knew that the backward south would face the failure of the war, so he held a negative attitude towards the war.

In the completely unfamiliar environment of Twelve Oaks, Rhett, who has always had a bad reputation, was soon isolated again, because his remarks that "the South will fail" were incompatible with the revolutionary enthusiasm of men here.

At this time, a girl with green eyes, eye-catching appearance and fashionable clothes aroused his strong interest. She was charming, charming and shy, and the light waves flowed around her, leaving the youngest man at the party.

She winks at every man and says flirtatious words, but she obviously doesn't care about wine. Obviously, her attention is not on these people, but she feels uneasy and uncomfortable.

Rhett watched and admired with interest, wondering what medicine was sold in the gourd of this woman who likes to attract bees and butterflies. It was not until I witnessed Scarlett's unsuccessful proposal that Ashley fell into a vase in a rage, and Barrett realized the meaning behind Scarlett's gesture to all the men under the tree just now.

At this point, this brave and bold pursuit of love, which is absolutely different from those reserved southern ladies and celebrities, is deeply imprinted in Rhett's mind.

Unfortunately, Scarlett saw that the pursuit of love ended in vain and married herself quickly and rashly in a rage. Soon became a widow.

At a charity ball in Atlanta, Rhett and Scarlett meet again to raise money for the war. At this time, Scarlett was dressed in black mourning, but this did not stop the elves in her body who were ready to dance.

Everyone thought that Rhett invited Scarlett to dance, but Scarlett stood up without fear and accepted Rhett's invitation to dance with Rhett in a group of frightened eyes, which made Rhett have a good impression on Scarlett again.

2. Be brave and keep your promise.

Scarlett has been living with her sister-in-law and Ashley's lover Melanie since she was widowed. Ashley came back to visit relatives and asked Scarlett to take care of Melanie, who was pregnant and always weak.

Scarlett didn't get the love she longed for in Ashley, but she was given such a heavy burden. In order to love Ashley deeply and trust her, Scarlett had to accept it.

Atlanta fell, smoke and gunfire were everywhere, and everyone who could escape fled.

Melanie is about to give birth, but the situation outside is tense for a while. Scarlett was tired of shuttling through the chaotic crowd, but she couldn't find a doctor to deliver Melanie. Melanie's condition became more and more dangerous, and Scarlett had to deliver the baby herself.

In this case, everyone is taking care of themselves, even Melanie's menstruation and Ashley's sister have long since fled without a trace, and Scarlett, who has always been selfish, can only walk away and leave this mess alone. But since she promised Ashley, she made up her mind to keep her promise. They must also run away. Scarlett faces people who need her protection, her youngest son, Melanie and her baby, and a maid who is not very clever.

She had to ask the maid to ask Rhett for help. Rhett stole a carriage for her and took them through dangerous Atlanta. On the way to Tara, she decided to join the army again. Scarlett had to shoulder the heavy responsibility alone again.

After the war, Tara was devastated, her mother died, her father was demented, her two sisters were infected with typhoid fever, and all the food in the family was taken away by the Yankees. She came home empty-handed with Melanie who had just given birth. Now Scarlett has nothing to rely on. Everyone looked at her and asked her, "What should I do?"

Scarlett stood on Tara's land, clenched her fist and swore, "As God is my witness, the Yankees can't beat me. I will stick to it, and when I get through this, I will never go hungry again. Never let the people I love go hungry again. Even if I have to steal and kill. "

Soon, under Scarlett's personal practice and forced high pressure, Tara's production and operation slowly got on the right track. Scarlett also suddenly changed from an elegant aristocratic lady to a housewife with rough hands and sharp personality.

3, to achieve the goal by hook or by crook

There is always an indomitable spirit in Scarlett's bones. She has no profound thoughts and is not bound by moral concepts. Once she has set a goal, she will try her best to achieve it, not only for Ashley, but also for other things. Like Tara.

Under Scarlett's painstaking efforts, Tara gradually recovered her anger, but was told to collect 300 gold coins. Otherwise, she will lose Tara, which is tantamount to killing Scarlett.

In order to raise taxes, she ran around all the people around her, and finally locked in Rhett, only Rhett had the financial resources. She also knows her charm in Rhett's eyes, but she doesn't know Rhett's love for herself.

So, she appeared in front of Rhett in a dress modified by curtains, trying to make Rhett fall in love with her and lend her money obediently. At this time, she doesn't love Rhett. She just catches Rhett as a big fish, and the bait is her charm, even herself.

Scarlett flew into a rage when Rhett revealed her true intentions and was told that he had no money and could do nothing about her present situation.

But as soon as she got out of prison, she cleaned up and searched for prey again. This time, the prey is Frank, the fiance of my sister Suellen who happened to meet.

Her eyes lit up when she learned that Frank had three hundred gold coins in his hand. She knew that even if her selfish sister Suellen married Frank, she would never pay to save Tara.

Therefore, she obviously despises the old and ugly Frank, but she still wants to flatter him with extremely strong spirit. Finally, she successfully married Frank, raised taxes and saved Tara.

4. Look ahead and never feel sorry for yourself.

After the war, the old-school aristocrats in the south felt uncomfortable all over.

The family is destroyed and the scenery is no longer there. Everything needs to start from the beginning, from the beginning. In this state, everyone presents a variety of different mentality, some are at a loss, unable to find their own means of livelihood and poor; Some are obsessed with the glory of the past and are unwilling to wake up for a long time; Only a few people, put down their bodies and start from the bottom to rebuild their lives.

Scarlett is undoubtedly the best of this group. She quickly found her place and began to develop her career map.

Under her management, Tara has become one of the best manors in the region. After marrying Frank, she got involved in Frank's shop, had her own ideas and personally implemented them, and soon the shop was full of vitality.

When she heard about the plan to run a sawmill from Frank, she immediately smelled business opportunities. In order to borrow money, she and Rhett put aside their differences and set up a sawmill. Even during pregnancy, she happily shuttled back and forth between the sawmill and home. Under her management, the sawmill prospered and soon developed into two.

She is a woman who is exposed to gossip. Her daily thought is to make money, make money, make money, and then use the money to support Tara, the Ashley family, Aunt Pitty, Yuri Eberwein's menstruation, and indirectly support Rhett's mother.

She has a shrewd business mind, a clear plan and a forward-looking vision for her career, and she does it when she thinks of it, never giving herself a chance to feel sad and miss the past.

She is not afraid of gossip, and she is determined to do what she thinks is right and crush the moral code of conduct in the south.

Rhett looked at Scarlett as if he had seen himself before he became rich. The more he knows, the more he admires him.

When everyone was fascinated by Scarlett's beauty, he loved her tenacious, ambitious and powerful heart.

Because I know that I am deeply in love. Because of deep love, I am tolerant.

If Scarlett entrusts herself to Rhett, Rhett is the best companion, who can analyze the pros and cons of business for her, share the joy of making money with her, give her advice and help her. As long as Scarlett is willing, they will be the most married couple and the most harmonious partner.

But the fly in the ointment is that Scarlett only loves Ashley, with no bottom line and no principles. No matter how hard Rhett tried, he couldn't wake her up. Rhett has long been afraid of Scarlett's stubbornness, but he will never stop until he reaches his goal.

Over the years, Ashley seems to have grown up in Scarlett's body. In her mind, loving Ashley has become a habit of Scarlett, a secret happiness and a driving force for struggle.

For Scarlett's passion of loving Ashley, Rhett suffered a lot and was exhausted under a series of severe blows from fate.

Just then, Melanie died. Melanie's death seemed to satisfy Scarlett and Ashley. But the fact is, Melanie's death made Scarlett thoroughly understand that there was an imaginary love between herself and Ashley, and she was pressing hard, but Ashley was reluctant.

In fact, Ashley only loves Melanie, and she also falls in love with Rhett unconsciously.

Only Rhett's love can dispel her fears, fill her sadness and support her weakness. But what did you do?

Over the years, I have been guarding the most abundant lake, but I have been begging for fish by the tree. I'm stupid. I'll give up the whole forest for a dead tree.

Knowing this fact, Scarlett thought that if she told Rhett, she could bury the hatchet. However, no one will wait forever, especially Rhett.

It seems that Scarlett still has a long way to go to win back Rhett's heart.

However, she is not afraid, because tomorrow is always another day.